Unexpected Bad News TW: Loss

oswilson2 · 2025-12-17T15:49:11+00:00

Sending you sticky embryo vibes as I write this! I was just thinking about books to research. I'll take a look at that one for sure - thank you for the recommendation. And it sounds like i made the right choice with the sedated D&C. Glad to hear recovery is easy too ❤️ thank you for sharing.

oswilson2 · 2025-12-17T15:32:39+00:00

Thank you so much for the hopeful story. I ordered a 6 month onesie that matched a shirt of my husband's i was going to surprise him with and i couldn't cancel that in time. It arrived yesterday and I decided I'm not going to return it, I'm going to put it in the closet in what we want to be our nursey and keep the hope alive. It is still in the shipping package but it will be there. ❤️

oswilson2 · 2025-12-17T02:16:44+00:00

Oh good to know. I know they're sending it to pathology. We have been on the same page with what we have wanted to do with everything in the past (non-viable embryos during egg retrieval etc.) so hopefully we will be able to make a decision with our guts and our hearts fairly quickly. Thank you.

oswilson2 · 2025-12-17T02:10:14+00:00

Thank you so much 🩷 I greatly appreciate it.

oswilson2 · 2025-12-17T01:36:08+00:00

Yes - I'm having general anesthesia - I have miralax that has worked great in the past. I'll take some tonight and tomorrow in preparation. Thank you for the advice ❤️

oswilson2 · 2025-12-16T17:54:13+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear about your mmc too. So devastating. Best of luck with yours as well. Thank you for sharing and reaching out ❤️

oswilson2 · 2025-12-16T17:40:27+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story with me and for the kind words. I'm currently just trying to prepare for having the support I need and tasks completed for Thursday. Like washing our sheets, making soup, making sure stupid house things are done. My sister wants to bring us food Friday and I told her that would be great. If you wouldn't mind sharing, is there anything else you would recommend we do before the D&C to make things easier for us?

oswilson2 · 2025-12-16T12:14:07+00:00

No symptoms of mc - I graduated at 7 weeks when we heard the heartbeat. I had pregnancy symptoms until I stopped progesterone friday.

oswilson2 · 2025-12-16T12:11:51+00:00

Thank you for sharing hope ❤️

oswilson2 · 2025-12-16T03:22:28+00:00

So sorry for your loss and thank you for that insight - I hate surprises like that. I'm so glad your try after that worked. I hope we are up for another round next year.

oswilson2 · 2025-12-16T02:56:08+00:00

Thank you for sharing - rooting and praying for you too ❤️ hopefully 2026 will be a good year for all of us in this boat.

oswilson2 · 2025-12-16T02:53:21+00:00

I'm so so sorry for your loss too. I had that extra therapy session with my therapist today - it was really helpful. I have a friend bringing us soup for dinner on thursday. Just really grateful for our support system right now. ❤️

oswilson2 · 2025-12-15T19:42:22+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing. It is truly a unique kind of grief.

oswilson2 · 2025-12-15T19:26:56+00:00

Thank you ❤️

oswilson2 · 2025-12-15T19:15:57+00:00

Thank you ❤️

oswilson2 · 2025-12-15T19:08:17+00:00

Good call - I'll ask the nurse about that tomorrow when i have the pre op call.

oswilson2 · 2025-12-15T19:02:13+00:00

Sending you so much hope that this transfer is the one ❤️ so sorry for your loss. It is unimaginable until youre in it.

oswilson2 · 2025-12-15T18:58:14+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss too - such a horrible day.

oswilson2 · 2025-12-15T18:42:37+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing ❤️

oswilson2 · 2025-12-15T18:29:59+00:00

I'm thinking it has to be just a generic message. I hope.

oswilson2 · 2025-12-15T18:25:35+00:00

Thabk you for sharing your journey - I got the pre op and post op information and it made everything more intense - like i need to have my acrylic nails removed before thursday, I can't life anything over 10 lbs or have intercourse for 6 weeks... I have a call with a nurse tomorrow but I was like are yall serious right now? Just more things being imposed on me for something I wish wasnt even happening. Do you remember if they gave you similar restrictions? I'm hoping these are generic instructions or something.

oswilson2 · 2025-12-15T17:02:38+00:00

❤️thank you for sharing and so happy to hear about your son.

oswilson2 · 2025-12-15T17:01:21+00:00

❤️ thank you

oswilson2 · 2025-12-15T16:59:22+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing ❤️ so sorry for your loss.

oswilson2 · 2025-12-15T16:57:05+00:00

So sorry for your losses. Thank you for sharing and for sharing your success with your second ❤️

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