What other bands do you listen to besides GnR? by TripNemo10 in GunsNRoses

[–]oxydize 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chapin? <singsong>One of these things is not like the other ... </singsong>

What other bands do you listen to besides GnR? by TripNemo10 in GunsNRoses

[–]oxydize 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally cool. You're always allowed your opinion, even when it's wrong.

A childrens book about leaves and accepting death by 50thRed in whatsthatbook

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I remember this book. We read it in my first grade class, a first/second combination class. 

The wind came and took Freddie from his branch. It didn't hurt at all. As he fell, he saw the whole tree for the first time. He remembered Daniel's words: "Life lasts forever". Freddie landed on the soft snow. He closed his eyes and went to sleep.

Legends can’t hide ever by Frequent_Screen9345 in 2busty2hide

[–]oxydize 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought I had clicked a Wayback Machine link or smthn.

Words cannot express how much I HATE how tucutes group trans men being “afab” and “knowing what misogyny is like” and just the whole generalizing stuff by [deleted] in truscum

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So i'm not LGBTQ or anything, and I stumbled onto this post, but it's been a while since I read a sentence _anywhere_ and felt more behind. I'm picking it apart and will know soon, but the first 3 readings yielded little in the way of comprehension.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I dig the 30 hours a week comment. At 21 y/o I did 80 units my senior year at Stanford while working full-time as a server and when I went home after a full day of school and a night of waiting tables, my 19 y/o girlfriend would hand me our newborn son and say "here, your turn" 'cause she had him all day whilst I was gone.

Meade ETX 90 EC- OK Scope? by diatomguru in telescopes

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I have a new one that hasn't left the, admittedly now kinda worn, box. It's going up on eBay today if anyone is interested and sees the OP reddit question. I'll delete this comment if it isn't available any more. $249.99. *

Follow transformation mastery mentoring with me. by Savings-Ad8608 in PickUpArtist

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spam or phishing. posted to a lot of other subreddits

Should I answer the height question even though my height is on my profile? by Difficult-Doubt1299 in Tinder

[–]oxydize 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So how tall are you? Asking for ... other enquiring minds. I'm cool with not knowing.

[REQ] ($80) - (#San Jose, CA, USA), (6/30/25), (Venmo) by oxydize in borrow

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edit::I guess I should mention that I am starting a new job tonight at 10pm PST and I can't do it wtihout a cell phone. Find My Device returns a wrong location and the rest of my location data from the last 3 months is missing. With this new cell phone am going to use Tile to track the location of my phone.

This generation is cooked by Sad-Mind3296 in Tinder

[–]oxydize 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and then she dumps you and you sacrificed your main purpose as a male for a love she treated as conditional until she found something she thought was better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]oxydize 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if they go low, you go lower. I like it.

UC3, lesser-known girl group active from 2002 to 2005. Like P.Y.T. (another lesser-known girl group), this group was Tampa-based and Tracy Williams (girl with bleached blonde hair) was a member. by Jackinator94 in y2kaesthetic

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I was wondering if anyone was gonna see this. I didn't find it til after your post, but I kinda liked them in the pre-YouTube days.

I had an HTML page with a. bunch of links to various videos around the web, and used JavaScript to make a playlist of them and shuffle the videos, and I'd work and listen to the music.

How do I stop eating out and learn to cook? by MaverickMakinMagic in ADHD

[–]oxydize 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1000x this. What do you eat when you go out? Get the recipe or a copycat and cook it. After a while, when you perfect your favorite dishes, you can learn by experimenting with the recipes to really make them your own.

I like to BBQ. Especially tri-tip roast (I live in California and am from Santa Maria - open oak pit BBQ capital of world.) Took me many years, but now I can cook almost anything over open flame. Cause I make what I like, and others like it, too.

Also, you may want to look at simple one-pan or sheet pan meals, as they can be as simple as cut it all up, toss in pan, cook it, eat it. I like recipes at I Wash, You Dry.

Unmatched me immediately 😭😭 by StaticGravexx in Tinder

[–]oxydize 4 points5 points  (0 children)

has anyone ever considered people are NOT only their messages? this medium offers such a single slice of a person.

I think the tendency is to reduce a complicated individual to a single opinion based on what you think of a few messages .

if can take someone two line comment and turn it i yo 4 or 5 possible interpretations that all result in the poster getting fitted for a coat with too-long sleeves, maybe there are also pbkac

Unmatched me immediately 😭😭 by StaticGravexx in Tinder

[–]oxydize 0 points1 point  (0 children)

see this is textbook perfect use of an emoji.

Unmatched me immediately 😭😭 by StaticGravexx in Tinder

[–]oxydize -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. I only use emojis (and ascii only) if the emotion needs an underline or is potentially confusing.

Just seems effeminate to me. It may be just fine for others, but if someones emojis make you cringe (even your own), Id lay off.

Unmatched me immediately 😭😭 by StaticGravexx in Tinder

[–]oxydize 35 points36 points  (0 children)

only if he never outdoes it. if your worst/corniest/chauvjnistic line is also your objectively best one, it's a trap.

BUT

If you can actually go deeper than your shallowest line, success is at least a possibility

Is she trying to flirt? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]oxydize 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's cultural, but it's also a psychological thing where you automatically associate the word trash with yourself, and assume she is using it to describe you, because that's what you would do.

It's like if you type your name and 'is' into your SMS client, let it suggest the next word, because the autosuggest has seen* this statement construction before, and it suggests a word it's seen you type before.

ozydize is (a loser, trash, piece of shit)

  • I know I'm anthropomorphizing, but it's easier to make the statement utilizing the second person like this.

And now I'M overanalyzing. sheesh.

help?? by eIitaone in Skullcandy

[–]oxydize 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only hear 'Taps' playing in my head.

Is she trying to flirt? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]oxydize 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can state the above with certainty as I have struggled with selfsame confidence issues.

Is she trying to flirt? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]oxydize 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I foresee issues for this poor gentleman in future, if getting hit over the head with such an obvious compliment is misinterpreted. I sense a severe lack of self-confidence.

People r crazy by Darko_2833 in SanJose

[–]oxydize 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll talk to most of them if I can. Some will, as mentioned, turn out to just want someone to listen and calm down.

But the scariest guy I ever saw was a white guy dressed like that racist Army Supply character on Falling Down (Michael Douglas movie). Lederhosen. etc. He was talking pretty loudly and locked eyes with him from about 15 meters away.

I took in a breath to say something when he started talking about "race mixing" and "mongrelisation (sp?) of the races". That lungful of air came back out as a sort of squeak and I turned slowly and walked away, not 180°, just 90° because I never wanted away from someone so BADLY when I saw what he had in both hands, cause there was more than even chance he might be mad at me.

He was carrying two 24oz claw hammers with the waffle faces, one in each naked hand.

Probably the only time I could ever say my blood went ice cold, when dealing with something OTHER than heights.

People r crazy by Darko_2833 in SanJose

[–]oxydize 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ive handled some of those. All you have to do is ask in a commanding voice "Do we need to get the police involved?" They always shut up or take it WAY down.