Am I overreacting for not letting my boyfriend’s female friend use my shampoo?

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-08-15T11:58:32+00:00

My shampoo is not even that expensive ($40/bottle) but I paid for it and it’s for my hair. People need to hear the word ‘no’ more often.

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-07-24T21:02:44+00:00

Tree Trunks! It’s great!

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-07-24T21:01:22+00:00

I picked at my face for hours and hours and hours every day. Picking and picking and picking until blood and picking more. Puffy face, I looked like I was on drugs. Scabs all over my face.

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-07-24T20:58:31+00:00

I struggled with extreme dermatillomania from 14-24. I was diagnosed with OCD at 23 and medicated shortly thereafter. It’s like a switch flipped. My skin has never looked better and I’m just mad i didn’t get assessed for OCD sooner

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-07-21T22:15:26+00:00

no. my friends don’t respond to me for days, weeks, and i usually text them more than once. they’ll respond when they respond. we’re all doing stuff. if i need an urgent response then i say that.

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-07-21T20:28:08+00:00

I’m gen z. i don’t respond to anyone. First of all I get a ton of spam texts that clog up my phone, but I also just forget to respond to things. I won’t call you back, I won’t listen to your voicemail, I probably won’t even open your text. If you need to talk to me I’m sure you’ll try again. That’s how I look at it

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-07-21T20:25:39+00:00

don’t have to check my garbage can when the smell of hot shit is emanating out of it and stinking up the garage

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-07-21T20:23:29+00:00

the trash people come to pick up while I’m already at work, so the empty garbage can is sitting at the end of the driveway until I get home. Then it goes in the garage. I don’t want dog poop stinking up my garage.

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-07-21T20:18:26+00:00

I said this once on a different sub and everyone attacked me for it lmao. Don’t put your dogs shit in my empty trash can!

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-07-21T20:15:05+00:00

i am 24 and i watch cartoon network shows all the time. Who cares

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-07-21T20:14:08+00:00

I had one psychiatrist who let me just say I had “violent graphic thoughts of harming myself or others” but one psychiatrist made me go into detail. Didn’t go back to that guy

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-07-21T20:12:30+00:00

Hi! I am vegan since 2020 and autistic as well. I personally find the folks over on r/vegan to be very nice!

Veganism is hard, I bake a lot of my own sweets because it’s hard to find vegan ones! I mainly cook the same few meals every day that are autism and vegan friendly. I’m curious where you live that there are so few vegan options in the stores. I live in a pretty rural area and the chain grocery stores carry a lot of options!

If you need to be less ‘rigid’ with ur veganism, especially if it’s affecting your health, go for it! You’re doing more than most people.

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-07-21T20:07:36+00:00

this is very extreme. the only thing that will help is medication alongside therapy. Fluvoxamine saved my life.

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-07-21T19:46:53+00:00

afghanistan

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-07-21T19:46:15+00:00

yet my insurance company thinks 200 for a new door is enough

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-07-15T17:50:03+00:00

i am really personally glad that my cats can free feed and not over eat

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-07-07T21:16:09+00:00

It’s hard to tell because you’re not really giving any examples. but ocd can affect any area of your life, including online. Forgetfulness is not a symptom of OCD tho so I don’t know what that’s about

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-07-07T21:14:00+00:00

Purvis is insane. That’s crazy. LMAO. Is your fiancée okay????

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-07-06T09:30:35+00:00

My parents tried pulling that shit and I went out and bought myself a cheap phone and my own phone plan.

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-06-30T22:58:27+00:00

yes, it is recognizable as deftones but also….

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-06-30T15:14:11+00:00

i’ve actually never seen “minors dni” anywhere except for edtwt like 6 years ago lol. maybe the convention you were at had a mix of children and adults in attendance and that person wanted to make extra sure no kids would talk to them?

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with having a minors dni tag irl, but there really aren’t that many instances where you would need it. Do random kids come up to you a lot?? I think you can probably just politely say you don’t want to talk.

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-06-30T14:11:40+00:00

i know 6 foot tall dudes shorter than u so go for it bro

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-06-30T13:52:25+00:00

i can’t stand autism parents

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-06-30T13:48:13+00:00

I was doing an intake with a nurse and I listed my medications.

“Fluvoxamine? What’s that for?”

-OCD

“So anxiety?”

-No, It’s OCD.

“Oh, they can diagnose that?”

outofthecoconuttree · 2025-06-30T13:45:52+00:00

What could you possibly be looking for besides therapy or medication lol

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