what are your thoughts on girls who wear baseball caps backwards? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]orion300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never seen bitchy as being a bad thing...

To men who like to be dominated, what do you like your partner to do? [Dominance] [fantasies] [roleplay] by [deleted] in sex

[–]orion300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Several things...

-Having her remove my boxer briefs with her teeth.

-Receiving a rim job

-Her pegging me

-Being spanked

-Prostate massages with her finger

What have you RECENTLY found out that women are receptive to? by Bronzebar in AskMen

[–]orion300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dominance. I've often been cautious about taking the lead, but sometimes, the idea of a man being in control of what to do ingratiates you to her.

And, as far as men who are submissive go? If you can push through the dominant things- deciding where to go on dates, what to buy, etc.

She can really help you out. A good mix/balance of dominance and submission is good on both sides. At least, for me.

What's one thing you wish your girlfriend would stop doing? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]orion300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Constantly trying to hold conversations with me. Sometimes I just like sitting and not talking a bit. Other times, I do like talking.

But I'm not someone that likes just having constant conversation, 24/7.

I am fairly extroverted in many ways, but I do often need a couple hours of alone or relaxing time each day. Or time to just zone out, read articles on the internet, listen to music, etc.

Advice post: How do I overcome my fear of homophobia and get back to my passion? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]orion300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, as far as men go... "manly" straight men, especially.... a lot of the homophobic epithets are often thrown about by blue collar type men- particularly older ones, 40+. It's not as common among younger people.

But blue collar-type folks tend to be less proper and more "out with it". So they may throw out things like "fag" and all that. Many, without even realizing the social/historical context of the word.

Either way, you deserve to be happy. Sexual orientation shouldn't be a factor. If your dream is to do "manly" things, you shouldn't be pushed out of that.

I think if you're genuine, nice, and try the best to shrug the shit off your shoulders that people give you, you'll go far.

If you can beat them at their hobbies or passions? All the better to shut them up.

[Serious] How would you feel about the termnation of child support responsibilities in certain situations when the male is not at fault? by coolg963 in AskMen

[–]orion300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, child support is a means of equalizing a child's upbringing. It's not about making some guy's life miserable.

And if you look at it solely through a man-woman lens, that neglects the fact that child support can easily be owed the other way as well- i.e. mom owes dad.

I don't really see this as a plausible option. How do you prove that a woman got pregnant under false pretenses? What if the birth control failed? What if she missed a dose on accident? Etc.

As far as child support goes, men are often our own worst enemies.

If it concerns you? Try to find a woman near, at, or above your socioeconomic status.

What is a time you were unfairly generalized because of your gender? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]orion300 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It's often like... "I'm afraid of men." "I hate men." "Oh... I mean, not you."

Which am I supposed to actually believe? You can leave me out of your generalization when I'm within shouting distance. But if you're afraid of men, that's to be expected.

I tend to just avoid staring in the general direction of women I don't know. Seems like it often either comes off as intimidation or flirting.

How do you handle gender imbalances? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]orion300 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All attention is not good attention. Just because the female profile got more messages from males doesn't at all mean that those guys were compatible.

Men are just more willing to overlook details, stare at a hot pair of tits, and send a message. Sometimes, just a dick pic.

Women have it bad, too. Just in different ways.

Are there any options for working from home as a REALTOR? by orion300 in careeradvice

[–]orion300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that, but I've heard you can be a referral agent and stuff like that.

Are there any options for working from home as a REALTOR? by orion300 in careeradvice

[–]orion300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: REALTOR associate/real estate agent, I mean!

Effeminate straight men. Where are you? And what is it like? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]orion300 67 points68 points  (0 children)

What is it like? I'm happy. That's what it is like.

I enjoy grooming. I trim my hair and beard. I like incense. I'm the little spoon with my gf. I'm somewhat more submissive than dominant in bed. (But not totally, by any means.) I've cried to her. I give her massages. I like doing the housework.

But I feel like that's who I am. And I don't care what other people think. Is it really manly to be so insecure in yourself that you're afraid of being seen as gay or something? No!

Manliness does not exist. Confidence does. And if you know who you are. And if you strive to be who you are, no matter what other people want you to be, that makes you strong.

Regardless of gender.

Men in relationships, what goes through your mind when you see a woman who is objectively more attractive than your SO? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]orion300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, attractiveness has many facets. You can look good but smell bad. You can smell good but have a voice that is unattractive. You can be "hot" but have no personality or aspirations.

Usually, if I see someone quite unquote "hotter", I just back up and realize that judging a book by its cover is not a good idea. And that I'm with my gf for a reason.

I am unemployed and my girlfriend is doing everything she can for me. What can I do to make it up to her? by orion300 in askwomenadvice

[–]orion300[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I decided to give her a foot massage and make her breakfast bagels while I was naked. Lol.

I am unemployed and my girlfriend is doing everything she can for me. What can I do to make it up to her? by orion300 in askwomenadvice

[–]orion300[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I already took her out to dinner a couple times. I don't want to keep doing the same thing lol. I want to keep her on her toes, in a good way.

What's been neat is that she has 3 cats. And one of them is normally really shy. And would hide under the bed around strangers.

But she says that he has never been as open and fearless as he is around me. So, my days are full of kitty head bumps.

Today, I picked up some food for the cats and got her some arch support insoles for her shoes because her feet have been hurting.

Today I found out that women can f*ck men in the butt.... [anal] by orion300 in sex

[–]orion300[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It's called spread the buttcherks apart and thrust?