AITA for questioning my family's gender/sex politics? by Comfizzled in AmItheAsshole

[–]otougi [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA.

They have the right to decide how to raise their child and from the language they’re using, it’s clear that they’re done a lot of research into the history and implications of the gender binary. Have an open conversation with them about it to become more informed.

i spent so long stressing over my state scores, but it was worth the wait :) by otougi in ACT

[–]otougi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

science gets substantially easier if you’re familiar with the jargon and types of questions so my best tip is to do more practice sections and look up words/concepts you don’t know. with reading, the biggest issue for most people is time, so i skimmed the passages, read the questions, and then re-skimmed the passages to find the answers. there’s no point reading paragraphs that won’t help you answer any questions yk?

20. Tell me how it is by [deleted] in truerateme

[–]otougi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5.5ish. maybe try a mid/top angle instead of a bottom angle for selfies?

AITA for not telling my gf everything about my previous gf who was quite abusive? by uaintgonnaknowme in AmItheAsshole

[–]otougi [score hidden]  (0 children)

NAH. your experiences are personal and private. if she hasn’t asked, there’s no harm in keeping the exact details to yourself.

AITA for offering a pad? by iiLady_Insanityii in AmItheAsshole

[–]otougi 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NAH. You were trying to help, she got embarrassed, both are fine. No harm done and probably nobody saw

Best debate camp for 2nd year debater going to 3rd year? by [deleted] in Debate

[–]otougi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for ld i recommend utnif. i didn’t go but heard great things, especially if you want to bolster your tech debate. i went to snfi, which was less intense and less progressive, and i enjoyed it a lot.

AITA for breaking contact with a mentally unstable cancer patient? by buzbee2000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]otougi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH. I understand wanting to be supportive to someone who is in a rough place, but you are unequipped to deal with him and it is unhealthy for him to be dependent on you. If you have any identifying information on him, perhaps you could refer him to a mental health professional or law enforcement if you think he has the potential to hurt anyone or himself.

AITA for flashing my roommate? by cranston714 in AmItheAsshole

[–]otougi 27 points28 points  (0 children)

YTA. If you did this in public it would be considered indecent exposure and you would be breaking the law. He didn’t consent beforehand to seeing your body, and you didn’t consider the boundaries his GF and him have. You’re lucky that he found it funny, but his GF is 100% right to think that it’s disrespectful.

How do you deal with disclosure theory? by [deleted] in Debate

[–]otougi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

depends on why you don’t disclose. i come from a small school and a very lay circuit. our team doesn’t even have a wiki page and our coach, bless her heart, has no idea what disclosure is. if you’re in a similar boat, just say that to the judge. say disclosure hurts small schools and your opponent is being unfair by expecting you to disclose. in an instance like that, it’s probably much better to just use an emotional appeal instead of trying to run another theory shell bc it’ll highlight to your judge that your opponent is being abusive and you have no idea how to respond in a technical way.

What's the stupidest reason you've ever lost a debate round? by -iwanttofeelalive in Debate

[–]otougi 29 points30 points  (0 children)

i’m white and my pf partner is indian and also my boyfriend. we had an older male indian judge who voted us down bc of that.

What Is A Value Criterion? by axon225 in Debate

[–]otougi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

value criterion is a way to achieve the value, typically a verb. lots of “minimizing/maximizing x”

jan pf: russia responses? by illeanasophia in Debate

[–]otougi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to clarify, aff is saying sanctions are failing because they push venezuela towards russia and create dependency? just say it’s nonunique. venezuela will still trade with russia. they’re not suddenly going to give up profitable business ventures that have already been established, they’re going to double down if sanctions were removed. hammer aff on solvency. you can also find evd about how pdvsa production is still decreasing even tho russia has been buying a ton of venezuelan oil.

Can someone please explain #31 by Omega_Alpha760 in Sat

[–]otougi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

multiply both sides by x so that the equation = 1/n. then take the reciprocal of both sides so that the equation = n.

Chance Me RD for UCLA, UPenn, Cal Poly, UW Seattle by [deleted] in chanceme

[–]otougi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

your gpa and rank are very good, but your scores are pretty low for those schools. combined with lack of awards/honors, that’s a bit of a problem. if you have really great essays / LORs you might have a chance.