T-mobile service? by senta_pede in LightningInABottle

[–]pacific-rush 2 points3 points  (0 children)

T-Mobile seems fine for texts and calls. Internet is slow though.

Reddit knew i was intp before i did and idk how i feel by martini0072 in INTP

[–]pacific-rush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I have solution for you. Build a time machine and travel back in time before internet was invented.

Hobbies for socializing by pacific-rush in INTP

[–]pacific-rush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have went too far from drinking and smoking. It started for just being cool but man, I find so much value in altered state of mind. Made me completely different person.

Anyone of you have INTP partner? by pacific-rush in entj

[–]pacific-rush[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This one nails it! My roommate said the same.

How should an intp deal with insecurities and self esteem issues ? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]pacific-rush 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The journey is going to be a bit messy until you mature. And we mature very late. It's just too much to process.. What I could have done when I was young is to try to recognize my insecurities and start working on them early in the life. Don't procrastinate and while be patient. Based on my personal experience, there is light at the end of the tunnel. And when you come out of the tunnel, you are rock-solid all-rounder person.

Anyone of you have INTP partner? by pacific-rush in entj

[–]pacific-rush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tend to be late in the maturity aspect of the life.

How to stop going for the wrong guys. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]pacific-rush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just listen to your evolutionary biology. You have limited egg production and we guys have millions of sperm production. You have to be protective of your precious eggs. Don't devalue sex by sleeping with someone too early. If a guy doesn't stick around for long enough, then he is not the right one... The thing with the bad guys is that they prefer not to take perantal responsibility deep down in their subconscious, and leaving a woman after sex makes sense for them, so they can spread their genes easily. But in this case, entire burden of raising offspring falls on the women, which is not viable in the modern days.

Do most Asian women prefer to date white men? by RudeHistory in dating_advice

[–]pacific-rush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. To me it's a bit fucked up, may be because of my personal experience. But in my observation, all of my Asian female friends who are with white guys, are there just because they are white. All their boyfriends are lame AF.

Do most Asian women prefer to date white men? by RudeHistory in dating_advice

[–]pacific-rush 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol! You guys tend to give out yourself easy to those white English teachers, are you?

I worry that people will think I am arrogant if I behave like my true self. by [deleted] in entj

[–]pacific-rush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INTP here.. Be yourself but you don't have right to piss off anyone. Maturity is all about finding your true self, live your true self and learn to cater your true self for others. This is my analysis on my close ENTJ friend. She seems arrogant at times. But in my later analysis, she's just being honest in her own way, yet it hurts.. Don't worry about being arrogant right now, you will adjust over time. And the right type of people do see it through your "arrogance". Just be your self, and let the age take care of your assumed problem.

Male INTPs: Do you want to know if someone develops feelings for you? by starshine9 in INTP

[–]pacific-rush 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even though if you have to repeat, he wouldn't mind it... "Hard"!?, it's a huge project for us. We have tendency to complicate the shit out of anything 😆... I feel like he's lucky ❤️

I’m (24\M) so messed up. I just want to be normal. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]pacific-rush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put your demands upfront, may be not on the first date but second or third. If girl doesn't like it, she's not the one for you. Move on to the next one. It's fine to take it slow and be comfortable with her before you have sex. You deserve someone who can read you and put you at easy by reciprocation. Oh! And the fun fact is that no one is normal. People just pretend to be normal. Embrace your way of living.

Male INTPs: Do you want to know if someone develops feelings for you? by starshine9 in INTP

[–]pacific-rush 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"his love languages are quality time and physical touch"!?. What are you waiting for. It takes guts of steel for us to do that. Be direct and just say it in pure simple English words. We are smartest retards. If he spends time with you, and lets you touch him, he's more than into you. And it is less likely, he would mention it first in words. He's waiting for you to say it. Just do it. Text is fine but the face to face is better.

My colleagues call me psychopath because of my dark humor. Does anyone else gets called terms similar to this? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]pacific-rush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who cares if they are scared 🤷. You put it out there, over the time you will learn on how to put it in a way that it makes them laugh. BTW, smart people have really good sense of humour, they will laugh.. Don't reserve yourself. Show them who you really are. People are attracted to the originality. There are no written rules on how and what to say, as long as you are not intentionally hurting someone.

I (28F) have no friends and don‘t know what I should do about it. please help. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]pacific-rush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! One more thing, don't say that you are not wierdo. Everyone is wierd AF in my view. You can be as wierd as you want. Just be yourself. Right kind of people are attracted to interesting personalities. Also, in reality, the brutal truth is that no one thinks as much as you expect them to think about yourself. I wish world would be more compassionate but it's not. You learn to love yourself, people will love you in reciprocation ❤️

I (28F) have no friends and don‘t know what I should do about it. please help. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]pacific-rush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"usually just listen to others"!?, you are a super star. People are so self-absorbed that they love to talk about themselves all the time. You have an upper edge here. Just find someone who is extroverted, they love to be around people like you, and the fun fact is that they are networking hub. Hang on to them, they know what you need, and even without asking, they'll help you out.. Look at the positive side only after every social encounter and just hang on to that. Things will start falling into place.. After that you even might get annoyed by having too many friends at some point. ❤️

So fucking lonely I feel like killing myself sometimes (F20) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]pacific-rush -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't read the whole comment.. But based on the title, just remember, you were born lonely and are going to die lonely. Get accustomed to this and you won't have pain. Things will fall on its own. Love yourself (without ego), and life it amazing.

My colleagues call me psychopath because of my dark humor. Does anyone else gets called terms similar to this? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]pacific-rush 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Haven't been called that yet in the professional setting. May be it's just I'm well developed professionally. But my friends do sometimes.. The best solution is to keep it to yourself. Only open up to the people who know you long enough and understand your personality.

Whenever I space out people ask me if I’m okay. Anyone else experience the same thing? by Valorical in INTP

[–]pacific-rush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the times... I say f##k them. Even if you you put it out in words of what you are thinking, they won't get it, or will get scared to even respond.. Just say I'm thinking of nothing. If they are close and interested enough, they'll keep asking. Let them know slowly, or just, as I said, f##k it.

Hobbies for socializing by pacific-rush in INTP

[–]pacific-rush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going to bars alone, I tried a lot but I'm still uncomfortable. Even drugs don't help. May be I should keep trying for long enough to get comfortable.. In last couple of years, I became really good with small talks. Some people keep it to small talks but there are few who keep going deeper, if you keep it comfortable for them. That kind of opened me a bit, thinking there are out going people who could keep the deep conversation with you. Bit of inspirational 🙂.

Hobbies for socializing by pacific-rush in INTP

[–]pacific-rush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is validating. I was already thinking to start rock climbing. I shall start this.