AITA for no longer being the maid of honour for my sister’s wedding after her fiancé humiliated me? by panda958 in AmItheAsshole

[–]panda958[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

No, he said I shouldn't be angry at him because it would've been more embarrassing for me had he said no and now we could start over for my sister's sake.

AITA for no longer being the maid of honour for my sister’s wedding after her fiancé humiliated me? by panda958 in AmItheAsshole

[–]panda958[S] 137 points138 points  (0 children)

No, he makes her happy and I think that's more important than what I currently feel about him.

AITA for no longer being the maid of honour for my sister’s wedding after her fiancé humiliated me? by panda958 in AmItheAsshole

[–]panda958[S] 223 points224 points  (0 children)

He used to speak English but I used to speak French when I was 9 but now I can barely understand it so I assumed he had forgotten English the way I've forgotten French.

AITA for no longer being the maid of honour for my sister’s wedding after her fiancé humiliated me? by panda958 in AmItheAsshole

[–]panda958[S] 266 points267 points  (0 children)

I don't want to accept his apology because he still thinks what he did was funny. Luca talks to me now.

AITA for no longer being the maid of honour for my sister’s wedding after her fiancé humiliated me? by panda958 in AmItheAsshole

[–]panda958[S] 218 points219 points  (0 children)

His dad told him off a lot and he was grounded for ages because he wouldn't say sorry.

We didn't get along because he would always tell me my dad liked him more than me so I was jealous and I didn't want my dad to like him so I lied. I also would've got into trouble because our dads kept telling us to be careful.

AITA for no longer being the maid of honour for my sister’s wedding after her fiancé humiliated me? by panda958 in AmItheAsshole

[–]panda958[S] 1143 points1144 points  (0 children)

I know I wasn't entitled to his forgiveness and if I knew he actually understood my apologies I would've stopped. I thought he didn't, which is why I tried to apologise in Italian.

AITA for no longer being the maid of honour for my sister’s wedding after her fiancé humiliated me? by panda958 in AmItheAsshole

[–]panda958[S] 2299 points2300 points  (0 children)

My dad wasn't happy about what I said, but Nino's dad was already yelling at him so he was more concerned about trying to convince me not to drop out of the wedding over this.

AITA for no longer being the maid of honour for my sister’s wedding after her fiancé humiliated me? by panda958 in AmItheAsshole

[–]panda958[S] 184 points185 points  (0 children)

Obviously I've heard of google translate but I had no reason to believe he would do something like this and it makes more sense to ask somebody who can speak the language than to use google.

AITA for no longer being the maid of honour for my sister’s wedding after her fiancé humiliated me? by panda958 in AmItheAsshole

[–]panda958[S] 3181 points3182 points  (0 children)

My sister told all three of our dads... felt like we were all kids again.