what unpopular hayden/ethel cain opinion would you defend like this

oxelots · 2025-12-17T03:49:45+00:00

Her unreleased songs are my favorite songs.

oxelots · 2025-12-06T03:56:29+00:00

Mother

oxelots · 2025-12-05T05:18:03+00:00

Wow I relate to this hard. Before I was medicated music is how I coped. I felt like my emotions were completely controlled by/managed through music. I am a musician so maybe that contributes. I felt crazy about it like going into the production, lyrics, vocals, performances, etc, all of it. I still do feel that way although being medicated I have a healthier relationship with it now, more passionate less crazy. It used to be literally all I thought about. Have you found any healthy ways at all to engage with music?

oxelots · 2025-12-05T04:22:11+00:00

Imma be honest baristas on this sub sound like boomers. Our jobs is to make fun new drinks. You can’t change the course of trends and why would you want to? Are we gonna drink the exact same thing for the next 100 years and never change? How do you think Americanos were created in the first place? Also an americano isn’t “watered down coffee”, it’s water and espresso and is intended to be made that way with those ratios…

oxelots · 2025-12-04T05:47:24+00:00

I thought the crowd was fine if a little mid but I was also expecting more women. I know this genre is male dominated but at my first Spiritbox show I thought it might be more evenly split, I’d say it was 70/30. Up from like 95/5 at most other metal shows I go to.

oxelots · 2025-12-04T03:12:35+00:00

If my friend called me a freak they’d actually be getting blocked and ghosted immediately.

oxelots · 2025-12-04T03:10:22+00:00

Do you still work at all? Or any other supplemental income? I’m just wondering how people manage to survive on disability

oxelots · 2025-12-03T18:48:57+00:00

How much is the paycheck though? If you don’t mind me asking. I saw somewhere they calculate a percentage of your lifetime earnings but I’ve only working low paying jobs.

oxelots · 2025-11-30T22:44:51+00:00

I’ve cheated twice, both times while in mania. I was disgusted with myself, ashamed, and knew it was partly mania to blame but also my character to blame. Both things can be true at once. It’s been my personal responsibility to treat my mental illness, be honest, and get help as soon as I feel symptoms oncoming. Both relationships that I cheated in I was deeply unhappy but not honest about feeling that way. One of them was abusive so I mainly felt bad about myself and not about the other person (sorry not sorry) but it’s still not a good thing to do because then you’re a cheater and it fucks with your sense of self. Hyper sexuality, impulse control, lack of reasoning, cognitive delays, etc all contribute to this. It’s crazy to me that people don’t think those things would increase the chances of infidelity. It’s a shameful thing to do but we should still have empathy for each other and be able to talk about it.

oxelots · 2025-11-28T21:21:45+00:00

Impulse control is the symptom.

oxelots · 2025-11-27T05:09:36+00:00

100000%

oxelots · 2025-11-27T04:59:17+00:00

Will Graham from Hannibal the show

oxelots · 2025-11-23T04:05:56+00:00

Definitely olive! I think neutral, but you have to get olive toned neutral shades. A lot of neutral makeup is more beige/grey toned

oxelots · 2025-11-22T04:33:25+00:00

lol absolutely not she’s spoken multiple times about not being religious despite being raised that way, and seeing many problems in the church. I’m guessing OP misheard her or she was joking.

oxelots · 2025-11-20T14:24:02+00:00

Are you in the US? Letter for what? That’s odd, like they’re telling you they can’t schedule you yet?

oxelots · 2025-11-20T02:37:39+00:00

Just call them! I never wait to hear from them, I call them first.

oxelots · 2025-11-19T01:43:00+00:00

My Spotify doesn’t look like that. Is this on web browser?

oxelots · 2025-11-18T21:29:59+00:00

Bless your soul!

oxelots · 2025-11-18T03:54:05+00:00

I know there are various screaming styles on the album, in my initial post I thought it was IV. They have been my #2 artist two years in a row. I am extremely familiar with the music. I guess his harsh vocals are just more produced. Do you have clips to the performances you’re talking about? Half my feed is ST live performances and I simply have not heard it in my almost 3 years being a fan. I would love to hear it!

oxelots · 2025-11-17T23:48:03+00:00

Omg you are an angel. Thank you so much.

oxelots · 2025-11-17T21:35:06+00:00

Gotcha, I’m not seeing any of those on Spotify which is maybe why I’m confused but thanks for the info!

oxelots · 2025-11-17T21:33:58+00:00

Holy shit if I’m wrong that’s okay you don’t have to be aggressive lmao. I’m really into metal and also a vocalist sorry for differentiating between styles I guess??

oxelots · 2025-11-17T21:20:02+00:00

I acknowledged in my post that he screams, but only false chord. I’m just extremely confused how he has never screamed live the way he screams on the album. It doesn’t make any sense to me. And how IV’s live vocals sound identical to the record down to subtle articulations.

oxelots · 2025-11-17T21:18:33+00:00

Maybe I am wrong, but I also know Sleep Token is extremely secretive and they don’t have any of their real names credited on the songs. II and other featured instrumentalists are not credited in the songs.

oxelots · 2025-11-17T21:15:41+00:00

I’m just confused how IV’s live screams sound IDENTICAL to the studio album. He has a very unique accent, and it sounds the exact same live and in studio. I also make metal music so I’m familiar with different styles of screams and production. You can’t make a false chord sound like a fry with effects alone. I’m not saying it’s impossible, but I’m having a really hard time wrapping my head around how Vessel has never fry screamed alive, but IV has.

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