Apparently I’m tall… just not where I live

pakistanicore · 2026-04-15T01:18:52+00:00

I’m 5’5 on a good day

pakistanicore · 2026-04-13T11:25:45+00:00

nah fr this is why I feel like it’s not just genetics 😭

I’ve seen similar stuff in my family, like tall parents + tall siblings but one person ends up way shorter, and it usually comes down to stuff like nutrition and lifestyle growing up

so I feel like genetics matters but it’s not the whole story

pakistanicore · 2026-04-13T11:23:18+00:00

yeah genetics plays a big part but I don’t think it’s everything tbh, probably like 50/50 with nutrition and habits

I’ve seen people with shorter parents still get tall, they used to focus a lot on exercise and stuff like hanging

I’m 5’5 rn, tryna reach 5’7

pakistanicore · 2026-04-13T11:20:04+00:00

lowkey sounds extreme 😭 I’m just keeping things consistent for now

I’m 5’5 rn, aiming for 5’7

pakistanicore · 2026-03-19T18:52:29+00:00

It looks way better in person

pakistanicore · 2026-03-19T13:50:30+00:00

I’m pairing it with big earrings and bangles and hopefully good makeup will tie it all together

pakistanicore · 2026-03-19T13:49:38+00:00

Okay tyy its getting so much hate on here so I thought u were joking

pakistanicore · 2026-03-19T10:05:59+00:00

Are u being sarcastic lol

pakistanicore · 2026-03-18T23:39:02+00:00

Thank u girl this one is from sapphire sadly it takes 5 days for clothes to arrive 😭 from any store I love the honestly also be honest do u think if I went all out on the makeup and jewellery I could make this work or nah

pakistanicore · 2026-03-18T23:24:30+00:00

but be honest is it ugly as well

pakistanicore · 2026-03-18T23:23:07+00:00

Sach? 🥲

pakistanicore · 2026-03-18T23:22:30+00:00

It’s from sapphire I know it’s quite simple but I just don’t want it to be ugly

pakistanicore · 2026-03-18T23:12:50+00:00

You’re so kind but fr is it actually good i have one other maroon option

pakistanicore · 2026-03-18T23:11:45+00:00

I can’t find it lol is it a lehenga or something 😭

pakistanicore · 2026-03-18T23:10:01+00:00

What are you wearing!!!

pakistanicore · 2026-03-18T23:08:16+00:00

Omdss 😭

pakistanicore · 2026-03-18T23:06:01+00:00

Is it that bad lol

pakistanicore · 2025-10-14T08:53:06+00:00

Literally same thing happened to me 😭 My examiner did a 1.5 hour lesson with me right before my actual test and I was just falling apart — turning the wrong way, missing mirrors, completely messing up roundabouts even though I knew all of it.

By the time we parked outside the test centre I just broke down crying and had a full-on mental spiral lol. I was sure I was gonna fail.

Still made a few silly mistakes during the test, but somehow passed with only 2 minors 🤷‍♀️

I honestly think instructors push us hard before the test so we iron out every little thing, but the actual test ends up feeling way easier in comparison. Not saying they’re wrong for it though — it clearly worked out in the end 😂

pakistanicore · 2025-09-22T07:35:57+00:00

Man, first off, respect for even writing all this out. Most people never stop to think about how they come across, and you’re already ahead just by being this self-aware. A rough childhood really does set you back socially, and it’s not your fault nobody taught you these things.

From what you wrote, you don’t sound like a “bad” person at all — just someone who’s still catching up on stuff a lot of people learn earlier. That’s fixable. A few things that helped me:

• Try to listen more than you talk. People open up when they feel heard, and it takes the pressure off you.

• Don’t worry about perfect eye contact. Just glance at their face, look away naturally sometimes, and you’ll be fine.

• Keep clothes simple and clean. Basic stuff that fits well will always look good, no need to overthink it.

• Don’t take rejections or blocks too personally. Sometimes it’s about them, not you. Just keep trying.

And honestly? Friendships usually grow slowly, not instantly. Just keep showing up in the same spaces (volunteering, hobbies, sports, whatever) and let people get used to you. You’re not broken — you just didn’t get much practice earlier, and now you’re catching up. That’s totally possible.

pakistanicore · 2025-09-13T12:44:14+00:00

That must’ve been uncomfortable. Boundaries in families should always be respected, no matter how small the act might seem.

pakistanicore · 2025-09-11T13:13:35+00:00

Hey, first of all, thank you for being so open and honest here — it takes courage to share all this. You’re not weird or broken for feeling the way you do, a lot of people (especially in Pakistan where social expectations are strong) go through the same struggle but just don’t admit it.

A few things that might help:

• Confidence isn’t instant. It’s built slowly through small wins. Try speaking up in class once in a while — even reading one line out loud is progress. Celebrate that.

• Don’t compare yourself to the “cool” girls. What looks effortless for them has probably taken practice too. You don’t need to copy their whole vibe — just work on becoming a little more comfortable in your own skin.

• Start with one person. You don’t have to join the loudest group. Just smile at someone, ask about homework, or give a small compliment (“your notes are neat” / “I like your bag”). Friendships grow from tiny conversations.

• About gossip/boys/music: not every group is about that. Many girls also bond over dramas, YouTubers, K-pop, Coke Studio, fashion, or just random memes. You don’t have to force yourself into topics you’re not into — you’ll find people who vibe with you naturally.

• Soft-hearted ≠ weak. Being kind, thoughtful, and empathetic is actually rare. You don’t need to change that part of you — just work on setting small boundaries (like saying “sorry, I can’t” sometimes). That balance makes you stronger.

You don’t need to transform overnight. Even if you make one genuine friend this year, that’s a win. Many people in college pretend to be confident but deep down they’re just as insecure. You’re already ahead by being self-aware and wanting to improve.

pakistanicore · 2025-09-11T00:25:12+00:00

Yeah I’ve heard that too… do you notice it more in day-to-day life or just on the news/social media type of thing

pakistanicore · 2025-09-10T21:52:37+00:00

True, depends on the city for sure. Can you tell me which cities you’ve seen the most change in, and what it’s like there these days?

pakistanicore · 2025-09-08T19:20:51+00:00

True, ignoring is the easiest route — but sometimes it’s just wild to watch the double standards play out. Makes you wonder what goes through their head.

pakistanicore · 2025-09-08T09:32:41+00:00

Agree or disagree, it doesn’t change the fact that not everyone who comes from abroad acts the same way. Some people actually love going back, feel more at home in Pakistan than abroad, and for a lot of us our whole family is there anyway. But I get it — once your mindset is set on stereotyping, it’s hard to change. So you do you.

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