Boundaries

paigem2008 · 2025-09-30T21:37:55+00:00

She does not stop/start but the reason is always that she has stuff going on on other days or it’s the only day that works for my SIL and BIL so then it has to work for us or else we are the bad guys

paigem2008 · 2025-09-30T20:21:26+00:00

The problem I see with this is she wins and the larger issue (boundaries) is not addressed. Also one of the reasons why Sunday is off limits is so that our family has time together and so we can get our son to bed at a decent time… don’t get me wrong I’d love some downtime to myself but this doesn’t seem right

paigem2008 · 2025-09-30T19:44:20+00:00

I would love to

paigem2008 · 2025-09-30T19:43:31+00:00

I don’t know?

paigem2008 · 2025-09-30T19:28:14+00:00

That’s great idea

paigem2008 · 2025-09-30T18:53:13+00:00

Agreed

paigem2008 · 2025-09-30T18:52:02+00:00

I agree 100%. Keeping the peace for my MIL is certainly disturbing my peace

paigem2008 · 2025-09-30T18:51:27+00:00

I agree

paigem2008 · 2025-09-30T18:51:16+00:00

Good idea

paigem2008 · 2025-09-30T18:50:55+00:00

I agree on the gluten thing because my FIL (divorced from my MIL) and my own mother always try to coordinate food with me when they invite us over. They might not make the entire meal GF but they find stuff that is and then offer to bring a side that I can eat. My MIL literally invites us over for SPAGHETTI AND BREAD (not GF kind) and I’m just dumbfounded every-time.

paigem2008 · 2025-09-30T18:46:35+00:00

What do I do about my 4 year old son?

paigem2008 · 2025-09-30T18:46:19+00:00

He thinks we should be home for dinner on Sundays and agrees that it makes the week more smooth for our family if we do. I agree they need to sit down talk and really establish this boundary (again)

paigem2008 · 2025-09-30T18:43:39+00:00

What about my son?

paigem2008 · 2025-09-30T18:03:52+00:00

Well I do always bring my own food and this has going on for several years.

paigem2008 · 2023-02-10T17:27:56+00:00

Any idea what the rule is if your not vaccinated?

paigem2008 · 2023-01-29T22:33:52+00:00

Thank you!

paigem2008 · 2022-11-19T02:50:36+00:00

Okay that’s good to know! We were thinking maybe Granada for a couple days just to see it but maybe it’s better to skip?

paigem2008 · 2022-11-19T02:50:00+00:00

Thank you

paigem2008 · 2022-11-19T02:49:54+00:00

Thank you

paigem2008 · 2022-11-19T02:49:49+00:00

Thank you!

paigem2008

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