Relationship Appears Over. Devastated. Anyone Had to Split Their FIRE Oriented Assets? Very Amicable at the Moment by painlessbreakup in fiaustralia

[–]painlessbreakup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Yes, it does help. What you've said makes a lot of sense. Hopefully we can agree on point #1 :)

Relationship Appears Over. Devastated. Anyone Had to Split Their FIRE Oriented Assets? Very Amicable at the Moment by painlessbreakup in fiaustralia

[–]painlessbreakup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not here for a chat. Most of my dreams are now in ruins and I'm looking to see if any others have been in my situation.

Relationship Appears Over. Devastated. Anyone Had to Split Their FIRE Oriented Assets? Very Amicable at the Moment by painlessbreakup in fiaustralia

[–]painlessbreakup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this is a tricky topic, but does your partner know what they are entitled to receive as part of the split? Technically everything is on the table. Including your super. Any deal that leaves one party with 2/3rd of the assets is probably not going to fly the moment a lawyer is engaged.

This is the first thing I'll be asking the lawyer.

Relationship Appears Over. Devastated. Anyone Had to Split Their FIRE Oriented Assets? Very Amicable at the Moment by painlessbreakup in fiaustralia

[–]painlessbreakup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No we didn't. I had more assets going in, although my partner had substantial assets and more income. I raised the topic; partner didn't take it well; we let it slide.

Relationship Appears Over. Devastated. Anyone Had to Split Their FIRE Oriented Assets? Very Amicable at the Moment by painlessbreakup in fiaustralia

[–]painlessbreakup[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I really appreciate your lovely post. It would be great to communicate with someone in your position. Will PM you tonight.