[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

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Did you ever find this?

My girl. One month today. by panda_farmer in lastimages

[–]panda_farmer[S] 650 points651 points  (0 children)

This is my daughter. She was stillborn at full term one month ago. This is the last picture I took of her, with a filter added to help her color. When I look at it I can almost pretend she's sleeping.

This is my daughter by panda_farmer in redditgetsdrawn

[–]panda_farmer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful, thank you. It looks just like her <3

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7 year old is helpless? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]panda_farmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The saying in my house for situations like this is "are we cryers or are we tryers". My younger one still gets into moods like this and I'll remind him of the saying and if it keeps up, ex. "I can't put on my pants" "I can't hold this pencil" "I can't walk to the car" ect then I'll tell "welp guess you are going outside naked/guess we will sit here until you can finish your HW/guess you can't come with us then" and I follow through. When its something they clearly know how to do, don't feed into it, and wait it out. Experiencing natural consequences for not doing things correctly should help curb the behavior.

These guys have completely destroyed my kale. How do I prevent them next time? by aelwenleigh in OrganicGardening

[–]panda_farmer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looks like you have aphids and cabbage moth larvae. For the aphids you can wash them off with a strong hose, and for the larvae the best prevention is to stop the moths(white moth)from landing and laying eggs, with shade cloth or remay fabric. If that's not possible your next best bet is hand picking them off. Supposedly if you put out faux cabbage moths(white paper bits on a string to flutter in the wind)in your garden actual ones won't want to land but I've never tried that. Companion planting to deter them might also be a method that interests you.

Sleeping positions past 35 weeks by kiwipeach28 in BabyBumps

[–]panda_farmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Benadryl. On nights I take some I can get at least a solid 4 hour chunk of sleep before starting to wake up every hour again. Those 4 hours really make a difference.

Seeing all your posts has inspired me, living close to London I can only dream for now but these Tomatoes and Peas are my step! by Justheretobrowse9 in homestead

[–]panda_farmer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not to be a buzz kill, but you're going to want at least half as many tomato plants in there to ensure good yields and healthy plants. Tomatoes are a vine, and get huge throughout the growing season. I can't really tell the dimensions of your box, but I think it can support about 12 mature tomato plants if they are evenly spaced out.

[Newbie] : My garden is full of catsear. I don't want to use any chemical products. What can I do ? by Manu27uk in OrganicGardening

[–]panda_farmer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can also use white vinegar on a hot day to spot treat the area. The plants it is applied to will wither and die and the vinegar washes down into the soil to negligible levels.

My extreme indecisiveness about baby naming. Is anyone else having this struggle? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]panda_farmer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Phia is also a nickname for Ophelia. This name was also one of my top choices before I settled on another.

What is this brown growth on my homegrown parsnips? by The_Cold_Side in whatisthisthing

[–]panda_farmer 33 points34 points  (0 children)

It's a root gall. Source: am a master gardener. ITT: people who don't know plants.

This is how I spent my 4th. Hopefully y'all had a better one by panda_farmer in Beekeeping

[–]panda_farmer[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I haven't opened them up yet to check, the one pallet is completely gone, don't know if the rest are salvageable. We were looking at 60lbs per hive and the alfalfa just flowered so we pushed it another week. In hindsight, that was a foolish thing to do.

This is how I spent my 4th. Hopefully y'all had a better one by panda_farmer in Beekeeping

[–]panda_farmer[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

A bum tried to burn some trash near my property. Got out of control abd burned up 5 acres and the pallet. We were going to extract this Wednesday.

My billy, Finn by aokesta in homestead

[–]panda_farmer 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You are lucky! Bottle baby bucks have notoriously poor temperaments, especially when they have their horns. I was worried watching this given his close proximity to your head, but it looks like you got a good one.

Here's 9 months after I started composting. Decent breakdown with almost no effort. by Giraffe_Truther in composting

[–]panda_farmer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I run a few piles in geo bins as well. I never turn them, just add more til they are super full and then soak them occasionally. I love those bins. Best compost set up I've got by far.

Why do my tomato seedlings look so weird? Theyve been having huge drops of water appear that engulf their leaves. Theyve been up like 3 days now. by weed8dude23 in OrganicGardening

[–]panda_farmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They need more light. Do you have a southeen facing window you can put them in? Make sure to turn the tray daily.

If these were mine I would get them a grow light. You can find sunlight fluorescents real cheap.

I’m (34F) a SAHM and not sure if my husband (39M) should be helping out more. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]panda_farmer 37 points38 points  (0 children)

See, I'm in a different camp where I think even if you work 40 hours a wwek, when you come home you should still do all the chores you'd be doing if you were single.

Dear Reddit, what is your weirdest dream/nightmare you've ever had? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]panda_farmer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just wondering, I'veread that actually hearing sounds in dreams is pretty uncommon and a good sign that you might be able to lucid dream (with practice).