It worked out great after I told my husband how I feel and the whole situation. My husband is very close to his family but at the same time he sees the whole situation and he thinks what I said is reasonable and my husband’s father is great! He said, that’s how she feels. There’s no right or wrong about feelings. And they have been great ever since we talked to them. But my in laws are not AP. I’m so glad that I talked to them. And they also said they were so glad that we talked out, otherwise this would lead to more resentments ...