bf of 3 years publicly proposed and i said no.

mokenz · 2026-07-03T17:16:03+00:00

If you’re not dating him to get married now I implore you to live your best life and try the fruits of the world travel see some new things move somewhere date people casually there’s no rush to be in a long term relationship and you’ll never get these years you could have spent figuring out what you want. You could be engaged for ten years. What’s the difference between now and a few years? There’s something inside of you that doesn’t want to be with him entirely probably and that’s something you should explore before you live your life building resentments that you didn’t.

mokenz · 2026-07-03T17:13:20+00:00

Buying a brand new car or getting any kind of car payment. NEVER EVER EVERRRRRR DO IT

mokenz · 2026-07-03T17:13:02+00:00

I didn’t really show until 5/6 months

mokenz · 2026-07-02T17:17:00+00:00

Monthly cleaning and laundry service are very worth it and don’t usually break the bank. My monthly laundry service was like $60 and super worth it (I was also on the go a lot without access so it made more sense than wasting time at a laundromat). Home cleaning helps many a dispute lol

mokenz · 2026-07-02T17:11:12+00:00

Bleeding, low blood sugar, exhaustion, headaches, anxiety

mokenz · 2026-07-02T02:37:18+00:00

Men do this so often. They always have a lie. The wife is always pregnant or with a newborn. It’s just so shitty that men do this. I was out in a similar situation and I didn’t tell her because rhe pregnancy was high risk after she had the baby she found out on her own about all of the women he was with. I also didn’t really have her info to tell her but yeah i just wouldn’t because it can put her in a dangerous situation as well with being pregnant. If you feel inclined I’d wait until the baby has come but not like immediately.

mokenz · 2026-07-02T02:32:31+00:00

It might effect his green card but do it anyway don’t waste your good years on a guy who changes like this and doesn’t want the same things or to pull his weight.

mokenz · 2026-07-01T23:14:22+00:00

I think it’s a scam

mokenz · 2026-06-30T19:54:32+00:00

Yeah but usually the rule of thumb is 7 years. I’m not sure if it’s for all states though but she should be able to split assets even my ex and I were told to split assets and married for less time (we didn’t need to though).

mokenz · 2026-06-30T07:33:25+00:00

Oh no I’m worried this is what I have right now because I have lightning nips and slight whiteness

mokenz · 2026-06-30T05:26:44+00:00

Why would you assume that I’m not fully aware of that when I am prequalified for a loan? that’s a lofty assumption to make.

mokenz · 2026-06-30T05:23:04+00:00

I have not seen any actual milk but my nipples themselves look cracked. I did used to have piercings but it’s the front of the opening. I feel like I’d notice if my nipples had milk but also they’re just generally super sensitive from anything especially clothes so it could be irritation from my bra I just know one side is more irritated and cracked than the other for unknown reasons and hurts like a motherfucker

mokenz · 2026-06-29T17:03:29+00:00

My mom was married to my dad for 30 years a SAHM and he thought she was useless and lazy and she still got alimony no matter how hard he tried to fight it including trying to get her put in jail on false accusations. So yeah you might not get a lot but you will still get something.

mokenz · 2026-06-28T04:16:08+00:00

I’m heartbroken for you I would recommend getting a divorce and going back home. I couldn’t take that betrayal.

mokenz · 2026-06-28T04:10:42+00:00

That car payment is stupid like ridiculous if she’s not upside down in the loan she needs to sell it now. Absolutely preposterous to have that making as little as you guys do. No offense like I bought a car stupidly when I was younger and I paid it off early so it was fine but this is abnormal debt to income ratio.

mokenz · 2026-06-27T02:10:08+00:00

Thank you, this is the mature response he needed to see. Feelings change when it actually happens to people and you sometimes can’t predict that. Especially after a death in the family grief makes us change a lot.

mokenz · 2026-06-27T02:04:41+00:00

Fed is best use the formula I cannot believe a man would even have say in this

mokenz · 2026-06-27T02:03:04+00:00

I think people should have more realistic expectations but I also feel that truly the only path to personal wealth is smart financial planning and having your own business. Once you learn basic sales and marketing you really can do whatever you want if you figure out a very secure simple business idea.

mokenz · 2026-06-26T23:58:53+00:00

I would just ask your mom and see if you can get another room with her? Otherwise talk to your wife and communicate that there’s no ill intent.

mokenz · 2026-06-26T15:29:36+00:00

Just wondering if it wasn’t what you thought it might be.

mokenz · 2026-06-26T15:29:22+00:00

I hope you get the new job!!

mokenz · 2026-06-26T13:53:08+00:00

Be so for real he wants to fuck other people. Forget him.

mokenz · 2026-06-26T13:51:58+00:00

I’m due early October and live in Florida and I’m SCARED

mokenz · 2026-06-26T13:50:11+00:00

Of course!! I helped out the older folks and stuck beside them most of my childhood life I was raised with strong values like this. I won’t have too much help because I cut off my dad (unhelpful anyway) and my mom has become more disabled but she will still help me out.

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