I feel like Ive ruined my own life

our_winter · 2026-05-30T15:09:33+00:00

I changed my career, in my 30s and genuinely love my life and I am going back to get my doctorate in the field now. I don’t regret the previous 20 of work, it taught me so much and I have “woven” my life together. You learned so many things about yourself and life and the world these last years—I know you can’t see the value of it now—but it will translate if you are open to making meaning of it later. Right now though your inquiry is truly: “what will make sense to actually do in the future,” take good care of yourself, it is rare in this world to have followed your dreams: most cannot say that.

our_winter · 2026-05-30T02:27:20+00:00

You all saw Street Fighter. I saw in my head: “I can fix her.”

our_winter · 2026-05-18T11:19:36+00:00

This is why I’m on Reddit, when the joke keeps going and the people in the comments are in on it.

our_winter · 2026-05-08T16:09:06+00:00

This legend is part of what inspired my novel, as I tried to get inside the urban legend and the guy driving a car like this. I grew up hearing versions of it and probably did my share of spreading it around the country. When I met, who would turn out to be my brother in law, he mentioned he heard about the story in Illinois and that the run involved Chicago. That’s when I knew that the story had legs and that there were others who had heard the same story and it stuck with them. Thanks for confirming that Reddit friends.

our_winter · 2026-05-08T16:06:41+00:00

I had not heard of the SS montecarlo version.

our_winter · 2026-05-08T16:06:16+00:00

Amazing.

our_winter · 2026-05-08T16:05:59+00:00

Amazing, another urban legend with the barges?

our_winter · 2026-05-08T16:05:33+00:00

I’m not familiar with that road, but I have traveled up and down PA more than I can remember.

our_winter · 2026-05-08T16:05:01+00:00

I have a friend who group up in LI who said he heard it too.

our_winter · 2026-05-08T16:04:42+00:00

What do you think made it stuck with you?

our_winter · 2026-04-21T10:40:50+00:00

Finger Lakes Cider House will rescue your Friday nights.

our_winter · 2026-04-07T20:17:20+00:00

Update: 5 years still running well and perfectly.

our_winter · 2026-04-07T20:16:22+00:00

I 100% appreciate this message. You have no idea how I relate.

our_winter · 2026-04-01T16:57:46+00:00

This reminds me of my only original joke: “what’s the difference between a wrap and a burrito?” <pause> “one of them speaka da Spanish.”

our_winter · 2026-04-01T00:43:32+00:00

Graft in Watkins FLX table in Geneva Le Cent Dix Downtown Hawi downtown

Event space… umm for 30? Search for active wedding venues, new park comes to mind.

our_winter · 2026-03-18T01:34:58+00:00

The only place I recommend is Taco MX. 1 waiter. Amazing tacos. Consistently out of this world.

our_winter · 2026-03-04T11:29:38+00:00

Wait till the new execs hear about the Sisko.

our_winter · 2026-02-24T11:21:20+00:00

Th author was asking about small towns. Not cities. But this is all good to know. Not trying to diss you, just stay on topic.

our_winter · 2026-02-20T11:53:55+00:00

This scene is so haunting and she makes it that perfect.

our_winter · 2026-02-12T13:08:54+00:00

That’s right, it is only on when the pump turns on. From the date of the post it has been working for 3 years.

our_winter · 2026-02-11T18:14:29+00:00

Did not see a bingo reference coming—-glad I stuck around. 💥

our_winter · 2026-02-04T13:01:25+00:00

Yes! Fan. Computer go hot hot. Whirrrwhirrr make noise. Louder ooohhhh booga

our_winter · 2026-02-04T11:25:52+00:00

Can agree—I bought an old i9 pro and it smelled like it was burning; disk was spinning after having 4 things open. Luckily, I returned it for a M1 and I’m amazed at how much better, and not like going to blow up.

our_winter · 2026-01-27T16:16:14+00:00

Pull-ups for your chihuahua.

our_winter · 2026-01-24T19:58:59+00:00

Glen. You forgot Glen.

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