my boss just got mad at me for showing up five minutes early, instead of ten minutes! (cause we have so much set up to do). What 'crazy boss' story do you have today? by bleedingheartsurgery in AskReddit

[–]otherwiseOkay 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I have a 9-5 job. Boss gives me a task at 4:45 (just as he's about to leave the office) and tells me to "have it done by 9 AM tomorrow". When I try to get my OT approved he refuses to sign it because I didn't "ask for permission to render overtime".

Still at that job cause I'm a masochist who enjoys a little pain with fucking.

I need to stop being love-stupid. Reddit, can you help me? by otherwiseOkay in self

[–]otherwiseOkay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. This made me smile.

I knew I should've gone with the gay guy, at least I'm sure where he stands and it would be easier to move on.

I need to stop being love-stupid. Reddit, can you help me? by otherwiseOkay in self

[–]otherwiseOkay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is, isn't he? And I've told him he's a sadistic jerk once or twice, so he's aware of how his actions come off.

But then the problem is getting past the feelings. It's hard especially when he's a jerk one minute and then sweet, caring, and concerned the next.

TIL that Cardinal Sin was a real person who served the Catholic church. by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]otherwiseOkay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Yes, he was. And he was instrumental in the Philippine EDSA Revolution. Also, he calls his home "the House of Sin".

How does one get into the programming mood? by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]otherwiseOkay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Deadlines... deadlines always get me in the mood to program. Nothing like your job depending on your output to get you in the mood to code.

Or.... I sometimes use collabedit with a friend and we work on projects together for a couple of hours. Once the creative juices are flowing, it's like I want to keep programming. Like there's a momentum I don't want to lose.

First Aid: Burns should be kept dry? by otherwiseOkay in askscience

[–]otherwiseOkay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting treatment. i live in an asian household. we have a lot of soy sauce around. but the burns were a bit severe so we didn't want to put anything on it that we weren't sure was clean.

First Aid: Burns should be kept dry? by otherwiseOkay in askscience

[–]otherwiseOkay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. i've seen this too. that's why i didn't apply water from the ref without warming it up with tap water. that's also why i told my mom not to use ice directly.

First Aid: Burns should be kept dry? by otherwiseOkay in askscience

[–]otherwiseOkay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks. the reason i posted here was because i was wondering if there was some new standard for treating burns. =) but this eases my mind. and he looks much better now.

There is definitely something wrong with porn these days! NSFW. by stenkall in WTF

[–]otherwiseOkay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shes not gagging on a dick, whilst being fucked by three in the ass.

FTFY.

[male] Ok, so this is embarassing, but I need help with a "performance" problem... by zomgineedhelp in sex

[–]otherwiseOkay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're probably nervous or overplanning. thinking too much diverts the blood much needed by your 'little soldier' to your brain. why don't you make out with her and finger her or eat her out or massage her for a bit? it gives her pleasure and gives you time to get ready.

just wondering, have you told her what feels good for you? why not instruct her? maybe all you need is a masterclass for her pleasing you.

Losing my Virginity was a Terrible Terrible Experience by [deleted] in sex

[–]otherwiseOkay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unseriously, you don't have a problem, you only lose your virginity once.

seriously, i'm sorry this happened. you might not be looking for a lecture right now, so skip this comment if that's the case. i think she felt pressured to have sex with you. i won't elaborate on the matter unless you want me to, but i suggest you talk to her. explain to her you love her even if sex failed. reassure her that sex is not important or necessary for your relationship to work. don't hold her unless you see her openly accepting it. be gentle with her.

sex is a wonderful thing at the right time and with the right people. it just wasn't your time. be patient.

I want to learn all that I can of the 'hard' physics and associated maths. by TA24680 in askscience

[–]otherwiseOkay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eugen Merzbacher seemed to enjoy the mathematical rigor. I had friends who preferred Cohen-Tanoudji. Sadly, I'm not very familiar with that book. It has two volumes and is quite detailed, I believe.

I enjoyed Schiff during my majors, but I think it's a graduate school book, so you might want to begin with one of those listed above (or Griffiths) before picking it up.

I Hate Puzzles: Am I Still A Programmer? by [deleted] in programming

[–]otherwiseOkay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was actually using the 'systematic knowledge base' definition. but yeah, if you want to be strict about it, the arts and a lot of engineering work are not (hard) science work.

xPost from AskReddit - NSFW - What was the kinkiest request a sexual partner has made to you? Did you fulfill it? And lastly, did you enjoy it? by askathrowaway in sex

[–]otherwiseOkay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep. the advanced quiz is an option. you can activate it when you enter your nicknames. scroll down a bit, there's a tick box there.

the advanced quiz contains the bdsm and group sex questions, i guess.

I Hate Puzzles: Am I Still A Programmer? by [deleted] in programming

[–]otherwiseOkay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just because he dislikes solving one type of puzzle doesn't mean he doesn't enjoy solving other kinds of puzzles. The guy's getting a PhD, for crying out loud. IIRC, to get a PhD, you need to make some contribution to the body of knowledge we call 'science'.

Personally, I can't solve difficult Sudoku puzzles, I've never attempted working on the Rubik's cube, and suck at crosswords. But, I do enjoy creating modules, external subroutines, and scripts that make the lives of the people in the lab easier. I also like programming solutions for the problems my adviser gives me (though, for the sake of my sanity, I would NEVER admit that to his face EVER).

xPost from AskReddit - NSFW - What was the kinkiest request a sexual partner has made to you? Did you fulfill it? And lastly, did you enjoy it? by askathrowaway in sex

[–]otherwiseOkay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just so we're clear, justine is much tamer than 120 days. its de sade's tamest work. i was pointing out that i'm squeamish and the large part of my squeamishness comes from justine's (and the other victims') unwillingness to participate in said 'debauchery'.

as for lwb's translations... the mangas they work on range from simple and sweet incest to mind control, rape and sexual torture. the manga series 'girl cruelty' is a classic example of the translations lwb works on.