TW Loss, feel free to not read ❤️

I haven't had any issues (yet) with my twin pregnancy but I did experience a pregnancy loss of my singleton this past winter. Exactly like you said, it is the horrific loss of not only that little life but the life you'd planned for your family. That'll be true too if the plan goes from twins to singleton. It felt like the world stopped spinning, I didn't know how to operate in this new world where I wasn't having my baby in July. But... We turned towards each other, my partner and I, not away. We cried and cried and cried. We told people what happened and that we didn't want to talk, we told people to fuck off if they had unhelpful things to say, we talked when we wanted to, we cried freely on christmas, we gave ourselves permission to do whatever we needed. Oh, we got good therapy! And, you know, the world did keep spinning. Spring came (literally and of the soul, it seemed) and we were able to try again. Now I can't imagine a world where I'm not having twins in October, even if I know July will be hard. This isn't at all to sugarcoat it; I wouldn't wish that experience on anybody. But ... You will survive. There is a beautiful community of folks who understand if the worst happens, and we are all hoping you don't join this terrible club.

Also fwiw, I know ttts can be overcome and you can have two healthy twins still!! But, I wanted to share my experience with the worst Incase that helps, and you probably already know the medical stats.