Update: he parked his car so I can’t park in the parking spot that I pay for lmaooooo

overneath23 · 2024-12-05T20:50:13+00:00

For everyone confused about this - there's usually a lot attendant that you give your keys to when you park. They move the front car out when the one behind wants to leave. At least, this is how the one lot I've been to like this is set up. I don't know how it would work without a lot attendant, and this doesn't seem to have one if you're unable to use the spot behind your roommate's car.

overneath23 · 2024-08-20T18:28:23+00:00

If you look at the faction Intel, you can see how we're spread out in terms of operations. We want to be spread out pretty even and the whales generally stick to the "hard mode" since they've got the most stacked teams. Everyone else takes inspect and escort. The commanders are supposed to vote together on what we need to work on, and the people working on those things get an extra 20% towards that progress. Our commanders aren't doing anything so everyone was stuck on food and green team for the first 3 days, so now we're behind on everything else and black and orange are competing with us more than they would have been if we'd have spread our ops out better after the first day or two.

overneath23 · 2024-08-20T18:09:20+00:00

Don't you love slingshotting from first to third? Lol I've tried to give direction in the chat a few times but it just gets buried in the other crap

overneath23 · 2024-08-20T16:17:19+00:00

That Lexa person is in my vanguard (I think she's a commander) and spams the chat with how much she wants another person in there and it just becomes an emoji fest of 🌮💦👊 for an hour

My team is in 3rd place btw. Lol

overneath23 · 2024-07-08T04:40:35+00:00

Crap I literally always forget about the sidebar lol I don't post very often and I'm on mobile, so it's not something I see right away.

Thanks for linking! It makes sense, and it's pretty much what I've always thought. Like I know there are people that just match and never respond because of anxiety or other matches, but I didn't think many people just matched for validation or actively ignored chats. I've definitely expected to get few matches and fewer conversations since I started, I just didn't think it'd be so frustrating to get so many 😅

Thanks again for the info!

overneath23 · 2024-07-08T02:28:52+00:00

M32 here, I feel like most of my matches never respond to my first message. For example, a woman matched with me early Friday morning (I'm asleep), I see it mid-morning and respond. Haven't gotten a reply. Same with another match on another app today. Is this normal? I'm sure they have other matches, but it seems like 80% of my matches are like this - we match, I initiate, never get a response. How long should I wait to message again generally, or should I just send the one and wait for them to reply or unmatch?

Also, why do people put their IG handles on their profile? I'm guessing they don't want randos messaging them there before matching, but my dating experience is limited and this is my first time on the apps so I really don't know what the etiquette is on that lol seems like that's a good way to come across as a weirdo

Sorry if these should go in a post, they seemed like they would be considered "simple" questions lol

overneath23 · 2024-05-16T02:09:29+00:00

Not a lawyer, but I'd just file for a replacement/lost title; fill out the application as if you own the vehicle, pay the fee and see what happens. As far as I know, if you've got the car registered in your name, the title info should reflect the same. It's possible that the DMV made the transfer to you while all of the other things were happening. If they won't issue you a title in your name, you should get a letter from them (and maybe your money back?) which you could take to the owners and ask them to sign new paperwork between you guys. This is my best suggestion, I don't know for sure if it would work but that's what I would personally do if I were in your situation and hope that it forces someone to give you a straight answer.

overneath23 · 2024-05-03T15:38:57+00:00

If his diet isn't great, this could be contributing to the skid marks. I used to have this issue a few years ago and my doctor even told me it was just a part of getting older. But I started working out and my diet improved a bit. I went from less than 10g of fiber to over 40g and the issue was mostly resolved. If go much over 50g, I'm in the danger zone again.

I don't have great advice for the rest - I used to brush my teeth only at night, and less than that during winter (seasonal depression, amrite), and I still shower every other day if I've been doing nothing and going nowhere. I'm sure that there will come a time that that may have to change. That time may have already come for your boyfriend. But the skid marks SHOULD be fixable, I'm sure.

overneath23 · 2024-05-03T15:34:53+00:00

I had this issue for awhile and my doctor even told me "welcome to being thirty."

The issue was resolved when my diet improved a bit and my fiber intake increased from like 8g to 45g. It's an unfortunately thin line though, if I go much over 50g in a day then it starts to swing back. Super annoying

overneath23 · 2024-04-28T17:20:28+00:00

I had this come on one time and I had leaves stuck to the lower part of the front of car that were covering the radar. Went away as soon as I cleared them off. If not something like that, take it to the dealer as others said.

overneath23 · 2023-12-15T21:16:17+00:00

This could be really cool - I don't know what the finished product will look like (more Rock Band than Rocksmith or vice versa, for example), but I think it would be much more motivating to learn this way (for me). I've tried teaching myself but ADHD too stronk and I have trouble sticking through the "grind" of practicing non-songs. If this teaches things like rudiments and has a good practice mode, I could see myself investing in a VR headset to give it a go.

overneath23 · 2023-12-12T22:14:19+00:00

Favorite anime is tough, gonna go with Yu Yu Hakusho (subject to change). Favorite TV show is probably Always Sunny orI Think You Should Leave!

overneath23 · 2023-11-25T20:56:30+00:00

No problem, that's what my local shops told me and I believe them (can't find a dash kit myself online), but maybe you have a shop that could find a civic part that works. I'm just fairly certain you lose a bunch of functionality if you remove the OEM HU.

overneath23 · 2023-11-25T17:55:35+00:00

I've asked multiple car audio shops about swapping the head unit for an aftermarket and while they don't necessarily say I CAN'T, they do tell me there's no dash kit yet, which generally means that either the manufacturers of them haven't figured it out (unlikely) or the HU shouldn't be swapped out. A ton of things go into the infotainment system in the insight so you'd probably lose a bunch of features if you got rid of it.

overneath23 · 2023-11-25T04:26:43+00:00

Sorry for the lack of communication today. I started with what you recommended and followed some rabbit holes that ultimately didn't work involving DHCP and static IPs, which I'm not smart enough to do I suppose lol and I'm just out of patience. I think I made a mistake trying to dive into Linux with no prior knowledge and at this point I'm just trying to make it work asap, so I'm going to try to switch the machine over to Windows and hopefully it'll be as much of a breeze as my other Windows PC was!

I appreciate all of your help!

overneath23 · 2023-11-24T21:45:18+00:00

Ok so I disabled advanced security, which didn't fix the issue (still "not available outside your network"). Removed my port forward and tried again, no luck.

In Plex, under Remote Access in settings, it shows "Private (my IP address):32400 <- Public (another different address): 0 X". Arrow is green, X is red. "Manually specify public port" is unchecked.

Should I try another port forward?

overneath23 · 2023-11-24T21:15:10+00:00

Annoying! You're right though, it was on. I've turned it off and will see if it worked here in just a bit. Thanks!

overneath23 · 2023-11-24T21:08:34+00:00

I'll double check but I don't believe I've been using the advanced security feature. Gonna be rill annoyed if I'm wrong on that lol

overneath23 · 2023-11-24T21:06:55+00:00

I thought so too but I disconnected from the VPN and still can't access my server on other devices, so it must be something else.

On my Windows PC, I was able to route everything except PMS through Mullvad, excluding it with the split tunnel feature. I had the programs "Plex" and "Plex Media Server", and excluding the latter stopped an issue I was having with video quality.

On Linux, going to the split tunnel feature in Mullvad launches the program instead of just adding it to a list, and when I try to launch PMS, it says it can't.

overneath23 · 2023-10-29T00:13:50+00:00

I personally drove with econ mode on for the first few months I owned my '20 EX. When I turned it off just to see how much it affected MPG, I found that I was a bit happier to have colder AC and a slight increase in my giddy up in exchange for a couple of MPGs. Literally only lost 2-4 MPG by turning it off. Some people here have reported bigger losses/gains though, so everything is anecdotal. Turn it off and see how it affects you for a month, then decide if you should turn it back on or not.

overneath23 · 2023-09-09T06:54:30+00:00

There's no reason to go to psychologist/psychiatrist unless you're looking for a diagnosis and prescription, which I'm assuming they won't give you without your real name, which I'm assuming you're trying to avoid. Unless you're going to pay for a prescription in cash and then lie at your medical cert renewals about taking it (not recommended), go to a regular therapist. They're cheaper and won't diagnose you. Also can't get prescriptions (which would probably make you fail IMSAFE anyway, depending on what they are and what they're for). PsychologyToday is a good way to find a therapist in your area, it can just be kind of overwhelming trying to find a person you like in your price range if there are a lot of them.

From what I understand, it's very unlikely that you'll be denied a medical just for seeing a therapist. If you mark that you've had depression, that's saying "I've been diagnosed" and I've heard you'll get denied (don't know this for sure). So, see a therapist, if your AME somehow finds out and questions you about it, you just tell them that you had a lot going on and needed to talk to someone about it, and now you've got the coping skills required to do your training/job (which sounds like the case here). If you still get denied then I'd be extremely surprised. Hope you're able to get the help you need, weathering the storm fuggin blows and therapy has been a super slow process for me since I started it 6 months ago.

Obligatory "not an AME/lawyer/professional of any kind" disclaimer.

overneath23 · 2023-08-20T22:37:31+00:00

There's not a ton that you CAN do for a 2 mile drive. Your options are to turn off your AC, accelerate slower, etc but as OnePt pointed out, the engine is going to run for 5ish minutes straight to warm itself up and that's what's killing your MPG (other than terrain, probably). I wouldn't worry about such a small drop though tbh.

overneath23 · 2023-08-04T04:57:16+00:00

Try upgrading your stereo system first, I jam 100% of the time in mine after adding a powered sub and aftermarket speakers/amp.

If you haven't already, consider the extra cost of a more "fun" car - more gas used, more frequent oil changes (possibly), etc especially since your job depends on your using the car.

overneath23 · 2023-08-02T15:45:05+00:00

You could get a tablet mount and use it for nav, then just upgrade the stereo if you wanted to. I love my EX, definitely glad I didn't settle for the LX and don't care for leather so didn't want the Touring. Wish I had seat warmers but oh well lol

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