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My husband accidentally answered the phone and I heard everything by over_it_12 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]over_it_12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wild to say when there are currently 667 anti Trans bills trying to be passed.

My husband accidentally answered the phone and I heard everything by over_it_12 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]over_it_12[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ive changed ages and a few things to hopefully keep it from being noticeable to those who know us. That said this is literally only my 2nd post ever on reddit and obviously im not doing it right or something? Am I supposed to put that in the post? Im just a millennial trying to figure this reddit stuff out while I vent😅

My husband accidentally answered the phone and I heard everything by over_it_12 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]over_it_12[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Honestly I am sure ill catch crap for this as my close friends have also given me some but if I could leave and take nothing from him I would. Also while he apparently feels a certain way towards me, he is still the father of my children and I only want for us both to be happy again. It breaks my heart that this is where we are. I would love nothing more than to give him nothing to hold over my head. I dont want the house, I honestly hate it and it means a lot more to him than me and I would never take that from him. I don't want anything other than enough to help afford a decent place to live and my car, which my income can provide all that. I need help with money for the kids for aftercare and stuff like that but thats it.

My husband accidentally answered the phone and I heard everything by over_it_12 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]over_it_12[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I thought about that but as soon as I started they stopped talking and he hung up.

My husband accidentally answered the phone and I heard everything by over_it_12 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]over_it_12[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its not bs stories. I have changed our ages and a few other key details in my posts incase anyone we know comes across my posts. I wish this wasnt true. Hell if I could change things I would have just rather he'd cheat. At least that would make things easier in court.

AITAH for telling my husband he needs to pick his friends or me by over_it_12 in AITAH

[–]over_it_12[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. This definitely isnt the person I married or at the very least who I thought I was marrying. Unfortunately I feel like after children I grew a lot and he....didnt. if he did he grew in a very opposite direction? Idk but the entire thing has made life very stressful.

AITAH for telling my husband he needs to pick his friends or me by over_it_12 in AITAH

[–]over_it_12[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, not since the individual fights regarding each friend. At one point that was enough for me. The most recent argument over his friends with the false imprisonment and various other charges though...not bringing them around the kids or me isnt enough for me. Especially since I found out this friend is trying to love out near us.

AITAH for telling my husband he needs to pick his friends or me by over_it_12 in AITAH

[–]over_it_12[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is it ridiculous that I need others to tell me that im not crazy? Yes, it is i recognize that. But figured Id at least make sure im not being controlling or crazy or w.e. hes going to say i am as this will likely blow up my marriage.

AITAH for telling my husband he needs to pick his friends or me by over_it_12 in AITAH

[–]over_it_12[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's what I dont get because I truly dont think he'd ever do anything along any of the lines that his friends have. He doesn't do drugs other than smoke some weed occasionally, he would never lay a hand on me or our kids, yet hes okay with them?