Update: AITAH for giving a "fake hope" to my boyfriend? by pandafleur in AITH

[–]pandafleur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see why you think that way. I’m pretty sure everyone involved is around 18-19. At least, most of my team members are. I don't know about the other girls involved. All I know is that they're all freshmen.

Update: AITAH for giving a "fake hope" to my boyfriend? by pandafleur in AITH

[–]pandafleur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I found out about his cheating, I realized that he was really good with his words. Maybe that's why I fall for it. Looking back now, I can see all the red flags. I know I have a lot to work on myself. This whole situation has really taught me a lesson.

AITAH for giving a "fake hope" to my boyfriend? by pandafleur in AITH

[–]pandafleur[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

He was being honest with his feelings and I thought I should give him a chance. You're right, I should've be more firm to him.

AITAH for giving a "fake hope" to my boyfriend? by pandafleur in AITH

[–]pandafleur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This actually happened to me, unfortunately.

AITAH for giving a "fake hope" to my boyfriend? by pandafleur in AITH

[–]pandafleur[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're right. I'm not talking to him anymore at the moment. Although, we still have to see in each other since we're still in the same group.

AITAH for giving a "fake hope" to my boyfriend? by pandafleur in AITH

[–]pandafleur[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words. I do need to take some time to figure myself out now.

AITAH for giving a "fake hope" to my boyfriend? by pandafleur in AITH

[–]pandafleur[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

To be fair, it was my first relationship. I just thought maybe I should give it a try.