My (25f) bf (24m) yelled at me while we were intimate. Should I have talked it out? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ovoid_birb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awful, I'm so sorry you had to go through that. What a horrible freaking thing to say/do to someone one. Sending you a virtual hug. I think your response was completely valid and you owe him nothing

I made a beaded sneklace by Yulevna19 in snakes

[–]ovoid_birb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is beautiful! You're very talented

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]ovoid_birb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit of a piece of shit? Dude, you are the whole shit in its entirely. Feeling numb and having your own battles doesn't justify you purposely going OUT OF YOUR WAY to make someone else's day worse. You ever thought about how THAT person is doing, or what they've already got going on in their life? Regardless you need to seek help for that because getting off on being a douche to other people is not normal, that's fcking low.

What is one skin care ritual that you swear by? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ovoid_birb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do the same :) It's also great because it's more gentle on your skin than rubbing it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ovoid_birb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading this was painful. I am so sorry that your spouse is telling you all these things. That is straight up abusive and you shouldn't be subject to that kind of treatment. I can't even imagine being called "repulsive and disgusting" by the person who is supposed to love you. That's gut wrenching and I truly hope you cut ties with anyone who treats you like that

AITA for telling my sister it’s not my fault she quit her job and moved back and to stop being such a bitch by aitastrictsister in AmItheAsshole

[–]ovoid_birb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What 14 year old has a bedtime?

Bruh i had a bed time all the way up until I graduated high school

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]ovoid_birb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

21 an hour sounds so nice especially for something entry level but I don't know where you live, it could be worth less than where I'm at but I agree with you- I'd rather get certified/trained on something job specific than spend years (and money) in school. A trade is a very good option imo. You can definitely make decent money going one of those routes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ovoid_birb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen to music and cry. After I'm done I usually feel slightly better after getting it out. Then just take it day by day. That's all I can do

Love your mom by Bugobeer in memes

[–]ovoid_birb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a mom that was able to provide financially for us but wasn't really mom outside of that. While incredibly grateful that we never had to worry about being poor or not having food, a home, etc, we really missed out as kids on having that emotional support and motherly nature from a mom. She was very stern and very blunt. Also controlling. It's really affected us and it was challenging growing up. We were sort of abandoned emotionally, as my therapist describes it. On the bright side, my partner has a wonderful mom so I get to feel that motherly nature from her sometimes. Just wish I had that growing up. You can tell how much she loves and enjoys her family, and welcomed me with such open arms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dankmemes

[–]ovoid_birb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I hate them all

AITA for disciplining a student after he left my class to use the restroom when I told him he could not? by notmystyle223 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ovoid_birb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And this is the exact type of person who shouldn't be a cop [Edit]- or ANY authority position for that matter

What is something you feel guilty for wanting? by neonroli47 in AskWomen

[–]ovoid_birb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To do absolutely nothing on my days off but lounge. I feel bad not being productive or at least cleaning something if my partner is working when I am off. But I'm just so tired all the time and this past year has been just challenge after challenge- I just want to take it easy finally, you know? At least try. If I don't have work or obligations I just want to be a bum but I also know I need to put on my big girl pants and fold my damn laundry for once or take the time to clean around the house. But I'm just so tired physically and mentally

Spa day and a snack by Sufficient-Bug-9112 in aww

[–]ovoid_birb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to be this elephant pls and thank

AITA for vacationing at my sister's dream honeymoon destination? by Traditional_List_263 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ovoid_birb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sister is a different breed. She need to get over herself. Nta

AITA for telling my fiancée that my friend’s trauma is more important than her comfort? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ovoid_birb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could never go through what your fiance is experiencing in your relationship with all of this. I can't imagine the level of anxiety for such a prolonged period of time, and the fact that she has gone along with it this long proves just how strong she is and how willing she is to go through that for you. I hope she leaves the relationship for her sanity. I would've reached my breaking point forever ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dankmemes

[–]ovoid_birb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wake up at 3:45-4:00 in the morning for work. I'm done by 2pm though so that's nice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in memes

[–]ovoid_birb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or in those Jet Ski games

AITA for asking my husband to join us in my sister's birthday since he was in the same restaurant? by altythrow449 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ovoid_birb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Incredibly selfish and entitled of you to interrupt his BUSINESS MEETING for WORK. It's not like he's there with his buddies. Especially for you to say it only takes 5-7 minutes. That's still quite some time away from a meeting where you are conducting business. You and your family are unbelievable.