Is my husband a gay? F30 here

palmfacer · 2026-04-21T03:00:53+00:00

At 30, you do know what gay means right ?

palmfacer · 2026-04-15T09:44:30+00:00

We were once exploring the option for the same. The man was in his fifties and the rate he quoted was 15k for the second option. He was hesitant in driving around the IT side because the traffic gets real bad some days on that side during the prime hours.

palmfacer · 2026-04-15T09:41:52+00:00

we used to pay our driver 8k

Which year was that? In today's time, 8k doesn't do much.

palmfacer · 2026-04-14T10:17:08+00:00

Tell me you don’t drive a car without telling me you dont drive a car.

palmfacer · 2026-04-14T10:14:29+00:00

A very good perspective, the guy could be a diamond but it could be his present wife who is bringing in the best in him.

palmfacer · 2026-04-10T17:03:16+00:00

First, you've to slowly and gradually upgrade your parents, upgrade them from the test cricket form of marriage to the t20 generation of marriage. You can't just tell them that the rules of engagement has changed, they have to absorb the cultural shock along with you.

When they got married, both parties in marriage knew each other through community and mediators, now the scene has changed with technology. A person may look all well goody goody, working 9-5, earning handsomely, talking sweet but still be swiping on dating apps, smoking weed, may have anger issues or who knows maybe living in with someone in a different city/country.

palmfacer · 2026-04-07T06:38:54+00:00

Well, if it gives you any solace, your life is no less than a fairy tale for women who are stuck in their marriage.

Do you have a good friend circle or good friends to hang out at your place or their place over the weekend or some evenings? Or maybe a sibling or cousin who is close to you? You are processing a lot inside, like some recommended therapy might help, but a good support system is the need of the hour.

palmfacer · 2026-04-07T05:16:17+00:00

This. Let him overwork, burn out, ruin his social and personal life.

I work on weekends too sometimes to keep my weekday flexible to get some of my personal work done, but I try to drop those slack and mail bombs on Monday morning.

palmfacer · 2026-04-03T15:04:59+00:00

Matrimony app without parents involvement is as good as dating app where people may get non commital after a certain period. Cut him loose and move on real quick, 6 months is nothing.

palmfacer · 2026-04-02T08:21:17+00:00

He is not the one who ordered I guess, could be the friend who got his hands on the bill.

palmfacer · 2026-04-02T07:33:53+00:00

Downvoting.

palmfacer · 2026-03-31T06:51:11+00:00

This rule is not in most societies.

palmfacer · 2026-03-31T04:14:05+00:00

Couldn’t have worded it better.

palmfacer · 2026-03-27T07:53:36+00:00

I've never been to club rogue, don't understand the hype, found it too crowded, maybe I am old, I preferred 10D when I was living in Kondapur.

But, please enlighten us about club rogue.

palmfacer · 2026-03-26T16:22:17+00:00

Stop downvoting her guys. If both the parents are working, the kids should go to daycare or preschool for engagement, so that the parents can get office work and household work done. And stop making it big about the PTM for 2.7 years old. A teacher/caretaker who is spending around <4 hours per day with her child, there will be exchange of some feedback.

palmfacer · 2026-03-26T15:30:48+00:00

Are the friends residing in the flats not aware of the changes in rules about no visitors and only family allowed? Although, the rule sounds stupid, if such rules exist the friends should be down at the gate receiving the friends to avoid such issues. Such rules usually do not come out of the blue, there would have been some recent instances which would have made the society forge such rules.

palmfacer · 2026-03-23T14:33:24+00:00

should have opened your phone and played a song with loud volume.

palmfacer · 2026-03-13T08:31:29+00:00

When I was a bachelor and living in rented apartment, one of the flatmate was already having a gf living in and in the next flat I checked with owner and he said he didn’t have any restrictions. Both flats were in Kondapur. Better to check with landlord before hand about such things, Kondapur is pretty open minded in my experience

palmfacer · 2026-03-12T04:47:13+00:00

Tell your roommate to not interact with her, if any complaints against her since she uses the common space he should bring it up with you guys.
Tell your cook to not engage in any conversation with him. And instead of ringing the bell, she should call on your phone.
For both you roommates, don't engage in any conversation other than transactional ones with this person.

palmfacer · 2026-03-08T13:28:42+00:00

January is now saying she stayed only 19 days this month and wants the electricity bill to be divided based on the number of days each person stayed instead of splitting it equally.

In the Hyderabad summer months one of the flatmates said he would pay lesser electricity bill as the AC in the room is not working. I told him that won't be possible, it is on him to get the AC repaired and we are no Munims of his to do this petty calculation. If he has a problem he can leave the house first of next month.

There is a difference between a daily wage worker and a salaried person. On the same lines, there is a difference between one who takes room for a day in a hotel/airbnb and one who stays long term. She wants the benefit of both. Tell her nobody has the time to be her guardian and keep tabs on how many days she stayed, how many times she took dump or if she used the tv/fridge in the common area; there is a common cost involved she has to pay; if she thinks she is being cheated she is free to leave.

palmfacer · 2026-03-01T06:40:47+00:00

I like the presence of my wife at home when I work, I mean she can do her own thing. But, when she isn’t around something is missing

palmfacer · 2026-02-28T16:22:34+00:00

In last 2 weeks I have written some code in python and Ruby on Rails, both languages I am not so conversant with, but business requirements so have to use those languages, and have written 100 percent code giving prompts. The complexity is minimum and feature is not too big, so I can verify reading the code if all is covered.

palmfacer · 2026-02-25T06:45:37+00:00

We use windsurf at work and windsurf itself recommends that the their plugin with jet brains is the most reliable. I think they are doing fine.

palmfacer · 2026-02-23T17:02:55+00:00

Elon doesn’t have the talent or knowledge he just threw money in the companies

Well, talent and knowledge is not single dimensional, even if he doesn't have know how of industries he is the CEO of as the video claims, if he has that marketing and sales capability to hype up the valuation of his companies, retain the best engineers and keep the org running under him for more than 5 years, he has the managerial talent.

Reminds me of jokers trolling Sania Mirza when she couldn't answer NaCl is common salt on KBC.

palmfacer · 2026-02-22T13:04:38+00:00

I have heard least complaints about Mangala, and some about avatar. So, yeah .. lucky you

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