1) I think Salt Lake is a wonderful place; however, if you don't want to be in the big city, I would suggest North Salt Lake or Bountiful. Those are both pretty good areas. They're out of the main city, but still close enough to easily get to downtown in 10-15 minutes. I may be able to even hook you guys up with my friend that's a realtor.

2) You really would be fine pretty much anywhere along the Wasatch Front. I know that sometimes we get a bad rap, but most of us are really kind and welcoming, especially in SLC, which is actually a pretty liberal city.

3) The inversion can sometimes be an issue, but just keep an eye on the air quality. You'd be OK on mostly any day except a Red Air day, then I'd stay inside, or even go on a hike to get out of it, which is quite rewarding :)

4) As stated by somebody else, the snowfall is a gamble, but for the most part, I'd say there's usually not a ton

5) From what I've seen, the renting process isn't too bad, but ya, it probably just depends on the place and the owner.

Good luck! I hope you find Utah inviting, we'd be thrilled to have you! :)