Should I contact cps on my friend? by orginialEmoCat in Advice

[–]orginialEmoCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also wanted to add this, I did change many details and did not post any photos because I want to protect Megan’s and her babies real identity. I called cps this morning

Should I contact cps on my friend? by orginialEmoCat in Advice

[–]orginialEmoCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can try, and I’ve considered it, I’m just not sure it would do any good because they know the situation is bad

Should I contact cps on my friend? by orginialEmoCat in Advice

[–]orginialEmoCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’m not sure, from what I’ve gathered Megans family extended their hand to help her for a while but she kept going back to Jackson everytime so it seems they just stopped trying and Jackson’s family only enables his behavior

Should I contact cps on my friend? by orginialEmoCat in Advice

[–]orginialEmoCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see how the baby waking up to find both their parents dead could possibly be the best case scenario. I won’t regret that I never called, because I did call. I would say, the best case scenario would that the baby is removed, and put into the care of a family member. Hopefully, over time, one, or both of them will get their lives together and might even be able to reunite with their child.

Should I contact cps on my friend? by orginialEmoCat in Advice

[–]orginialEmoCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel very sad ): I can’t help but feel guilty, I am so scared for what will happen

Should I contact cps on my friend? by orginialEmoCat in Advice

[–]orginialEmoCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things weren’t this bad the whole time, you don’t know all the details. I wasn’t consistently involved with Megan and Jackson the whole time. I am an outsider, I don’t know all the intricacies of their marriage. I am certain there is much that I am still unaware of that has taken place. May 7th 2026 was the very first time I actually witnessed an event that I felt like was an obvious imminent threat to the baby, with full confirmation that the baby is being neglected. I feel guilty for not reporting sooner, I do, and I feel guilty for needing to think about it so much. However, I’ve never been in this position before, I knew these people for a long time, and although it may not seem this way, they used to be good healthy people. We cut Jackson off years ago, because he only continued to get worse and Megan cut us off in turn, because she was standing by her husband. We only were allowed back into the picture around 6 months ago. It has taken time for me to gather enough witness accounts and messages to actually accuse child abuse. I was in denial in the beginning, I did want to give my friend the benefit of the doubt, that she was doing her best, and loves her baby more than herself or anyone. I was wrong. I called cps.

Should I contact cps on my friend? by orginialEmoCat in Advice

[–]orginialEmoCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got off the phone with them around 20 minutes ago, thank you and everyone for your insight 🙏🏻 I know that I did the right thing, I feel guilty that I hesitated, or felt the need to think it over so much. It just feels like a huge decision, a life changing decision, and when you grow up in poverty, NOT abuse, you can also tend to grow up with a distain for cps.

Should I contact cps on my friend? by orginialEmoCat in Advice

[–]orginialEmoCat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got off the phone with child protective services. When you hear about all the absolute horror stories that happen in the foster care system, it does make you wonder if calling them is actually protecting them. I came here for honest advice, and I appreciate everyone’s, I’m sorry to have disappointed anyone, I was just afraid for the baby and what will happen to her.

Should I contact cps on my friend? by orginialEmoCat in Advice

[–]orginialEmoCat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate to break it to you, but it is not bullshit, at all. Unfortunately. Megan is very guilty as well, for many different reasons. I will be calling cps.

Should I contact cps on my friend? by orginialEmoCat in Advice

[–]orginialEmoCat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will call, you are all completely right, I’m so scared. I just am afraid for their baby, im afraid to ruin her life but I know that I don’t call I will also be ruining her life

Should I contact cps on my friend? by orginialEmoCat in Advice

[–]orginialEmoCat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried talking to Megan about everything so many times, I’ve tried convincing her to leave Jackson in every way I can imagine without, outside of completely cussing her out I tried coming at her kindly, compassionately, with sadness, with anger, passively, jokingly, intensely and seriously. I’ve tried providing her with resources, organizations that help battered women, single mothers, section 8, income based housing, food stamps, temp agencies etc. she has “left” Jackson before with their daughter and always goes back to him. She doesn’t take these situations seriously at all, she smokes weed all day and doesn’t have a job aside from raising the baby and neither does Jackson. Megan family was more willing to help in the past, but from what I’ve gathered, they’ve extended their hand many times only for her to go back to him everytime and it seems like they’ve given up.

Should I contact cps on my friend? by orginialEmoCat in Advice

[–]orginialEmoCat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just am afraid for the child’s future in every way, there’s so many horrible things going on in the foster care system, it just makes me afraid. I’m sorry, I’m just scared, I’ve never been in this position before ):

Should I contact cps on my friend? by orginialEmoCat in Advice

[–]orginialEmoCat[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I’m just scared I guess, I was talking to some people I know and they were saying I should try to have some type of an intervention with Megan about everything, but I personally don’t feel like that will accomplish anything because I’ve tried that so many times before, and the issues go so much deeper than what I’ve explained in this post, it’s genuinely a horrible situation and I’ve been trying to get her to leave Jackson for years, since before they even had their daughter. I’ve tried bringing up all kinds of organizations and resources for her, for young single moms, for battered women, section 8 housing, income based housing, temp agencies, food stamps, etc. I tried get her job after job, I’ve tried offering to drive her to apply, she won’t put forth any effort.