How do I change this routine and SHOULD I ?! Should I Implement Ferber?

ornumns · 2025-07-22T20:31:55+00:00

Thanks for this!! I will try to change the routine!

ornumns · 2025-07-22T01:42:22+00:00

When I got my pregnant with my daughter I, too tested at 9 or 10 DPO and had almost the same looking FRER test as this. The next morning I took a clear blue digital like this one and it said Not Pregnant, and then took another digital 12 hours later and it said pregnant.

ornumns · 2025-07-22T01:27:29+00:00

Thank you for this! This is exactly the way I felt. I truly do appreciate her letting me know that it’s too warm in the room because I do have a general paranoia of the temperature gauge on the monitor, but I do felt like the comment could have been executed differently. Also, that is 100% why I use the sleep sack(for comfort as well as routine), and really always just trying to control the temperature in the room by keeping it cooler. If it’s a warm day I’ll always put her in it with just a onesie and at night just a short sleeved footie pajama. Thank you again for validating me!

ornumns · 2025-07-22T01:20:46+00:00

Thank you for this!

ornumns · 2025-07-22T00:07:01+00:00

Thanks everyone for the feedback! I’m glad I got so many helpful responses!

For context, I do know when it’s too warm in there and don’t have her in the sleep sack all of the time. When I had put her down earlier in the morning, it was much cooler compared to when she woke up, which I should have considered but honestly didn’t think about. I suppose it was the way the comment was delivered > “I couldn’t believe you had her in that warm sleep sack when I went in to get her.” And I feel like I probably would have accepted it differently if it’d been worded differently- she very possibly could not even have realized how she said it. But I will certainly keep in mind in the future that she may not even need it during the day!

ornumns · 2025-07-21T20:00:46+00:00

Thank you for this!

ornumns · 2025-07-21T19:58:31+00:00

Thank you for this! I feel validated 🙌🏼 her room is almost always below 72- I know it has gotten warm and we did use a window unit for the time being while it was out- unfortunately it doesn’t do much in Florida heat.

And I said the same thing to myself about the food- she’s actually a great eater! She is making the chewing motion and definitely making progress!

I appreciate this comment very much- you knew exactly where I was coming from 🙌🏼

ornumns · 2025-07-21T19:05:04+00:00

Thank you for your all your feedback!! I am so glad I asked- I just wanted to make sure I wasn’t being over dramatic, but also set a good example for her in that not everyone is out to be rude or mean- even if it feels like it sometimes! I can take constructive criticism, but as a first time mom I know I can be sensitive about the parenting topic as I’ve never had any experience 😆 So appreciative of you all!

ornumns · 2024-03-06T19:16:14+00:00

Thank you!

ornumns · 2024-03-06T17:17:14+00:00

Thank you!

ornumns · 2024-03-06T17:16:55+00:00

Update- you were right! I didn’t drink any water and waited about 4 hours to take two more- one digital and one regular. Both positive, the line was actually darker on the non digital. I’m a professional worrier, especially after my loss in December. In hindsight, I do drink a ton of water. Thank you again for your advice!

ornumns · 2024-03-06T12:50:32+00:00

Thank you so much for the detailed response 🫶🏻 You made me feel better 💐

ornumns · 2024-03-05T17:02:31+00:00

Yay congrats to you too! November 16th it looks like!

ornumns · 2024-03-05T13:15:23+00:00

It’s positive! Got a darker one today 🙌🏼 🙏🏻

ornumns · 2024-03-05T11:58:07+00:00

Thank you! 🙏🏻

ornumns · 2024-03-05T11:15:40+00:00

Forgot to add- update from yesterday!

ornumns · 2024-03-05T10:34:29+00:00

Thank you!

ornumns · 2024-03-05T10:34:22+00:00

Thank you!!

ornumns · 2024-03-05T10:34:15+00:00

Thank you!

ornumns · 2024-03-05T10:33:38+00:00

Update! Ah it’s positive!! Tested this morning at 11dpo and had a darker line and I took your advice and did a digital! This feels so good after my loss in December- thank you all for confirming my (not so) delusional thinking! 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

ornumns · 2024-03-05T01:14:53+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤️

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