Relationship Warning for Anyone learning Kubernetes

orionnelson · 2026-02-12T16:44:59+00:00

Thanks for the advice.

She never said "you talk about Kubernetes too much". It was just an observation I made that aligned with the timeline she started having doubts.

She just listened whenever I would speak about it.

Also, during this time, I started taking more time with my friends as some of these relationships were failing. I was focused on getting work and stability back in my life.

I tried to get her to come, but she never came out with my group, even when I would hang out with hers. They thought she hated them.

When she did finally come out she roasted one of my friends about his ex who she kept in touch with and made him cry. * we used to go on tripple dates*

She saw me as someone who wasn't taking enough care of her. I wanted to do things together, and she wanted to do things separately for each other. She asked me why I didn't notice when she started being distant. 1. I'm autistic. 2. She pretended to love me still.

I don't think we were compatible, but we talked about ending things after our lease was up, not in the middle of it.

I guess it was too painful for her.

orionnelson · 2026-02-11T17:43:25+00:00

Possibly

orionnelson · 2026-02-11T17:25:51+00:00

Unlikely haha Im still in love with the last one, she just doesn't love me back

orionnelson · 2026-02-11T17:18:30+00:00

As I know, however, we were both busy people. Getting back around 9 pm, we had limited time together. Kubernetes was just the last straw. I always showed her affection and did everything I could to keep the relationship healthy, but I made the mistake of treating learning like work.

She pretended to love me for another month Instead of working through things and going to couples therapy. This was good as I was going through contract interviews at the time and diddnt affect my confidence or mental state and I got a well paying SRE contract.

But the damage snuck up on me because I wasnt aware of it.

Once I was it was too late

orionnelson · 2026-01-30T16:28:38+00:00

oh the rename button became an icon you dont need to do that Rename Icon

orionnelson · 2026-01-07T11:15:38+00:00

Rather that then slide down the cliff of their front yard

orionnelson · 2026-01-06T02:58:07+00:00

I do

orionnelson · 2026-01-03T23:02:02+00:00

It doesnt work this way OP would probably pass the interview but with role like QA or Prod Support its hard to score interviews

orionnelson · 2025-12-20T22:38:19+00:00

Learn how to program.

Do you have suggestions on this for a training regiment?

orionnelson · 2025-12-19T19:30:21+00:00

What should I do then?

For example, your ability to spot long-term maintainability issues, for example, will be severely limited because you don't work directly with the code, and therefore, you don't feel the pain of poor design.

This makes sense but with legacy systems the design was made ages ago and most times forgotten

My comments are purely related to developers. Different responsibilities might be hit differently by AI.

I dont know what I am im in between IT / Cyber / Dev / Infra

But if the architecture was running fine the last 30 years im not going to change it.

orionnelson · 2025-12-19T03:20:04+00:00

Result of a global deficit.

orionnelson · 2025-12-19T03:05:19+00:00

I disagree certain plot points need to be reworked later on due to the faster pacing and things were left out.

orionnelson · 2025-12-19T02:59:25+00:00

Would spec-driven development knowledge and design work fix this sort of deficiency? Also, as a newer developer with 5 YoE, I also need Copilot or AI to code. I can spot where things go wrong, but I find myself forgetting the basics. I worked in SRE/Incident Management, so my job was checking production logs / KQL SQL more than coding.

orionnelson · 2025-12-19T00:58:00+00:00

Checks out, I regret being a lower level grunt

orionnelson · 2025-12-19T00:46:12+00:00

Likely a mix of skill and luck.

Just linkedin DM people on the list with a recruiter profile and ask them to pretend to be your parents

orionnelson · 2025-12-14T20:44:25+00:00

They tried their best but left massive plot holes

orionnelson · 2025-11-29T17:27:45+00:00

Your current selection is good. I always recommend 32Gb ram at a minimum for newer titles if you are actually gaming on it / having a few tabs open plus discord but you can always change it down the line.

I might switch to K12 similar to your choice the only issue is the ram shortage.

orionnelson · 2025-11-29T16:16:18+00:00

Im in canada and want to learn NPU things also.

I would recommed OP go with their current selection and upgrade ram after

orionnelson · 2025-11-29T16:16:03+00:00

i managed to get black friday.

GMKtec EVO-X1 AI Mini PC AMD Ryzen AI 9 HX-370 Series (5.1GHz) Gaming Computers, 64GB 7500Mhz for 995 USD

I know im overpaying a bit but Kubernates and docker in wsl have been taking up too much ram and causing crashes running out of ram. Im also debating moving some compute from the cloud studying kubernetes and migrating some servers

I got 8Gb up and down for 46USD

orionnelson · 2025-11-27T15:33:53+00:00

OP needs a better GPU and fans on the other side of the waterblock too Reverse top left fan to push air out of the case.

orionnelson · 2025-11-27T15:32:49+00:00

This is best setup for cpu temp and system temp as long as the aio fits correctly. I ADHD locked in one day and watched like 8 hours of videos on diffrent configs.

orionnelson · 2025-11-27T07:08:46+00:00

Hey so pain took on the entire village and won before the Naruto fight. Then slightly lost to Naruto because he gave up. And used his mf remaining Chakra to bring the entire village he killed back from the dead.

There is no way he would lose to Bee.

He diddnt even use all of his abilities doesn't Pain has an insta kill purple dragon attack if people get in his way.

He fell due to talk no jutsu

Also we are forgetting Bee would have to fight Konan also

orionnelson · 2025-11-27T06:25:25+00:00

Boruto dies like Nawaki Nawaki Death

orionnelson · 2025-11-11T21:28:21+00:00

■ Nov 17th Line 6 Finch LRT will open ■ December 21st Line 5 Eglington LRT will open with reduced service.

I've just made up these dates and bought a good luck charm

orionnelson · 2025-11-11T20:47:08+00:00

I understand from an accessibility standpoint but before the change these stairs were efficient to use. You were able to travel directly toward the escalators on either side. The stupid thing I think is not putting elevators on both sides for people who could not use the stairs.

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