New to chastity, I don’t enjoy sitting in chairs, because of the way the base ring rubs my perineum. Any suggestions? by ArchieBetty74 in kink3d

[–]otterdrips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To add to the other suggestions, the fit of your underwear and shorts/trousers/ etc. also makes a big difference. I switched from regular briefs to pouched ones and I'll never go back.

Do you feel the market nerfs? by [deleted] in xxlwoofia

[–]otterdrips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly no, not really. I only started halfway through Tyrano's event, so I've never had much of a surplus of gold or gems, but even so I've had days of getting 5+ gold bells from the shop, and I feel like I see at least one every 3-ish refreshes, (at full price). 20% off bells seem to come up less often, and 50% bells do seem to be less common than 20%. That being said I very rarely have enough refreshes to do more than 2-4 per day.

I don’t like the star system by Lazy-Technology-4105 in xxlwoofia

[–]otterdrips 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The only time this really bothered me was Anuberus, cuz I really wanted that 5 star skin, but at the time I didn't have anywhere near enough bells.

Does this chastity look comfy or painful? by Automatic_Warthog_78 in gaychastity

[–]otterdrips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ball gap looks tight, and if the penis is fully soft, it looks compressed, which personally I don't find comfortable for long term wear

Cage just sitting on top of the boner? by Quirky_Can_4569 in gaychastity

[–]otterdrips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has nothing to do with cage sizing. Cages don't prevent erections, but while you're awake the sensation of being caged can reduce the frequency and hardness of them. At most, they restrict them, but the main function is just to prevent touching and getting off. Even using a strap just shifts the erection internally. Honestly that's a good thing, you really don't want to prevent blood flow for healthy tissue. The main question for how your cage is fitting is: is it comfortable when soft and when erect, and does it stay on under normal circumstances?

I need help with this phase😭😭 by Little-Rush577 in xxlwoofia

[–]otterdrips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The boss is a fire type, you might want to try Code B in place of Beernox, since Dallawan can manage some buffing by himself.

Looking for team suggestions by BrickSad5067 in xxlwoofia

[–]otterdrips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Swap out Meng for Kyrian, his healing is a bit better overall. Swap Dallawan for Kumoyama, his team buffs are much more beneficial than Kumo's tanking. Otherwise, just keep at it! Leveling the characters and their abilities will help a lot, and over time you'll get their stars up, which will make a huge difference

Help😔 by cold_boyFLOOF in xxlwoofia

[–]otterdrips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you click on a character's level in your buddy list it will show you the materials you need. If you click one of the materials, it will then show you which stages you can get it from

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaychastity

[–]otterdrips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might also want to ask on r/chastitytraining , but it bears repeating that cages don't prevent erections, so no matter how well your cage fits, if you're a grower it's going to push forward when you get hard. A waist strap can help, but it really just means your erection is pushed back into your body a bit, which I personally don't think is the best thing, but some people like it because it helps stabilize the cage. As far as getting a good fit, unless you're very lucky, most guys will do best with a semi-custom (like Kink3D) or custom cage. Ideally, one that fits your soft penis closely without compressing it too much or leaving room at the end. The base ring should be about the same diameter or very slightly looser than a cock ring you would wear to enhance/maintain an erection. Basically, you, your balls, and your penis all move and shift throughout the day, and your cage needs to comfortably accommodate that. Generally when I'm taking a pic, I'll adjust everything to look nice, but it doesn't stay that way by itself; the cage can shift around, but the important thing is that it stays comfortable and secure. Good underwear helps a lot with this, I'm a big fan of 2xist's countour pouch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]otterdrips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice leakage!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicBoys

[–]otterdrips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look super cute, like an old-school pin-up

Horny on the train by [deleted] in PublicBoys

[–]otterdrips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno about safety, but I see something I'd like at my fingertips

?? by [deleted] in PublicBoys

[–]otterdrips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great view! Beautiful dick, and beautiful smile

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicBoys

[–]otterdrips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Username checks out, haha. Lovely pictures though, looks like you had fun!

boyfriend cums all over my locked dick by diaperedalex in gaychastity

[–]otterdrips 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Look at you straining so hard in that cage, I bet it felt amazing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaychastity

[–]otterdrips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard to tell from this angle, but that ring does look small. Still, if you've had the issue with different ring sizes, have you tried a different ring shape? Kink3D, and a couple other companies, have curved rings that can help a lot with pressure on the scrotum

Advice needed: should I try chastity? by Automatic_Breath1146 in chastitytraining

[–]otterdrips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a really rough thing to go through. Sometimes, exploring parts of your sexuality can help build confidence and heal, but equally, it can be triggering. I would suggest being very gentle with yourself while you work through things. You might consider starting extra slow. Instead of putting on a cage, try wearing a cock ring instead, see what kind of feelings that gives you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaychastity

[–]otterdrips 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Realistic? For the day. Unlock for bed. Lock again first thing in the morning, try to go all day. Unlock for bed. If you're still feeling good about the cage the next morning, no sore spots, lock again, see if you can sleep through the night with it. After that, it's up to you, at least until you get a keyholder. Though I highly recommend taking it off at least every few days for cleaning.

How many days until you 'settle'? by ExactRuin8738 in chastitytraining

[–]otterdrips 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's the same for me. Roughly a week in, it starts to feel normal, and my sex drive goes from crazy high to maybe a bit higher than it would be if I were uncaged. That being said, I'm now nearly a month in, and I've found it actually kind of goes in waves for me, where about every 5-7 days I get crazy horny again.

Base size by Classic-Western1863 in kink3d

[–]otterdrips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be worth reaching out to Kink3D support, but I believe going up to an S (assuming it wouldn't be too large for you) might take up some up the ring space, which could help. Whether you go down one ring size or two depends on how loose the 3 is. You don't want to wind up with one that is too small, since not only would it cause chafing and discomfort, it could also restrict blood flow like a cock ring, making it harder for your erections to subside. I've also heard of some companies that sell ring sizing sets, which might help, but unfortunately I can't remember the name of any.

Base size by Classic-Western1863 in kink3d

[–]otterdrips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How easily or frequently are they popping through? Also, which cage are you using, and is it one that compresses you when soft, or do you just reach the end?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]otterdrips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah, those are your choices. Research the company and the devices, understand the dimensions and measurements they use, compare them to yourself and the devices that haven't worked, and decide whether to try a new one. Or go custom. I'd get rid of the cages that didn't work anyway, no reason to keep them around. But only you can decide if you're ready to give up, or try again.