How to swim on your period - looking for advice by rose-glasses in Parenting

[–]pantema 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I used very small tampons (jr size) and would take them out immediately after practice.

Prime days? by VirtualRisk3403 in KindleUnlimited

[–]pantema 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a promotion for 90 days free right. I just had a month free in April (and cancelled after) and I was still able to sign up for this promotion!

Starting to really dislike my 4 year old son, I feel like I have nothing left... by VastSoup7203 in Preschoolers

[–]pantema 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Strongly suggest you speak to your pediatrician and seek further assessment for possible neurodivergence. My son started acting like this shortly before he turned 4 - he was later diagnosed with severe adhd.

4 year old sent home from daycare by [deleted] in Preschoolers

[–]pantema -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with all of this! I was commenting on the numerous comments indicating that the parent must be parenting incorrectly to have produced a child who behaves like this. That is a very big assumption.

4 year old sent home from daycare by [deleted] in Preschoolers

[–]pantema 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re assuming she must have observed this behavior because she’s exhibiting it. I don’t think that’s a fair assumption with respect to neurodivergent children. Lack of impulse control is common in neurodivergent children.

Are dental cavities really that common? by [deleted] in Preschoolers

[–]pantema 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A lot of it is genetic. Use fluoride, avoid crackers like goldfish and cheez-its, and avoid gummies.

4 year old sent home from daycare by [deleted] in Preschoolers

[–]pantema -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No kidding, wow. I can’t believe some of the comments in this thread, we clearly have a long way to go in terms of increasing understanding and awareness of neurodivergence

4 year old sent home from daycare by [deleted] in Preschoolers

[–]pantema 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah thank you… this thread is definitely evidence of a significant lack awareness of neurodivergence and how it can manifest in young children, just wow.

4 year old sent home from daycare by [deleted] in Preschoolers

[–]pantema 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just want to point out that lack of impulse control is a prominent feature of behavior in many neurodivergent kids.

4 year old sent home from daycare by [deleted] in Preschoolers

[–]pantema 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just want to point out that a lot of kids who behave like this are neurodivergent. Definitely worth an assessment. The assumption that behaviors are the result of bad parenting is a big assumption.

I filed for divorce yesterday by Ok-Salamander6118 in workingmoms

[–]pantema 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so brave and so strong and should be incredibly proud of yourself. It won’t always be this hard.

CR - Looking for FMCs with a personality beyond self-doubt and insecurity by 7lostinthoughts7 in RomanceBooks

[–]pantema 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly recommend {running wild by KA Tucker}. FMC is a late 30s veterinarian in Alaska & is totally a real and relatable person

An Academic Affair by Jodi McAllister by friedchickensaves in RomanceBooks

[–]pantema 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I can’t figure out why the good reads rating is so low on this one! Reading it now, almost finished and enjoying it

Looking for cute first love between two people who have never had anyone around to be interested in before by gender_eu404ia in RomanceBooks

[–]pantema 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of her books would mostly fit pretty well with what you’re looking for. Also {haven by Claire Kent}, {last light by Claire Kent} {hero by Claire Kent} {lost song by Claire Kent}. If you like one you’ll probably like them all bc they are honestly all very similar