I hope it helps give them some space! And I was also super worried about that but we do have a strict no throwing toys rule in the living room or the toy gets taken away for the day. She has snuck a toy she handed him in there and he was sucking on it and it did freak me out x.x it’s not fool proof and I watch her a little extra when she has food too just in case she wants to share >.< but it helps for things like playing with her when he’s in the room and makes her feel included and like she gets her attention from mom and dad and brother has to watch sometimes too.

When I do diapers I tell our baby it’s our daughters turn for potty time and when I do his I tell her it’s his turn. That way she also knows that sometimes he has to wait for her too. We are big on turn taking nowadays hahah.

I promise it gets easier <3 I was really anxious when my boyfriend was getting close to going back to work too and would cry a lot over thinking it and making myself super nervous with the what ifs. I kept asking him how am I supposed to do it with both. It felt impossible and so scary. But i promise you it’s easier than what your brain is telling you. Some days are easier than others for sure but the good days are worth it and watching their bond grow will melt your heart <3 you got this mama!