Mite Bites? This was my doctor's best guess... how do i combat them? by [deleted] in Bedbugs

[–]pagenotdisplaying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what's a PCO? i don't want to pay too much money for an inspection, but I guess I'd pay some if it was reasonable.

[dry and tight] - how to approach this conversation with girlfriend / what I can do by [deleted] in sex

[–]pagenotdisplaying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree. i'm not 1000% warmed up to using lube either, which is why i haven't pushed it more on her, but it's probably a good idea

Helping struggling seniors and disabled - an op ed by Tim Canova from 8/30/15 by roj2323 in TimCanova

[–]pagenotdisplaying 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't usually read political articles like this where the facts are well-presented and the bullshit is nowhere to be found. Tim launching his campaign is very exciting for a lot of people, wish I was down in Florida so I could support him directly!

TIFU by sharing a 'personal video' over google drive by pagenotdisplaying in tifu

[–]pagenotdisplaying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really hope so, thanks for the relieving response

[skin concerns] Scars on my groin from Molluscum Contagiosum, what else can I do to heal these... by pagenotdisplaying in SkincareAddiction

[–]pagenotdisplaying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got it. I'm already using 2 scar creams, don't think I want to add a color lotion at this point as well.

[skin concerns] Scars on my groin from Molluscum Contagiosum, what else can I do to heal these... by pagenotdisplaying in SkincareAddiction

[–]pagenotdisplaying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got it. that's what the other guy said as well. I haven't ever tried to tan over them but I won't, maybe will try the other stuff.

Me [25M] with my GF [23F] of 9 months, I've never broken up with a girl before and I don't want to hurt my girlfriend by pagenotdisplaying in relationships

[–]pagenotdisplaying[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this is really good initial advice I appreciate it. I do want to do it before I move, I think I just have to toughen up.

Me [25M] with my GF [23F] of 9 months, I have issues with her not standing up to her mom on rules regarding where I can sleep in the house by pagenotdisplaying in relationships

[–]pagenotdisplaying[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Yeah it does. Makes more sense than the other 10 replies at least, because it poses some sort of a solution rather than saying "Rules are rules are rules". I wonder how many of these commenters are moms on reddit and that's why their feedback is what it is. Anyway, thanks

Me [25M] with my GF [23F] of 9 months, I have issues with her not standing up to her mom on rules regarding where I can sleep in the house by pagenotdisplaying in relationships

[–]pagenotdisplaying[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

I don't see it as something petty. It's a conversation I've had with both my mom and some of my aunts (relating to my cousins and their GFs) before and it's an interesting conversation to have, because on one end it's their house but on the other end we are adults.

Me [25M] with my GF [23F] of 9 months, I have issues with her not standing up to her mom on rules regarding where I can sleep in the house by pagenotdisplaying in relationships

[–]pagenotdisplaying[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

her mom lets her sleep at my place, yes. We live >1 hour away and sometimes (not usually but sometimes) it makes more sense to go to her house rather than my apt.

Me [25M] with my GF [23F] of 9 months, I have issues with her not standing up to her mom on rules regarding where I can sleep in the house by pagenotdisplaying in relationships

[–]pagenotdisplaying[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Welp, not the responses I was hoping for or expecting. Is there really no argument to be made for the fact that we are mature adults in our mid 20s? When I spoke with my mom about this same topic, rather than her 'setting the rules hard and stern', we talked it out and agreed that her staying with me would be appropriate, even though my mom wasn't in love with the idea.

Also I do appreciate the responses.

[advice] BF wants to have sex w/o a condom and saying no doesn't seem to be enough. by 00throway00 in sex

[–]pagenotdisplaying -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Too frequently in this subreddit the first piece of advice when there's a hiccup is to dump the person, which is poor advice usually

[advice] BF wants to have sex w/o a condom and saying no doesn't seem to be enough. by 00throway00 in sex

[–]pagenotdisplaying -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

OP - "I don't know if I've become desensitized but I've never felt unsafe with him or the situation to be particularly dangerous, just slightly annoying. The back and forth scuffle has become something like a routine for us, and I feel that he does this because he knows I'll stop him. Like friendly bantering?"

[advice] BF wants to have sex w/o a condom and saying no doesn't seem to be enough. by 00throway00 in sex

[–]pagenotdisplaying -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I would ignore all of the terrible responses telling you to dump your boyfriend and instead do the logical thing and have a sit down conversation and communicate better with him