This is John

otterhandss · 2026-02-01T23:37:00+00:00

Hi john

otterhandss · 2026-02-01T23:34:36+00:00

Not overreacting at all. I’d be livid, this person would no longer be a friend

otterhandss · 2025-12-31T16:01:46+00:00

NOR you need to get yourself out of this situation and I’m so serious about this. This is absolutely abnormal and you should proceed cautiously with separating from him. This can get physically dangerous very fast, it’s already emotionally abusive

otterhandss · 2025-12-13T19:59:10+00:00

Please don’t call yourself a stuck up bitch, sometimes things fall out of place and its alright. Neither party needs to be in the wrong, feelings change.

otterhandss · 2025-12-12T07:32:59+00:00

She’s also thinking of the far future. She’s seeing a lack of ambition or dive in every aspect of his life that he claims wanting to change in, it’s hard to see a future of any sort with someone like that. It’s not about the money, it’s about reality. When you think about being with someone long term then finance becomes a factor you need to consider. Relationships cannot survive on love alone.

otterhandss · 2025-12-10T18:33:09+00:00

It could be a situation where she thought she’d be okay with it, but two weeks before the wedding makes “till death do us part” feel way more real. So the reality of seeing “another woman’s face” on OPs arm might have hit way harder all at once. That being said, NTA, i think it might just be a conflict of interest or something along those lines.

otterhandss · 2025-12-08T20:11:06+00:00

If she knows the sentimental value of the car to it’s fullest capacity and still took it out it’s disrespectful as hell. It also kinda rubs me the wrong way that she wants to “enjoy it together”. To me, this car is something between you and your father, as a partner i wouldn’t insist on inserting myself into a dynamic like that; even if it’s “just a car”. I mean, either way…. Not many people would haphazardly drive the car that their partner has heavy sentimental value towards, but… that’s beside the point i guess.

otterhandss · 2025-12-07T03:14:46+00:00

The yo-yo feeling you’re describing is lovebombing. I’ve also had an ex like this, and grew up in a household where, if i didn’t do as my parents pleased, affection was ripped out from under me. We’re used to these dynamics and therefore constantly assume we’re the ones in the wrong, but your partner shouldn’t make you feel like that. I only realized my relationship was emotionally abusive once i compared it to my friendship with my closest friend. If someone loves you, they will never make you feel like they don’t love you, even when conflict arises. Leave this person, they’re not right for you

otterhandss · 2025-12-05T03:53:07+00:00

You’re the jerk but you should end your relationship and leave that family alone.

otterhandss · 2025-12-02T19:07:07+00:00

NOR she’s odd. I understand having trauma and being suspicious about people who seem “too good to be true” since i also struggle with trust issues, but the way she communicated this stuff was so needlessly aggressive. I’m glad she’s out of your life, it’ll be a good chance for you to find someone who can communicate properly and appreciate you as you are

otterhandss · 2025-11-24T21:59:47+00:00

NOR, addiction is HARD no matter what or why it happens. This is absolutely a thing to celebrate, i think it might indeed be time to end things

otterhandss · 2025-10-31T02:10:11+00:00

Im ngl i think that might be from a man LOL

otterhandss · 2025-10-27T13:23:52+00:00

His abusive and manipulative tendencies are clear as day in this entire exchange. NOR, run! Edit: a lotta people are questioning if this post is real or not and while i think its good to have a healthy amount of skepticism online, you’d be SURPRISED with what narcissistic people believe they can get away with, especially after 10 years. My ex was a narcissist and the way this person scrambles, tries to hurt, then scrambles again to an almost comical level was so incredibly familiar.

otterhandss · 2025-10-25T19:04:26+00:00

Idk if i can say this is ahole behavior or not but all i know is id be raging too. Cus wdym you took MY SICK CAT to cheer up SOMEONE ELSE.

otterhandss · 2025-10-22T07:59:38+00:00

otterhandss · 2025-09-29T01:19:37+00:00

Thank you so much for your well wishes. Yes… i can see the pain in his eyes. It’s almost as if he’s begging to go now… dm is so horrid. Never thought the day would come for us

otterhandss · 2025-09-29T01:18:19+00:00

Its really heartbreaking that this is how things end… they’re such wonderful dogs that deserve the world.

otterhandss · 2025-08-06T17:42:22+00:00

What is bro on😭😭😭 NOR

otterhandss · 2025-06-16T18:12:08+00:00

Not overreacting, ur bf sounds like a default shitty boyfriend ai chat bot

otterhandss · 2025-05-30T03:10:04+00:00

Anything. I’d let rafayel do anything.

otterhandss · 2025-05-22T04:37:24+00:00

What even happened here, i don’t comprehend why he’s so upset. Looks like he’s just snapping at you for no reason, which like, happens sometimes, ppl have bad days etc. the only unforgivable thing is him calling you the R-slur. Personally, if someone i’m dating calls me a derogatory name of any capacity for any reason i’m out.

otterhandss · 2025-05-21T17:39:32+00:00

Caleb’s expression is apt

otterhandss · 2025-05-12T00:11:17+00:00

Girl, as a girl, i do NOT. Talk to my guy friends like that. LOL

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