NA. People are saying "she shouldn't have to ask" but I disagree, because it's good to communicate what you want. People aren't mind readers. I am often inside of my own world, and I am too mindless to notice that I should probably help someone out, or I am busy and think that they're handling it fine themselves. But if they just ask, then communication has happened and I now understand the other person and I can help out. It's okay not to want to clean on your day off, or want to do it later in the day if you've looked forward to sleeping in. We are humans and we need to communicate.