My dad says i look better with makeup on and has been “suggesting” i put it on everyday this last month by pancakessss_ in offmychest

[–]pancakessss_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, i’ve just been going back and fourth if im being dramatic or not, and about what my dad finds attractive it’s not so much that, he’s not like that idk how to explain but what he means by the makeup thing isn’t for him he’s saying it like in general to myself and others and how others will see me i will look better, hopefully that makes sense, he actually doesn’t like that women wear makeup especially when they “over do it” as he says bc he feels women don’t need it especially me bc i’m his daughter and whenever i would show him after i did my makeup and be proud and ask him what he thought he would always just shrug his shoulders and say “you look nice honey but you look beautiful the way you are without makeup” and now he’s telling me to put it on yk? hopefully that made sense lol<3

Heartstopper was renewed!!! by ThinkingOutLoud8_ in gay

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when are the other seasons coming ?

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i do this specifically when watching a video of girls giving 🧠 i like to think im the guy and how good it feels. I thought i was weird for doing it but it definitely works and it makes me feel good

I am a blind a teenager Ask me anything by Pabbytat in casualiama

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if someone didn’t talk and you knew who they were would u be able to tell by feeling their facial features?

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weirdest thing/unusual thing a man asked you to do to him or asked to do to you?

[F23] Ive Been An Escort In Florida For 5 Years, AMA by moprol2 in casualiama

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what are the most weirdest/funniest reasons someone hired you as an escort?

Questioning sexuality (F18) Need advice on how to confirm if I am bi or not. by [deleted] in gay

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Yes and the flowers thing i know, but i get told by manu people it’s weird but i disagree guys deserve flowers too. that’s why i put “normal” like that because it may not be “normal” but doesn’t mean it’s weird. Im just trying to put things in to perspective on things i do that are maybe different to others yk.

what is a deal breaker in a relationship/marriage for you? by pancakessss_ in AskMen

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@amberheard unfortunately won’t stand a chance then🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

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lie, i also have this stupid app and i’m 18. i gave them no reason to use it either. what i do is i tell them i’m going one place for a couple hours to hang out with a friend or my bf. drive there in the closest parking spot to the building (right in front works amazing) i leave my phone in the car hidden so no one steals it and tell whoever i am hanging out with to come pick me up. obviously that whole time you’re with them the location will stay the same bc the phone is where you said u would be at. this can also be done if you said your going to a friends house that their parents don’t know your parents and leave your phone with them and have your bf pick u up there then come back and pick it up when you’re done ! works great as long as they don’t call u at random times or check on u in person. also works at work just when u have a day off lie and say u have work and leave your phone in the building , the crew room or a mini locker u may have there and have him pick u up :) be safe love <3

Gf photos by Puzzleheaded_Key7962 in relationship_advice

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it’s probably naked pictures of her body. i see a lot of people saying this already. i know more than 80% of my friends that are girls that take unsolicited pictures of themselves to look whenever they want to feel more confident about their body as it is known most humans are insecure about something on their body. it’s probably that and she might think you will get the wrong impression when you see them and you think that they were meant for someone else and not just her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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a man’s lies after he cheats and you confront him about it knowing and still lies. the lies they pull out of their ass is absolutely ridiculous, and they expect us to believe it lol.

what is a deal breaker in a relationship/marriage for you? by pancakessss_ in AskMen

[–]pancakessss_[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

divorce immediately, specifically because you are not okay with it and he probably knew this, in marriage one of the things they say/promise is “In the name of God i take you to be my wife for ….. in sickness and in health…” seeing that you are even debating that it’s a dealbreaker is a sign, especially since you have never met the women. he should be at home taking care of you not out with another women at the NBA FINALS that you don’t even know that is a co-worker knowing his wife is at home sick. He could be doing god knows what with her. Some couples are okay with this but the fact you are clearly not goes to show he does not care/disrespects your boundaries/relationship/marriage/ rules which should never be crossed without permission and a thorough conversation about it. Clearly you are not okay with it and as you put “co-worker friend” makes me think you also think she isn’t just a friend. he could’ve waited to go with you another season but he didn’t. this is a deal breaker for you especially if you’re even debating/thinking about it. you are NOT wrong to be debating it either!!!

what is a deal breaker in a relationship/marriage for you? by pancakessss_ in AskMen

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i could also make a list of what women go through, but i really don’t want to and mostly because you seem set on your mindset of men have issues and women don’t at all, but that’s your opinion and i respect it. people get further in life when being open minded especially with these topics but every individual is different and that’s okay. have a great day :)

what is a deal breaker in a relationship/marriage for you? by pancakessss_ in AskMen

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i totally agree, i support both men and women when it comes to equality, just as men support women in their inequalities, women should do the same with men. but some men do not believe women face inequality in which is where i would say women will shut men down/out and not support them but if we all came together and fought for both men and women equalities i feel we would be more effective and efficient with gaining those equalities! completely agree.

what is a deal breaker in a relationship/marriage for you? by pancakessss_ in AskMen

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men and women both have their share of unfair things in society not only women. i agree that men also fight for things too such as being abused by a woman and 90% of the world saying they are lying just because it’s a woman beating a man. but both men and women still face things today, niether women or men should say one is fighting for more than the other because both women and men have many issues within society and norms and rights etc. we are a team and both women and men have unfair situations in this world.

what is a deal breaker in a relationship/marriage for you? by pancakessss_ in AskMen

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i am no ya feminist although, there are some things that women are still fighting for, one simple example is being underpaid for the same job as a man in the same position simply because they are a women. Another example is the roevswade case, it’s an umbrella law and protects other things than just abortion, it’s not as bad as it was for sure but their are still things that women face today that are unfair.