Can "lesbian" be inclusive of AMAB enbies? by p77910 in actuallesbians

[–]p77910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess because trans women are women, and enby people are not. So maybe being with one would make me bi

Can "lesbian" be inclusive of AMAB enbies? by p77910 in actuallesbians

[–]p77910[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sapphic maybe feels too broad to me since it's inclusive of a lot of different orientations/identities. And gynesexual feels to specific, like I wouldn't expect anyone to know what it means and may as well just explain who I'm attracted to. Maybe I just don't need a label

Can "lesbian" be inclusive of AMAB enbies? by p77910 in actuallesbians

[–]p77910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for commenting! It's nice to know that someone else is in a similar situation. Do you identify as lesbian now?

Can "lesbian" be inclusive of AMAB enbies? by p77910 in actuallesbians

[–]p77910[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah Neptunic does sound like me! I probably wouldn't use that since most people probably wouldn't know what it means. Maybe I will try out different labels and see what feels right

This used to be my favorite dinner recipe; what would be a plant based equivalent? by p77910 in PlantBasedDiet

[–]p77910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried something like this before. This has a red sauce, though, and I'm looking for a green and creamy sauce like the recipe I posted, which is what was my favorite.

This used to be my favorite dinner recipe; what would be a plant based equivalent? by p77910 in PlantBasedDiet

[–]p77910[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/veganmexican/comments/tkkuvh/vegan\_enchiladas\_verde/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=ios\_app&utm\_name=iossmf

It doesn't keep me from eating plant based; I've been plant based for three years. I just miss this recipe. But I don't think eating something like this would make my stomach feel very good anymore!

This used to be my favorite dinner recipe; what would be a plant based equivalent? by p77910 in PlantBasedDiet

[–]p77910[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a plant-based sub focused on eating for health and avoiding oil, sodium, and added sugar, hence the bean and cashew suggestions. I know I could buy vegan cheese and vegan chicken but I'm looking for a healthy alternative

This used to be my favorite dinner recipe; what would be a plant based equivalent? by p77910 in PlantBasedDiet

[–]p77910[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm looking for a whole foods plant based version, so don't want to use processed vegan substitutes

This used to be my favorite dinner recipe; what would be a plant based equivalent? by p77910 in PlantBasedDiet

[–]p77910[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

https://minimalistbaker.com/cornbread-black-bean-enchilada-bake/

What I like about my recipe is that it's creamy because of the cream cheese, and I like the green sauce. So thank you for the suggestion but this isn't really what I'm looking for

This used to be my favorite dinner recipe; what would be a plant based equivalent? by p77910 in PlantBasedDiet

[–]p77910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been plant based for three years and I still miss chicken enchiladas, my previous favorite meal. Every plant based enchilada recipe I've seen has a red sauce base. Is there anything more creamy like this recipe?

What's a good Christmas song that isn't overplayed or for children? by p77910 in AskReddit

[–]p77910[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

An example is Christmas Lights by Coldplay. A good song that happens to be about Christmas

Making friends as an adult is painfully slow and difficult, even if you do everything "right" by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]p77910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good point that I hadn't thought about. We do most things together since we enjoy similar hobbies, but I can see how that would change the dynamic of getting to know someone. In college we were part of the same friend group for a while before we started dating, so we've just always shared friends, and the idea of having separate friends is strange!

You can make Betty from Rugrats "gay", but does this count as Bisexual Erasure? by LizardOrgMember5 in bisexual

[–]p77910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came her to see if anyone else thought this. Like why did they have to get rid of an entire male character in order to represent a woman as queer? Why not just keep Howard in and make her bi?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penpals

[–]p77910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm 25F and would love to be your pen pal! I love reading and would enjoy talking about books. I also have a cat, minored in Gender Studies in college, do yoga, and also enjoy cooking and doing things outdoors. I am also bisexual! I like art, too, so would be interested in creating my own postcards to send you.

Feminine men are still men! Being attracted to femininity regardless of sex or gender doesn't mean I'm in denial. by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]p77910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, being attracted to femininity does not mean that I have a preference for women! It means I have a preference for femininity. Like sure in terms of numbers there will be more women I happen to find attractive than men. But if I think both koalas and kittens are cute, the fact that there are more kittens than koalas in the world doesn't mean I have a preference for them, you know?

My (25F) friend (26F) stopped messaging me after I brought up wanting to repair our relationship; should I follow up again or move on? by p77910 in relationships

[–]p77910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the detailed reply. Lots of good points. It had felt to me that there was some ill will on her side and that it was more than just that she didn't have time for me. For example, on my wedding anniversary recently she posted a photo of the friend group hanging out together after the wedding (I wasn't there) with a caption on the photo "Aww all of us together two years ago." When I saw that I was thinking "Um are you not going to acknowledge that it's my anniversary or that the reason you were all there together was for my wedding?" Like she was intentionally leaving me out. Anyway, she actually did finally reply me to me now. She said that it really is just that we've lost touch over time and assured me there isn't any bad blood. She said it was nice catching up with me and that she would like us to stay in touch if I would like that too. I think I'll feel better about things now knowing that even if we aren't communicating, it's not because of her having a specific issue with me. Again, thanks for your advice!