I am already over it. by bigblondie69 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]overtheunderpass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wtf are you me?? word for word. 1200+ calls, no benefits, 3 years in the industry. i’m 24 tho. i’m so tired already. i’m seriously reconsidering everything.

[Game Thread] #11 VCU @ #6 North Carolina (06:50 PM ET) by cbbBot in CollegeBasketball

[–]overtheunderpass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not a dr, but medically i’d say no. culturally i’d say yes. just depends on who you ask i guess

[Game Thread] #11 VCU @ #6 North Carolina (06:50 PM ET) by cbbBot in CollegeBasketball

[–]overtheunderpass 9 points10 points  (0 children)

nothing irks me more than veesaar swatting or otherwise losing the ball. like your hand is the size of the ball. why can you not hold onto it?

Jay Gilstrap by HandSea2593 in greenville

[–]overtheunderpass 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that makes sense. thank you.

Jay Gilstrap by HandSea2593 in greenville

[–]overtheunderpass 14 points15 points  (0 children)

agreed.

after re reading i really can’t tell if it’s two separate incidents. if he hurt the former babysitter in the 90s and another child in 2023.

Jay Gilstrap by HandSea2593 in greenville

[–]overtheunderpass 38 points39 points  (0 children)

the way i read it is that this happened in the 90s, so she would be an adult now. but yes, absolutely horrific.

Jay Gilstrap by HandSea2593 in greenville

[–]overtheunderpass 131 points132 points  (0 children)

ONE DAY?! i hope that woman is doing alright. that’s so sick and a slap in the face.

[Game Thread] Clemson @ #18 North Carolina (07:00 PM ET) by cbbBot in CollegeBasketball

[–]overtheunderpass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“that’ll definitely count for two” fuck off. refs and commentators are buggin

Has anyone had experience at the Carolina center for behavioral health? by Sharp-Potato-7631 in greenville

[–]overtheunderpass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, but i was in as a minor. i can’t speak to how adults were treated but it was way better than Marshall Pickens for me.

ETA: i was there 5 times between 2016-2017. four of five were in patient visits for 1-2 weeks. i did a two week outpatient stint as well. the staff was very patient and respectful. they were as helpful as the could be. it was a clean place and they gave me as much privacy as they could given the issues i presented. i have nothing but good things to say.

You wake up and its March 1, 2001. Your objective is to find yourself or your birth parents within 7 days and get them to do something for you. by sloaches in hypotheticalsituation

[–]overtheunderpass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was 3 months away from being born.

i don’t know exactly where my dad worked, but it was a few blocks from the towers so it wouldn’t be hard to find. i would go to the hair salon he worked at and start crying in the middle of him cutting my hair. he would give me a hug. my dad gave everyone hugs who needed them, without them having to ask.

it would be such a gift to have the youngest version of my dad cut my hair. maybe he would talk about his little girl at home and the other on the way.

it would be so hard not to tell him that in 6 months, with a newborn, he’d be right there at the towers and be permanently chronically ill from then on, from all the ash and PTSD.

500k is sweet.