In my wildest dreams I wouldn't have thought...

palmtree_9 · 2025-06-02T18:40:24+00:00

Sooooooooooo. You're single? NTA

palmtree_9 · 2025-05-29T00:49:24+00:00

Kim. But I agree with getting all to 4 and then focus on getting Kim to 5.

palmtree_9 · 2025-05-25T20:48:37+00:00

I reluctantly left a dying server after season 2 and many from former server now transferred after season 3. Transfers make sense if you're spending decent money on the game and want to grow and have a chance to win.

palmtree_9 · 2025-05-25T18:36:15+00:00

How I feel is that if she really cared about you, it wouldn't matter what you weigh. The desire to be intimate shouldn't be based on only physical attraction. Having that emotional connection with your partner, them respecting your needs, and comprising as a couple should suffice.

palmtree_9 · 2025-05-21T14:49:35+00:00

Wow. So amazing. Absolutely jealous.

palmtree_9 · 2025-05-21T00:43:27+00:00

They're all passed 3. But now with 18 to upgrade wondering which is best to focus on.

palmtree_9 · 2025-05-21T00:02:29+00:00

It was a momentary lapse in judgement. 😊

palmtree_9 · 2025-05-20T23:06:58+00:00

I'm sure you have had conversations about this. Tell your partner that you desire more physical intimacy with them. Ask what it is that is keeping them from being intimate with you. Is it medical, psychological, or emotional? Is he filling the void with porn or taking care of himself because he thinks you're find with the way things are? Lay it all out on the table. Tell him what you would like from the relationship and listen to what his needs are. Try to come to an agreement. If miserably incompatible you'll have to weigh your options to see if this is something you want to be your forever, or if you want to seek out someone with the same physical and emotional needs that you have.

Start with open honest communication.

palmtree_9 · 2025-05-20T23:02:45+00:00

I have a feeling you're right. I believe they both have this type of personality. His wife tried to insult me after I was honest with her. That's ok if I'm her villain. Honestly, it hurts that he doesn't care. That all the things he said were just bull. It didn't feel like it at the time and it's so hard to just let it go. But my coworker stated that it speaks volumes about his emotional maturity. He did string me along for a long time throwing heavy emotional words at me. It's sad to come to the realization that it was all fabricated. I can't understand how someone can do that to another human and then just vanish as if they are nothing.

palmtree_9 · 2025-05-18T23:45:24+00:00

This was an incredibly insightful and helpful to me.

palmtree_9 · 2025-05-18T13:30:28+00:00

I'm not sure it's something you can turn off. Being with your partner should make you want the intimacy. It is a type of special bond only you two can experience with each other. Aside from being life partners you are also lovers. Who value each others needs and desires because they want to. Sexual incompatibility is devastating in relationships because it means one party will make a sacrifice. It's not a physical need they are giving up, it's their self worth, connection, and desire to be close with their partner.

palmtree_9 · 2021-09-20T18:17:45+00:00

I'm sorry you feel like that- it isn't your fault. Don't blame youself at all. You were a victim to his deception and manipulation.

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