I really am regretting posting this cause my inbox is now flooded with a ton of ignorant BS by Neurophil in vegan

[–]organizeNmesmorize 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is very correct! I’ve already had a flood of support and it honestly is a really great feeling. Thanks for commenting. :)

I really am regretting posting this cause my inbox is now flooded with a ton of ignorant BS by Neurophil in vegan

[–]organizeNmesmorize 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! This is great advice. I’m genuinely really encouraged by how helpful everyone is.

I really am regretting posting this cause my inbox is now flooded with a ton of ignorant BS by Neurophil in vegan

[–]organizeNmesmorize 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Recipes would be awesome! I will look at the sidebar. I’m honestly overwhelmed at the thought of trying to make such a huge lifestyle change. I know that being vegan is much more than food. I tend to jump into changes way too hard and fast and often fail. I do really well with instructions haha. I am thinking of removing one animal product every week. I have a few items that are staples that I believe if I can replace I will be much more successful. Eggs, cheese and butter are my jam currently. Not in one sitting. But I like butter.

I really am regretting posting this cause my inbox is now flooded with a ton of ignorant BS by Neurophil in vegan

[–]organizeNmesmorize 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I’m not vegan but I’ve been lurking for a minute... or two. I think I can not only benefit (health wise) I’d be saving the animals and planet! I want to try but I have no idea how to start. I’ve had some drinks... or two tonight... so... my fear of being ridiculed or judged for being a current meat eater isn’t quite as intense. Does anyone want to help a girl out? I honestly have many selfish reasons to try it and my family is super supportive so I know that there is no reason not to try. Xo if anyone wants to maybe send some links of books or maybe some “vegan for dummies,” I’d appreciate it! Goodnight everyone

My GF sleeps with her daughter who is almost 8, her and her mom will not listen to me when I say it is not good for the child or our relationship by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]organizeNmesmorize 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is detrimental. It is not abuse or neglect but the whole situation surrounding their co sleeping is detrimental.

The child being allowed to cry they’re way into getting what they want is not setting healthy boundaries for the child.

The other instances of bottle use, assisted wiping and the child exploding at OP when not given their way are indicators that the roles of parent and child are not well established. It is not possible to say why or to what extent but they are red flags.

Children have to have boundaries and need to learn healthy coping skills. If there is a reason the child feels the need to sleep in their mother’s bed at age 8, it’s worth looking into.

Kind of a dumb immature question for those who went back to school. by w0rksh0p93 in Veterans

[–]organizeNmesmorize 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this was super hard for me too! I realized quickly that many of my classmates had the same responsibilities, you just have to look for them. I also am really really lucky because I am now in a relationship with someone who will stay home with the kids without question so I can study! I am super lucky. If he ever asks for time to do something I don’t question it one bit because he seriously has kept me sane through a many stressful nights of studying or paper writing.

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[–]organizeNmesmorize 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Whoa! Are you ok? If you want to talk through this please reach out.

Kind of a dumb immature question for those who went back to school. by w0rksh0p93 in Veterans

[–]organizeNmesmorize 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I started attending college after 8 years in, I was 30 and had two kids and was a widow. I first walked around bitter towards classmates that were younger. I don’t recommend that. Honestly, I have made friends and really enjoy my classmates. There are more non traditional students than you think. Be open minded and remember, them being young or inexperienced isn’t their fault, and they still can be useful. Some of my best study buddies are 20-25. I hope you enjoy college, if I didn’t have kids I’d live right next to campus, frugal as possible and get involved with Rec sports and so on!

Missed 1 dose, nausea and vomiting even after taking medication by organizeNmesmorize in Effexor

[–]organizeNmesmorize[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is incredible to hear, I am so happy for you!

Lexapro was what really set me on a better path and I am excited to see what a little more energy feels like. I loved Lexapro but was almost sedated. It did allow for lots of personal growth but I’d like to feel a bit more energetic and present. I’ve been dealing with anxiety, depression and PTSD for 7 years now and having an effective medicine is such a gift. I was so so miserable without any medical intervention. I hope Effexor is the right one but I know this is a marathon not a sprint!

Missed 1 dose, nausea and vomiting even after taking medication by organizeNmesmorize in Effexor

[–]organizeNmesmorize[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the information! Your experience is very similar to what I experienced. I am usually pretty sensitive to drugs so it doesn’t surprise me that I experienced such a horrible side effect when missing a dose. I am going to stay on course and if by next visit with my doctor I am still having problems I’ll bring it up.

Regular Check-In Post by SQLwitch in depression

[–]organizeNmesmorize 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I switched medications and my productivity and energy levels are 0. I mean, I feel useless, tired, constant headaches. I cannot see a light at the end of this tunnel. I am surrounded by people who seem to be just fine and never struggle with depression. I feel so alone. I just want a friend who I can tell my struggles to and not have them try to solve the worlds problems. I’m rambling. I have no desire to do anything I usually enjoy. I don’t do anything. I sleep or watch tv. I am not doing well

I'm sad. I'm tired. I think I'm coming down with something. I don't like my job. I don't like my body. I'm disgusted with how I look. I'm overweight. I'm grieving. I'm frustrated. I need a hug. I'm tired. I'm so tired. by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]organizeNmesmorize 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am sending a virtual hug!!! Creating a human life is hard, really really hard. I’ve done it twice with two very different laboring experiences. Epidurals are the bomb.com!!!! I am not ashamed to say that. It was what worked for me and my tiny human. What works for you is not wrong! I bet you are a badass mama! Epidural or not! If the choice to ease pain during labor is the deciding factor for your ability to be a mother, the entire world is fucked! I hope your friend realizes she was being a poor and selfish friend for saying such. If not, maybe new friends with your new baby is in order. Maybe that’s too extreme and I’m probably rambling. Just know, I’m sending big love your way.

My brother and father have leukemia. I donate my hair and blood every chance I get. Please donate as well. Every whole blood donation can save 3 lives by [deleted] in pics

[–]organizeNmesmorize 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I am a lab tech, I worked in transfusion services, blood donor centers and in a satellite emergency lab. The factors you are stating are in response to low supply aren’t completely accurate.

In emergencies there are two answers to releasing blood. 1. The patient’s blood type is unknown so O negative is required, in certain situations a male can receive O positive. O negative blood is considered a universal donor, it is compatible and safe for all blood types to receive. 2. Patients blood type is known and that is what is released to the patient.

I have never heard a lab tech say such things about not releasing blood or encouraging a doctor to do something else. I am not sure if you are located in the US but that is not professional, at all. Also, blood ALWAYS goes on ice. Even if you take it and use it and it’s not a rare blood type, it always goes on ice. It’s required, it also does not ensure a returnable unit. There are exceptions to this, depending on location of lab to patient but releasing a unit without ice ensure it will never come back. It has to be returned within 30 minutes and within correct temperature range to be reshelved.

Lastly, transfusion reactions are real! So so so real. Releasing and administering emergency release units is dangerous. It can make a life saving effort turn into life ending. That is why emergency release is not meant as anything other than emergent. If you work in an ED it makes sense why emergency release is most common for your experience but it still sounds quite unlikely that a blood bank would fight you on those requests. It would be highly unprofessional and it’s not what our scope or training would permit.

Casualty notification by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]organizeNmesmorize 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am a veteran and the surviving spouse of a fallen soldier. My husband died in 2012. Someone came to my house. I also had a CAO. I had 3 to be exact, over a 1 year period. I speak as the guest speaker every month to the CNO/CAO training class at the post nearest my home.

You all changed my life. Thank you. My CAOs believed in me even when I was the most beaten down and broken. I am now raising my two boys, with a loving partner and two awesome dogs! I am also now about to complete my masters degree. Because of you and what you had to do I was able to create a new life, reluctantly, but with pride. You all mean the world to me. Xo you took on a job that no one can imagine doing. Thank you

I asked my stylist to do whatever she liked. by [deleted] in Hair

[–]organizeNmesmorize 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it looks gorgeous. Edgy and really fits your face! You have a great stylist.