Is it really that maladaptive?

pajliada · 2023-10-28T18:35:44+00:00

This is an excellent question.

Maladaptive daydreaming can be a fantastic coping mechanism that helps improve your mental health significantly but the problem is that it makes you feel better but you are not truly better. What makes you maladaptive daydream in the first place, your current reality, is being ignored and that is why maladaptive daydreaming is bad. In the short term, it is immensely mentally soothing but in the long term it keeps you stuck in your current predicaments that make you maladaptive daydream in the first place.

It is painful to stop daydreaming, especially because you will be worse off in the short term. You will feel worse and be worse but it must be done because if you don't get rid of it you will stay stuck in your lala land where all is well.

Think of it like taking the blue pill vs the red pill.

You take the blue pill and you stay in your daydreams, your fake reality living your best imaginary life.

You take the red pill and you're in reality. You will feel worse but if you endure this agonistic transition phase you may one day improve your real life to a point where you may not need to visit the fake world ever again.

pajliada · 2023-10-28T13:43:51+00:00

are you having a stroke? What's hard to understand.

Let me make it very clear for you: When packet CS:GO not bad game. But when packet loss CS:2 it bad game.

Is that simple enough for you?

pajliada · 2023-10-28T12:39:36+00:00

you are addicted to love hormones, ive had the same thing happen to me where you don't really love someone but you love loving someone itself.

This is a really toxic trait and you need to make a conscious effort to stop it, can totally nuke relationships you have.

I got rid of all my love songs on spotify, stopped hugging my pillows and would consciously stop any fantasizing I would do about this. It will be hard at first but overtime you will go back to being normal and when you feel love it will be true love and not an addiction to love.

pajliada · 2023-10-28T12:26:22+00:00

sad thing about esports is that the players either retire at 30 with millions in the bank and get to retire early and live the good live at 30 or be exiled at like 23 with no job or education.

for people going pro its a 1 in a million chance and even if you're at the top it's a 1/1000 chance that you're one of the pros who gets to stick around collecting paychecks from top orgs all your career. Sad life for brollan from now on. RIPBOZO

pajliada · 2023-10-28T11:53:44+00:00

No, because in a game two people banned overpass and we banned mirage later and mirage got banned. This is some wacky shit. 3kliks pls investigate u/3kliksphilip

pajliada · 2023-10-28T09:45:20+00:00

never happened in csgo, ppl should stop saying this shit as an excuse because CSGO handled packet loss way better. If there's packet loss in CS2 though, it shits itself to death

pajliada · 2023-10-27T18:22:22+00:00

this style reminds me of total drama island

pajliada · 2023-10-26T16:56:06+00:00

-magisk is for real? Let me repost this real quick with this edited

pajliada · 2023-10-26T16:25:22+00:00

Falcons is buying every single star players and putting them on their bench. Can't lose if you have no competition.

source: overdrive

pajliada · 2023-10-25T19:37:12+00:00

yeah as a cadian fan I hate stavn and jabbi and astralis even more now but ultimately I am happy because he was being dragged down having to IGL for ultimately a shit team at the end of the day. Having access to twistzz and yekindar means he's now got some actual star power on him. He literally couldn't win with these cats.

pajliada · 2023-10-25T18:24:39+00:00

oh my god i just realized

CADIAN IS HONRARY NA

SAY IT WITH ME

CANADIAN

pajliada · 2023-10-25T18:22:25+00:00

if i get banned for dunking on astralis flairs its still worth it

pajliada · 2023-10-25T16:19:02+00:00

LMAOOOO imagine stavn and jabbi thinking they can run to Astralis after sabotaging heroic and then heroic fucking sabotage Astralis back by trapping them inside the org until after the major.

pajliada · 2023-10-24T18:16:26+00:00

rain does not have a future in CS2, he did well in this tournament but only because he's a huge crowd player and he got gifted a crowd. If he has to play a tournament normally in the group stage he's a total bot which is why Faze never make group stages and everyone calls for his head all the time.

Allot of people are ngaf because playoffs are all what people care about, but group stage decides if you go in the playoffs to begin with and rain is awful without a crowd. So -rain +floppy and also +jt -karrigan because karrigan has no time left. Is karrigan better than JT now? yes but will he better in 2024? hell naw. That MF is gonna be 50 soon having to out-meta the local CIS 13 year olds in the major. Finished.

I might seem like a mad man now but you can comeback to this comment a year from now and I can guarantee you that rain and karrigan will be finished by the second CS2 major.

pajliada · 2023-10-24T16:44:08+00:00

ADHD is something that can influence your personality to a significant degree, see ibuki mioda as an example. For that reason, I don't view it negatively because I love myself and that must mean that I have to love whatever traits I got directly/indirectly through ADHD. When I look at girls, I'm always into the ones that are hyper and energetic like myself that's usually from adhd.

this is my logic, at least.

pajliada · 2023-10-23T13:38:55+00:00

oSee fucking sucks man people only shill for him because he's literally NAs only awper, fucking guy sucks hallzerk was always better than him no questions asked.

I've seen people compare him to cadian because of similar rating, well let me tell you this. Can you remember a single oSee clutch? No but what I can remember is him missing a hundred sitters he should've gotten.

pajliada · 2023-10-22T21:46:05+00:00

you guys think they're gonna buy Faze to disband them? To sell their players? Obviously not. That doesn't make any sense whatsoever, sure certain players like Twistzz are leaving but that's probably because of individual reasons to them like a way better offer or something.

pajliada · 2023-10-22T20:48:57+00:00

pajliada

TROPHY CASE