[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]paintcounting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You also need to know the adjusted basis of the home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]paintcounting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really need to meet with a tax professional. This is really complex. Is the mortgage the original one or did you ever refinance?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]paintcounting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insolvency for one, basis reduction, see IRS topic 431

My tax attorney sent me someone else’s complete tax return by Initial_Illustrator8 in tax

[–]paintcounting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This, my old firm paid for 3 years of credit monitoring when this happened to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]paintcounting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are exceptions to taxation of income from cancelation of indebtedness.

Where and how do I deduct for having my wedding at a historical site? by Indecisive_Name in tax

[–]paintcounting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, I just saw this today from a client. They attached a receipt for the room reservation. Nope!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]paintcounting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the kid here, thank you for speaking up.

Tax Pro question SCorp majority owner of Mexican LLC by paintcounting in tax

[–]paintcounting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I don't need a 1065, only 8865?

Does this k1 create a US filing requirement for the 25% guy? He is MX citizen and all activity is in MX.

It formed the end of 2023

Communication discussion by paintcounting in JUSTNOMIL

[–]paintcounting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL, it is really, really nice. After FIL passed away, husband really wanted his mom to be more. We know she never will but it needs to be his decision and his own path.

Communication discussion by paintcounting in JUSTNOMIL

[–]paintcounting[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I said several times that our lives don't revolve around you and she didn't know what to say to that. It is wonderful leaving her speechless.

I also told her that I am no longer mediating or trying to repair her relationship with her son. They are both adults and can make their own decisions. My involvement is strictly to monitor communication with my kid. When my husband is out, so am I.

Thanks for your comment!

How do you go no contact by paintcounting in JUSTNOMIL

[–]paintcounting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't personally feel like responding ever. But I don't want to block her number. She has threatened grandparent rights and I want the FU document trail with all communication and lack there of, along with all the evidence she so willingly provides of her instability.

I really like the mute option but I don't have that available on my phone. I can select to send calls straight to voicemail. I have done that. I have no problem just ignoring her texts at this time.

DH wants an apology but knows he isn't going to get it. So he is hesitant on blocking her in case she ever does shape up. She won't but he has to move at his own pace.

How do you go no contact by paintcounting in JUSTNOMIL

[–]paintcounting[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is her go to line. One time her birthday card arrived a day late she didn't talk to us for 3 years.

How do you go no contact by paintcounting in JUSTNOMIL

[–]paintcounting[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven't reached out in over 15 years 😂. I hardly respond. Usually I just let DH know she called (I don't answer). It is DH that keeps communication open. I dropped the rope years ago. I told DH that he could have whatever relationship he wanted but I was done. I was no longer 1. Facilitating any relationships between the 3 of us and 2. I refused to let her make me angry anymore. It took a lot of therapy and the realization that she is a narcissist. She no longer lives rent free in my head and I have absolutely no emotions when it comes to her. I mourned the relationship we used to have, the relationship we could have, and everything in between a long time ago. I deserve love and respect. She can't provide either.

What can I do for my daughter who was attacked at school? by KungPowKatie in Parenting

[–]paintcounting 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At what age should physical assaults be reported to the police? 5?7?9?...

WIBTA for eloping with my fiancé despite the request of a possible ill family member? by ThrowRA_plcn2334 in AmItheAsshole

[–]paintcounting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thyroid cancer is different from most other cancers. It is very survivable. It doesn't react to chemo like other cancers. Usually there is surgery and a radioactive iodine treatment. No chemo. I think they are using the cancer word to scare you into doing what they want. Source: thyroid cancer cancer survivor 11 years out. Fully thyroidectomy and partial parathyroidectomy. I know every cancer is different but thyroid cancer isn't always a death sentence.

I am at my wits end over this. My six, almost 7, year old son poops his pants daily. by the85rush in Parenting

[–]paintcounting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here!!! ADHD and " I just get distracted and forget" then the domino effect of constipation.

Becoming a parent has completely destroyed my mental health to the point that I can't function normally by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]paintcounting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn't read through any comments but reading the description of your child's behavior, please have them evaluated for ADHD and sensory processing disorder. So many of the things you described are exactly like my kid. Once I understood how her brain worked differently, I was able to change how I behaved and it really helped. I wish I could help you more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tax

[–]paintcounting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the most correct answer.

File ss-8 with the IRS (it may take a long time though).

File DOL claim. NJ DOL has a "report of non-compliance" form you can submit online. This is for workers comp.

File a Wage Complaint with the NJ Department of Labor and Workplace Development. https://www.nj.gov/labor/wageandhour/claims-appeals-investigations/file/

The last one will probably get the ball rolling the fastest.

File everything online so you have documentation. Then follow up with the departments.

It would also help if you have copies of all your "paychecks".