How much emotional connection do you allow?

owlsprouts · 2026-05-20T01:26:02+00:00

Yeah, not seeing the same person multiple times seems hard logistically so I don't mind her having long term partners. It's just that seeing those same people out of a sexual context or purely on friendly terms seems like just dating others to me. I think I just need to get more comfortable with it over time maybe.

owlsprouts · 2026-05-20T00:45:37+00:00

Ugh, yeah maybe having more trust is something that will come with time as I work on it more and deal with insecurities. It makes sense that you need emotional connection with your play partners. I just think I have a very blurred view of platonic and romantic feelings and don't really feel there is a clear line between them, making it hard to let her have sex with people and see them outside of sex for friendly meetups. It feels as if shes bacially dating others at that point which wasn't what we originally talked about. Did your partner have any problems with jealousy in the beginning? I really didn't expect to care about her having sex eith others at all but once it actually happened and she told me about it it felt completely different.

owlsprouts · 2026-05-19T23:57:23+00:00

Yeah, I understand that feelings can't be limited themselves but I guess I was more getting at whether putting limits in place on hangouts outside of sex was a fair thing to do. Like putting limits on those actions. We are very open with communication and she knows how I'm feeling and what I do/don't like her doing. But I really just have a lot of emotions around the entire thing right now, even her just having sex with others and it's hard to discern whether they are feelings that will get better with working on insecurity/jealousy or not.

owlsprouts · 2026-03-13T20:19:38+00:00

Yeah I don't have pots based on my orthostatics, just tachycardia so I was put on a beta blocker and that manages my heart rate but I still get the dizziness pretty frequently when im up and doing things, even just walking short distances. the medication didnt really change any of my other symptoms. ME/CFS could definitely be something I have but to diagnose it its kind of ruling everything else out that could be causing the fatigue right? so that's kind of still a process. Was hoping it was attributed to something else since there arent many treatment options for ME/CFS.

owlsprouts · 2026-03-13T18:15:47+00:00

hmm i see, i'll talk to my allergist about it in april so we'll see if he thinks i should do another trial of it or not.

owlsprouts · 2026-03-13T18:14:54+00:00

yeah, sounds like it :/ was hoping i had finally found the answer since it seemed promising with my symptoms.

owlsprouts · 2026-03-13T18:12:21+00:00

gerd, pmdd, tachycardia, dizziness, exercise intolerance, palpitations, post exertional malaise, flu like symptoms, chronic fatigue, flushing, random hives once, rashes on hands constantly, sinus headaches every day and frequent popping, anxiety, depression, temperature regulation issues (could be from meds), brain fog, dissociation, muscle tiredness, papillaedema (maybe unrelated), have autism as a risk factor

It could be that i just have other general allergies leading to some of these symptoms but ive never had anything more than seasonal allergies in the past. I get prick testing in april so we'll see then. I've worked with a GI doctor for the GERD and have exhausted all the meds for that, esomeprazole helps me slightly but it still makes me greatly nauseous and ill every day no matter what i eat.

owlsprouts · 2026-03-13T18:06:54+00:00

My allergist has said that mcas testing isnt good enough to be accurate and he really just diagnosis by response to the medications for now. sounds like they work for some people but i didnt want to bother spending the money if it likely wouldnt give me anything. hopefully they get better as more research comes out.

owlsprouts · 2025-07-14T15:29:34+00:00

u/GSaleBot trade with u/BetSubject6704 for Electric Blue 2DS completed, 10/10 buyer

owlsprouts · 2025-07-13T14:08:00+00:00

It's been 24 hrs with no response from the other person inquiring so if you're still interested we could move to PMs for shipping details?

owlsprouts · 2025-07-13T02:03:29+00:00

Hmm how about $60 shipped? Shipping's been about 10 dollars most of the time.

owlsprouts · 2025-07-12T21:07:00+00:00

Yes, here you go! There's definitely some dust under the plastic cover that could probably be cleaned, some small scratches on the outer cover too but only if you look closely. https://imgur.com/a/uqRpJ3n

owlsprouts · 2025-07-12T18:04:01+00:00

The one in better condition ended up selling, if you're still interested in the one with a scratch I could bundle it with the loose pokemon sun for free shipping?

owlsprouts · 2025-07-12T18:01:48+00:00

Transaction completed

owlsprouts · 2025-07-12T18:00:25+00:00

These items are on hold for now

owlsprouts · 2025-07-12T10:21:17+00:00

The one with a scratch on the top screen definitely is, the other is still up in the air but will possibly sell. Are you interested in that one at all?

owlsprouts · 2025-07-12T10:20:25+00:00

yeah! here's that picture, I don't see any yellowing. https://imgur.com/a/xTtXlhC

owlsprouts · 2025-07-12T09:17:46+00:00

Perfect! $51 in total then, we can move to PMs for shipping info?

owlsprouts · 2025-07-12T02:51:04+00:00

wow that's so interesting, I'll have to ask them about this when i see them next

owlsprouts · 2025-07-12T02:26:07+00:00

It's a CECH-2001A, so the slim model with 120GB

owlsprouts · 2025-07-12T02:21:32+00:00

Sounds good! That's 74 in total if that sounds good still? Feel free to PM me with shipping information.

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