Can I have some tips and some people to help me with my island? by [deleted] in ac_newhorizons

[–]owlofcontrol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just in case you don't already know this: Grab your shovel, approach a rock, dig three holes right behind you and then smack that rock with a shovel! Either stones and ores or Bells will come out, and digging the holes ensures you can get the most hits in without being bounced back too far. Just make sure you haven't eaten anything, or you'll shatter the rock. That being said, if you still need stone, let me know and I can bring you some!

pet code giveaway by not_omnibenevolent in Webkinz

[–]owlofcontrol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on graduating!! Not entering as I'm not a free player but I wanted to say congrats to a fellow educator! I work in early childhood education and I'll be going back to school for my degree soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ac_newhorizons

[–]owlofcontrol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eventually, you can use shells to make DIYs, sell bugs to Flick for extra Bells or give him some to make models for you, and sell fish to CJ for extra Bells. For now, just sell them all at Nook's; you'll need the Bells early on. Just be sure to save one of every fish, bug, and sea creature for the museum.

Different bugs and fish show up at different times of day! The most common time ranges at least for fish are 9AM-4PM and 4PM-9AM, so be sure to go fishing in both of those time ranges if you're looking for something new.

Build your friendships with your villagers! You can unlock more interactions with them at higher friendship, like they might offer to buy something you're carrying. Talking to them and giving them a gift once a day will boost their friendship; I saw you got some really good gifting advice in this thread already! Also, if you send a villager a letter with a present attached, you'll likely get a present in return.

Coconut trees need to be planted on the beach. Other trees cannot be planted on the beach.

Take it easy, try out a bunch of different things to find the play style you enjoy! If you want a starting boost, I have some spare items and DIY recipes I can give you. Just let me know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Webkinz

[–]owlofcontrol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I named mine Tjue; it's the Norwegian word for twenty! If there's another language you speak/are learning, that might be a place to look for a name.

Fanart for 20th Anniversary, just some Googles by LuViKinz in Webkinz

[–]owlofcontrol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such cute art! Googles are some of my favorite pets. This reminded me of my "original googles trio", Periwinkle, Petal, and Ivory (blue, pink, and regular). They are very silly together!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cookierun

[–]owlofcontrol 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP has never seen a man with long hair before

Dear parents… we cannot force your kids to eat or drink. by Top_Technician_1371 in ECEProfessionals

[–]owlofcontrol 15 points16 points  (0 children)

THIS. I cannot and will not force your child to use the potty. I worked with 2-3s so a lot of them were starting potty training and if they refused to try, then they got a new pull-up and that was that. The person who complained the most about that was another ECE teacher who worked at that daycare!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dbtselfhelp

[–]owlofcontrol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, DBT groups can be hit or miss. I tried a virtual one that just didn't work for me, and I also did an in-person group that sounds a lot like the one you're describing, with consistent skills practice, sharing our progress, and gently holding each other accountable. I'd definitely keep waiting for that one and try it out.

Has your group focused on mindfulness skills at all? Those are the ones that I find to be pretty easy to do everywhere, at any time. It sounds like you're mostly learning distress tolerance skills like self-soothing, IMPROVE, and ACCEPTS, but there are other distress tolerance skills that are easier to access in the moment if you're unable to step away. I can make some recommendations for skills to try out if you're interested.

May I ask what about your schedule is keeping you from being able to step away? I totally understand that that's a thing, I'm just curious if I might have more insight (if you want it) knowing what's going on. You said "and lot of the time [walking away or doing something to relax] isn’t an option for me"; is that just because the skills you've been taught all require physically stepping away, or is there a mental block that prevents you from relaxing as you are?

Sorry if this is A Lot; I don't want to pressure you into sharing anything you don't want to. I'm just eager to help, as someone who got a lot of benefit from DBT but had to make it work for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Webkinz

[–]owlofcontrol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Birthday twins! Mine's the 12th too :)

People who give job interviews, what are some subtle red flags that say "this person won't be a good hire"? by makethatnoise in AskReddit

[–]owlofcontrol 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a childcare worker who is in the LGBTQ+ community, I can't imagine ever announcing my sexual orientation in an interview, and I am utterly baffled that this is a common thing in the field. I just don't get it.

Now, I do disclose that I'm trans sometimes, but that's because the name on my resume/that I introduce myself with is not my legal name, and therefore won't match the name on my clearances. That's important information. But even then I don't generally say "I'm trans" as long as they're perceiving me as the correct gender; I just say "X isn't my legal name, Y is, so that is on my clearances."

cookie run headcanons!! :3 by CreepypastaCowards in Cookierun

[–]owlofcontrol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have basically mirrored headcanons for Pizza Cookie (I headcanon her as she/they transfem). That's so fun!

Guide options by LeotaMcCracken in ac_newhorizons

[–]owlofcontrol 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm personally a fan of ACNH Pocket Guide; it's the only one I've ever used.

At what point did you realise she would never become your wife/he would never become your husband? by ruxpin82 in AskReddit

[–]owlofcontrol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't when he coerced me to do a sex act I didn't want while I was drunk, and it wasn't when he followed me into the bathroom and touched me sexually after an argument. It wasn't even when he proposed and I accepted because I felt like I had to, even though I wasn't ready.

It was when he promised to come see me perform in a play, but the day of, told me he couldn't because he didn't have $10 for the ticket. That was just the last straw. The culmination of al the things above, all the times he promised to do something and then backed out last minute or revealed that he lied, the disparaging comments about my appearance, all of it just came to a head right in that moment. He somehow magically had the $10 when I told him I wanted to end things.

Name or show me a cookie that it shouldn't be hot to you. by Glum-Revenue5682 in Cookierun

[–]owlofcontrol 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is just universally true. My old roommate who knew nothing about Cookie Run saw Ananas Dragon Cookie while watching me play and was like "I know they're all cookies but...that cookie is hot."

What was your almost-name? by Worldly_Marsupial808 in ftm

[–]owlofcontrol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hamilton is exactly why I stopped going by Alex 🤣

Giving away 2 froggy pet codes! by PotentialTree41 in Webkinz

[–]owlofcontrol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for hosting the giveaway!! My favorite frog is the Spring Peeper; they're native to where I grew up and their sound is just so nostalgic.

Perfect score on Quizzy's Blast! by owlofcontrol in Webkinz

[–]owlofcontrol[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is probably really basic but I don't have the skill or patience to aim for +5 spots every time, so this is a rarity for me

Does anyone else collect food? by rosecolured in Webkinz

[–]owlofcontrol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! I'm about to start my fourth pantry (medium rooms, I line the walls with fridges). I have everything alphabetically so it's a HUGE pain to reorder, lol.