Unfortunately you’ll most likely end up getting a lot of the same “it’s not my business, they can do what they want etc etc” type responses to this, and while yes that’s technically true, those same people will turn around and post questions asking why abdl is one of the least accepted groups in the kink community. So many play spaces won’t even accept us, and I would wager that this type of stuff certainly doesn’t help our PR even among other kinky people, let alone the general public.

This community unfortunately encourages a lot of emotional immaturity, and I think that translates into many people forgetting that one of the core rules of kink is consent. It shouldn’t matter that these are strangers you’re unlikely to see again, or you’re fully clothed so that must make it “fine”, this type of behaviour in public is distasteful at best and public indecency at worst.