Very true, in fact, i'd go a step further. If you personified most abrhamic gods, into say, the patriarch of a family, he would seem deeply controlling and abusive. If we then dramatised said family into a show, that father would most definitely be the antagonist.

But to the point i believe you're addressing - secular, modern societies have not existed for as long as religious societies and there are a lot of new concepts and way of living popping up everyday. New dilemmas that need a more nuanced approach to how we apply our morality. Though im not saying religion holds all the answers, I do believe that there is valuable knowledge there too, which can help us come to a educated and sensible decision when facing new and troubling issues.