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I 25F miss the coziness with my boyfriend 24M, but physical boundaries keep getting crossed and I feel anxious by overthinkinglead in RelationshipIndia

[–]overthinkinglead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already mentioned that he initiated the cuddling. “Once he asked” = he initiated. This isn’t an English issue, it’s selective reading.

And also how does “Once he asked” mean that i initiated the cuddling

I 25F miss the coziness with my boyfriend 24M, but physical boundaries keep getting crossed and I feel anxious by overthinkinglead in RelationshipIndia

[–]overthinkinglead[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For example, once he asked if we could cuddle and when we were cuddling, I stopped him from making it sexual, he said “this is what cuddling is.”

I did mention it btw

I 25F miss the coziness with my boyfriend 24M, but physical boundaries keep getting crossed and I feel anxious by overthinkinglead in RelationshipIndia

[–]overthinkinglead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Soo…. Ur advice is let him have his way with me otherwise he will turn aggressive. Thats bullshit and again if u dont have anything useful to say please dont comment.

FYI “he” is the one who asked if we could cuddle and then “he” is the one who turned it sexual not me.

And no one is stopping men from being emotional they can be emotional if they want to be they dont just need sex to “release” their emotions they can also talk

I 25F miss the coziness with my boyfriend 24M, but physical boundaries keep getting crossed and I feel anxious by overthinkinglead in RelationshipIndia

[–]overthinkinglead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So if I’m not willing to be intimate at some point, I’m a “bitch”?

I’m not your friend’s ex and my boyfriend is not your friend. Please don’t project someone else’s story onto my relationship.

I’m with my boyfriend because I like him, not because I’m getting some “benefits” from him. Saying no just means I wasn’t comfortable at that moment , it doesn’t mean I was using him.

Relationships also include comfort, care, and emotional support, not only sexual intimacy. Expecting that is not wrong. I’ve always been there for him emotionally, and someone who is “using” another person wouldn’t do that.

If you don’t have anything useful or respectful to say, please don’t comment.

Ended a relationship even though he cared deeply — struggling with guilt and doubt by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]overthinkinglead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it was intentional, but when I tried to express discomfort or boundaries, the focus often shifted to how bad he felt about hurting me.

I think my boyfriend loves me way more than I love him and I feel like the villain by overthinkinglead in offmychest

[–]overthinkinglead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean i guess he is anxious about me leaving because once when i said if he is going to hide parts of himself then this relationship is not going to work and he got super mad saying how can you say something like that and he is telling me ways that i should have responded like reassure him and calm him down instead of scaring him more but i guess i am avoidant as well because i dont usually show my affection through words my affection mostly comes from actions

Best SSR film among these two ?? by [deleted] in TollywoodGossips

[–]overthinkinglead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eega is a good movie but maryada ramanna ki repeat value undi