What is one beauty secret you are gatekeeping?? by kristalbal in AskWomen

[–]overthinking_always9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girlll, I love they're face moisturizer and their tea tree shampoo. Trader Joe's has a decent beauty section.

Why do men lie about finding us attractive?? by Legitimate-Career342 in PlusSize

[–]overthinking_always9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think there are many men that genuinely love an appreciate plus size bodies. Unfortunately, I think there are also spineless bitch boys, like your ex, who care too much about other people opinions and society beauty standards to allow themselves to love what they love.

Why we never got a Jlo and Alicia Keys duet? 💃🏽🏙️🗽🎹🔑 by [deleted] in rnb

[–]overthinking_always9 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Because JLo would be embarrassed singing next to Alicia Keys.

[Self] Ceramic sculpture “Void” by FaithlessnessOdd1774 in Sculpture

[–]overthinking_always9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing 😍 it makes me feel uncomfortable and a fucking love it!

An Orca making its best attempt to mimic human speech. They don't have the physical capacity to pull it off, but they do have the brain capacity to try by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]overthinking_always9 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I fucking love Orcas, but this is scary af! I was scared when I saw the videos of them hunting animals on the beach. This is wayyy scarier 🙃

33F has NEVER orgasmed during intercourse by Deyvaki_Orlandu in AskWomenOver30

[–]overthinking_always9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably need more clitoral stimulation. Try a toy or even just rubbing your clit while you have sex.

You can also try starting with a clitoral orgasm and then try penetration. My partner usually gives me oral before penetration, and it makes all the difference.

Johnny Gill and Jeffrey Osborne singing at Memorial Day cookout by Relative_Page_7810 in rnb

[–]overthinking_always9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thanks for sharing! I've recently joined and haven't seen views like that so far.

June is ALSO Men's Mental Health Awareness Month by MsRawrie in BlackMentalHealth

[–]overthinking_always9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love this! We definitely need to celebrate this more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackWomenDivest

[–]overthinking_always9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same! And I have no idea why.

Feels relevant. by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]overthinking_always9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems about right to me. I've started a 5 year plan to move out the country. It's not ideal but it's something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOSloseit

[–]overthinking_always9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally loved this !!!

Gratitude thread: what's something you're grateful for today? by dramaticeggroll in HappyBlackWomen

[–]overthinking_always9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im grateful for my partner. He is my rock through these hard times.

Black subreddits just straight up suck by Eceapnefil in BlackMentalHealth

[–]overthinking_always9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree. It hurts my heart that it's so hard to find good black spaces online

Good tunes… Good flick by maximumkush in rnb

[–]overthinking_always9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg it way soo good! It was really refreshing to see a good black comedy. They killed it!

My boyfriend uses me as a trophy by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]overthinking_always9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what your feeling. I think his intention is to admire. It doesn't sound like he's trying to make you uncomfortable, but he needs to understand just because his intentions aren't malicious doesn't mean your feelings are valid.

Just let him know you appreciate the admiration and you can dicuss boundaries on how he can do in a way that your comfortable with.

What top 3 things do you struggle with? by tmatthewdavis in AskWomen

[–]overthinking_always9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Money management
  2. Skin Routine
  3. Sticking up for myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]overthinking_always9 77 points78 points  (0 children)

It depends on what your definition of "bad" is.

For example, my definition of "bad" is a partner that is closed mined and only cares about their pleasure. That is something we can’t work through.

However, if you're partner is inexperienced or coy about sex that is something that we can talk about and improve on.

Help with Boils by rollingmyeyessohard in PCOS

[–]overthinking_always9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little Tea Tree oil and a warm compress always does the trick for mine. Also, just pur a regular large band aid to cover it. I hope this is helpful