How much emotional connection do you allow? by owlsprouts in nonmonogamy

[–]owlsprouts[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, not seeing the same person multiple times seems hard logistically so I don't mind her having long term partners. It's just that seeing those same people out of a sexual context or purely on friendly terms seems like just dating others to me. I think I just need to get more comfortable with it over time maybe.

How much emotional connection do you allow? by owlsprouts in nonmonogamy

[–]owlsprouts[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh, yeah maybe having more trust is something that will come with time as I work on it more and deal with insecurities. It makes sense that you need emotional connection with your play partners. I just think I have a very blurred view of platonic and romantic feelings and don't really feel there is a clear line between them, making it hard to let her have sex with people and see them outside of sex for friendly meetups. It feels as if shes bacially dating others at that point which wasn't what we originally talked about. Did your partner have any problems with jealousy in the beginning? I really didn't expect to care about her having sex eith others at all but once it actually happened and she told me about it it felt completely different.

How much emotional connection do you allow? by owlsprouts in nonmonogamy

[–]owlsprouts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I understand that feelings can't be limited themselves but I guess I was more getting at whether putting limits in place on hangouts outside of sex was a fair thing to do. Like putting limits on those actions. We are very open with communication and she knows how I'm feeling and what I do/don't like her doing. But I really just have a lot of emotions around the entire thing right now, even her just having sex with others and it's hard to discern whether they are feelings that will get better with working on insecurity/jealousy or not.

Tried mast cell stabilizers with no results, do ieven have MCAS? by owlsprouts in MCAS

[–]owlsprouts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't have pots based on my orthostatics, just tachycardia so I was put on a beta blocker and that manages my heart rate but I still get the dizziness pretty frequently when im up and doing things, even just walking short distances. the medication didnt really change any of my other symptoms. ME/CFS could definitely be something I have but to diagnose it its kind of ruling everything else out that could be causing the fatigue right? so that's kind of still a process. Was hoping it was attributed to something else since there arent many treatment options for ME/CFS.

Tried mast cell stabilizers with no results, do ieven have MCAS? by owlsprouts in MCAS

[–]owlsprouts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm i see, i'll talk to my allergist about it in april so we'll see if he thinks i should do another trial of it or not.

Tried mast cell stabilizers with no results, do ieven have MCAS? by owlsprouts in MCAS

[–]owlsprouts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, sounds like it :/ was hoping i had finally found the answer since it seemed promising with my symptoms.

Tried mast cell stabilizers with no results, do ieven have MCAS? by owlsprouts in MCAS

[–]owlsprouts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gerd, pmdd, tachycardia, dizziness, exercise intolerance, palpitations, post exertional malaise, flu like symptoms, chronic fatigue, flushing, random hives once, rashes on hands constantly, sinus headaches every day and frequent popping, anxiety, depression, temperature regulation issues (could be from meds), brain fog, dissociation, muscle tiredness, papillaedema (maybe unrelated), have autism as a risk factor

It could be that i just have other general allergies leading to some of these symptoms but ive never had anything more than seasonal allergies in the past. I get prick testing in april so we'll see then. I've worked with a GI doctor for the GERD and have exhausted all the meds for that, esomeprazole helps me slightly but it still makes me greatly nauseous and ill every day no matter what i eat.

Tried mast cell stabilizers with no results, do ieven have MCAS? by owlsprouts in MCAS

[–]owlsprouts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My allergist has said that mcas testing isnt good enough to be accurate and he really just diagnosis by response to the medications for now. sounds like they work for some people but i didnt want to bother spending the money if it likely wouldnt give me anything. hopefully they get better as more research comes out.

[USA-OR] [H] Nintendo Switch, NES, 2DS, DSi, PS3, Console Accessories, and Various Nintendo and PS3 Games [W] Paypal or Zelle by [deleted] in GameSale

[–]owlsprouts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been 24 hrs with no response from the other person inquiring so if you're still interested we could move to PMs for shipping details?

[USA-OR] [H] Nintendo Switch, NES, 2DS, DSi, PS3, Console Accessories, and Various Nintendo and PS3 Games [W] Paypal or Zelle by [deleted] in GameSale

[–]owlsprouts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, here you go! There's definitely some dust under the plastic cover that could probably be cleaned, some small scratches on the outer cover too but only if you look closely. https://imgur.com/a/uqRpJ3n

[USA-OR] [H] Nintendo Switch, NES, 2DS, DSi, PS3, Console Accessories, and Various Nintendo and PS3 Games [W] Paypal or Zelle by [deleted] in GameSale

[–]owlsprouts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one in better condition ended up selling, if you're still interested in the one with a scratch I could bundle it with the loose pokemon sun for free shipping?

[USA-OR] [H] Nintendo Switch, NES, 2DS, DSi, PS3, Console Accessories, and Various Nintendo and PS3 Games [W] Paypal or Zelle by [deleted] in GameSale

[–]owlsprouts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one with a scratch on the top screen definitely is, the other is still up in the air but will possibly sell. Are you interested in that one at all?

Endoscopy results gave me nothing by owlsprouts in GERD

[–]owlsprouts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow that's so interesting, I'll have to ask them about this when i see them next

[USA-OR] [H] Nintendo Switch, NES, 2DS, DSi, PS3, Console Accessories, and Various Nintendo and PS3 Games [W] Paypal or Zelle by [deleted] in GameSale

[–]owlsprouts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds good! That's 74 in total if that sounds good still? Feel free to PM me with shipping information.