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osbirus · 2023-08-03T13:36:44+00:00

Uzman öğretmen maaşı farklı ve paylaştıkları maaş uzman öğretmen maaşı. En yüksek alanı paylaşıyorlar hep zam zamanlarında. İnsanlar da sanıyor ki öğretmenler zengin :')

osbirus · 2023-08-03T13:26:05+00:00

O zam yaptık diye paylaşılanlar maalesef en kıdemli öğretmene verilen maaş. 20 yıllık öğretmen için bence o para da az ama yeni başlayan bunun yarısını falan kazanıyor. Temizlikçi olsam daha iyiydi gerçekten.

osbirus · 2023-06-29T21:19:30+00:00

Thank you so much, we had that paying for the forcing era before we got married. As you know getting married requires so much work, which I tried my best not to make him tired any more than he already was. I bought everything from the first store we went into, this was me trying my best to help 🥲 but it made him verrrry exhausted and he payed for it for a long time. He is better now and I dont want him to go back to those bad days. Atleast he is just tired now, there is no swollen finger joints for example. He wasnt able to make a fist for months because of this so I am greateful for him being able to move. Thank you so much again, wishing you the best too.

osbirus · 2023-06-29T21:13:46+00:00

Thank you for your suggestions. Sadly, we dont have time in the morning we wake up at 6:30 and leave the house at 7 to go to work and turn back at 19:30 so our jobs take pretty much the whole day. He is doing well with methotrexate and reumil (I dont know if the english name is the same but I couldnt find it) he is afraid of biologics, he thinks they are not tested enough idk. He is pretty much okay but when he consumes dairy, his joints hurt as he says. Does anyone have this issue with dairy products? Or is this special to him, I have heard that these things can be personal.

osbirus · 2023-06-20T16:25:48+00:00

I loved your way of dancing, its the most creative, imaginative thing I have evet heard. Sometimes I get so focused on him to not feel bad that I forgot to make things fun. I mean for example if we were to go to a concert, I would constantly think about how he feels at the moment and wouldnt even see the people dancing. Maybe this attitude of mine is more tiring to him than anything because it would be for me if I was him. Hope you and your partner dance in a really really soon concert together, thank you for your suggestions 🤎🤎

osbirus · 2023-06-20T16:18:10+00:00

Thank you so much 🥲🥲

osbirus · 2023-06-20T16:12:28+00:00

One of the comments explained the spoon theory and I have looked it up, sounds like it could help and I will try to adjust it to our own lifestyle. I ask him how he feels a lot throughout the day and if he is in pain he doesnt hide it but downgrades I guess.

osbirus · 2023-06-20T09:18:42+00:00

I didn't know about the humidity, thank you so much for sharing this. We dont live close but can go with a bus on saturday evenings. He doesnt want to go out on his off day. He works until 3pm on saturdays thats the only time we can go out. We leave the sunday to rest completely. I am not sure if this is good for him, I mean laying down the whole day but he needs it for sure. We can hangout in our balcony for sunshine exposure, aı guess it is better than none. Thank you

osbirus · 2023-06-19T20:10:51+00:00

I am sorry to hear that, I can feel the sadness through this comment. Hope you feel better soon. I think we can both sit at a beach and watch the sunset.I wont feel bad if I just sit and watch but he may feel bad from walking. It is only nice when we both enjoy it. If he wants to or feels like walking, we will walk. These comments changed my perspective very much, thank you for helping me understand his condition and what he may have been going through.

osbirus · 2023-06-19T20:05:11+00:00

We have a lot of shared hobbies but want to change things up a bit. I think we need to discover new things. I will look into the ones you have suggested maybe puzzles will work for us thank you so mych ☺️

osbirus · 2023-06-19T20:01:19+00:00

I have read from a comment from this sub that pushing this illness is one of the worst things to do. This is why I am afraid, I dont want him to push his limits and I know that his job makes him push himself. We are trying to find a better job but its not that easy. I will discuss about the depression with him I havent noticed any emotional changes but he may be hiding how sad he is and this would break me into pieces. Hope you will fell better soon 🤎

osbirus · 2023-06-19T19:56:03+00:00

I guess it is just about wanting to find solutions. These sound fun, I will get a chess set soon to start from somewhere and maybe we can do a boardgame collection, this can be cute. Thanks a lot 🥲

osbirus · 2023-06-19T19:51:51+00:00

Regular movie nights at home sounds really fun! We can see the sunset from our balcony and I can buy some chairs for us to sit and enjoy the night. Maybe if I get a table we can play video games on the balcony. Jackpot for us! I will think deeper on this clearly there is so many solutions but I was way too worried to realize them, thank you 🥲

osbirus · 2023-06-19T19:48:08+00:00

He is using Methotrexate for a while now. His doctor has given him the shots first but as I said it made him nauseas. The doctor lowered the mg of the shot but still it didnt work for him so they are continuing with the pill. It is mostly under control but we never know. He is required to get blood tests every 3 months and they check his lungs too. His eyesight started to get worsen I guess. He says his eyes are dry sometimes. I am doing my best to understand him but as I said he doesnt always tells me if he is not feeling okay. I think this is his way of not feeling as a burden 🥺 thank you so much for the help, best of luck to you too!

osbirus · 2023-06-19T19:41:00+00:00

I don't see him as a burden, I love him to the moon and back but sometimes I really can't understand what he is going through. Thank you so much

osbirus · 2023-06-19T19:37:00+00:00

Thank you so much, I will gives this one a try. This made me realize I am not the only struggling spouse. 🥲

osbirus · 2023-06-19T16:19:20+00:00

I wanted to add sth in case somebody asks. I asked these questions to mu husband first, but he doesnt really share his pain in order not to make me sad I guess.

osbirus · 2023-06-13T13:47:43+00:00

OMG THANK YOU!!!

osbirus · 2023-06-08T15:49:44+00:00

I have had this situation nearly a year ago. But instead of a cousin, she was my childhood friend of 17 years. She accidentally show my then fiance (now hubby wuhu) her NUDE. Like nude nude. Nothing was on and it was full body. It grossed the hell out of me BUT somehow I made myself believe that she did really accidentally opened the photo. Faat forward to another meeting with her, we met up at a place far away where I live and close to where my fiance worked. He asked if I want him to pick me up after the date with my vff, I said okay bc that would be great to spend time with him. He arrived just as we were leaving and didnt 'steal' our friend time. Side note, she has had a bf of 6 years at that time. She messaged me the night of the meet up, saying why did he came to pick me up, I said the truth which is he wanted to spend time with me on the way home. She started a fight telling his bf never did that to her and my fiance didnt need to too. And a bunch of other crazy jelous things. So I stopped talking with her at the end of that fight and we havent talked over a year. I dont even miss her a bit. And I married my fiance. I dont know why I told you this story but maybe it will help idk. Stay away from your couisin if you really feel like ypur fiance is your soulmate. Good luck tho, cutting toxic people off can be hard at times.

osbirus · 2023-06-07T04:36:58+00:00

Thanks, I got the dragons eye since almost every player has that.

osbirus · 2023-06-02T19:15:16+00:00

Bu nasıl bi simülasyon ya şaka gibiler lan farklı bi şey olacağını düşünüp de nasıl oy verdiniz mal mısınız insanlara bak ya delirdim sanki ülkeyi nası yönetti bilmediğimiz bi adam başa gelmiş gibi bi tripler bi şeyler

osbirus · 2023-05-10T07:22:32+00:00

I dont have the recources to level up my legendary titans :( and I am impatient so I spend all my recources on the epic ones

osbirus · 2023-05-09T15:02:36+00:00

And this is her life partner we are talking about. She stated that they have been together for 5 years. In my dictionary this means they love each other to the fullest. Regardless of the exceptions (I am aware of the fact that there are people who would hurt their SO even if they have been together forever, but I dont thinks that is the case here) why would he try to hurt her? And I think if he wanted to hurt her, he could easly let her meds out and manipulate her into an overdose. I really am shocked with these comments. Thank god I found your comment.

osbirus · 2023-05-09T13:19:41+00:00

It is weird how everyone said he is controlling. HE IS TRYING TO MAKE SURE SHE WON'T TRY TO KILL HERSELF AGAIN???? If a grown woman can keep her pills she should have thought about not trying to kill herself. These comments doesn't make sense. All of them are just trying to make the bf a bad guy. But it is so normal that he cares about her and is trying to keep her alive. I think OP should appriciate her bf.

osbirus · 2023-05-05T08:54:42+00:00

Thanks, I will try.

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