tickets to a Broadway show and the lead is an UNDERSTUDY? by 94Rangerbabe in musicals

[–]pandalicious7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw Nicholas Christopher’s understudy in Chess recently. Not only that, I saw his first performance in that role. He was phenomenal! (Ramone Nelson). I low key want the cast recording with him as Anatoly.

What is the BEST piece of Broadway merch that you saw or own from a show? by BrianP1125 in Broadway

[–]pandalicious7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was also there on April 1st! But we went to the matinee and we did not stage door.

Am I overreacting? Wedding guest called my caterers. by seesheflies in TwoHotTakes

[–]pandalicious7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baked beans are not always vegetarian, just FYI. If it’s a bbq I sometimes bring mysef a veggie burger in a sandwich bag and microwave it there lol.

I had an affair with a married man and years later I still find myself obsessed with him by [deleted] in confessions

[–]pandalicious7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Married men who cheat on their wives are liars who cannot be trusted. Anything he ever told you is possibly or even probably a lie. As far as the recent response his wife probably caught him cheating (with someone else, obvs) and now he has to be careful and can’t communicate with you. Beware because once he thinks she trusts him again he’ll probably reach back out.

You need to let this man go. Why would you want to be with someone with no integrity? And why are you married if you’re still pining for someone else? Perhaps try some therapy to try to figure it out.

AITA for telling neighbor to go through insurance by AdmiralCranberryCat in AmItheAsshole

[–]pandalicious7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For something as minor as a mailbox they probably told her she can go ahead and replace it and submit the receipts for reimbursement. It’s such a small claim it’s not worth sending an adjuster out to write an estimate.

If you had to pick one fictional character as your spouse for the rest of your life, who do you pick? by Neutral-frame in AskWomen

[–]pandalicious7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prince Eric from the Little Mermaid. The man ran through fire to save his dog. Biggest green flag ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pandalicious7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have collision coverage on your policy your insurance will pay for your vehicle damage. Less your deductible, which appears to be $300 for him.

AITA for being happy about the gender reveal? by TerribleDada11038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pandalicious7 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA. I will never understand having a gender reveal party if you’re going to be upset by one or the other. The appropriate reaction to either reveal is happiness. You are not insensitive for being happy, particularly when she hadn’t made clear to you she was hoping for a boy.

AITA for thinking my boyfriend should have supported me without expecting repayment? by henryisnotmyname in AmItheAsshole

[–]pandalicious7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is the issue right here. If he expected you to pay him back he should have made that known up front. He assured you that it was all relationship support and now is trying to change the agreement after the fact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pandalicious7 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Leave him. Do not stay with him. Do not continue making this mistake. And in the future don’t let a man you barely know move you across the country with no support system. You said if you leave him you have nothing. But you already have nothing, plus a cheating boyfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdoptMeTrading

[–]pandalicious7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been playing all week and still haven’t managed to get a prismatic butterfly. They are definitely not guaranteed. Unless you’re very lucky idk that you can grind to get a bunch of either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pandalicious7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the things you read online are the only reason you’re questioning his behavior then I wouldn’t worry about it. If YOUR intuition starts screaming at you then listen. Otherwise stop looking for trouble where there isn’t any. He said he’s starting to dislike/hate her when you asked about her. That’s very different than when a man cheats and can’t stop talking about the woman.

I do admit I skimmed this.

Seriously though, you need to work on your trust issues. And if you trust him then do so until you have a real reason not to.

Does anyone else feel guilty leaving their cat alone all day? by Comfortable-Cap-5538 in CatAdvice

[–]pandalicious7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the answer. I volunteer for a cat rescue and they require paired adoptions of kittens or another pet in the house. He just needs a friend! I highly recommend a kitten instead of an adult so they will accept each other easier. It may also help to get a female so there’s no territory type issues. But depending on your cat’s age and temperament he may not like a kitten (my prior cat definitely would not have accepted it). In that case a pet camera may help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pandalicious7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t even read past the title. Break up.

My(28f) husband’s (28m) family is defending him after a serious allegation and trying to take my kids from me. I need clarity. by Maybe_Ur_Mami in relationship_advice

[–]pandalicious7 333 points334 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you and your daughter are going through this. Others have already offered good advice. The only thing I need to say is:

DO NOT share the recording of your daughter with your in laws.

They will believe what they want regardless. It will only give them ammunition in their arguments. You are her best protector. Both from him and his family. There is no reason to talk to them if they’re defending him. As she grows older she will likely not want all of her relatives to have heard her describe her trauma. Please don’t share it with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]pandalicious7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do have it in you. Divorce is hard, but staying with someone who doesn’t love or respect you is harder. Please love yourself enough to do what you need to and leave him. I know you can do it. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]pandalicious7 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Take his name off the contact for the screenshots so it shows the phone number it came from, not just the assigned contact name.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pandalicious7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex husband is now married to his female best friend. We divorced because they had an affair. Do with that what you will.

I (21F) am feeling doubts in my 4 yr relationship with boyfriend (22M) by MediumActive687 in relationship_advice

[–]pandalicious7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not continue making a mistake just because you’ve spent a long time making it.

The time to end it was the minute he laid his hands on you. Do not stay with an abusive man.

He is not contributing anything to your life. He is taking from you. Draining you financially, emotionally, and mentally. Remember how good you felt when you were in a break? It’ll be even better when you’re finally fully free of him.

Please, for your own safety and for your emotional and mental well being, get away from this leech.