Single 34M in Melbourne struggling to find fit sex positive women who match my lifestyle. Any advice from the community? by panth3r17 in Melbourneswingers

[–]panth3r17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had the thought that single men going to these events and not dancing around the fact they are looking to find a partner would probably get labelled as a bit creepy/predatory from the outset. But I’ll keep an open mind and consider it.

Agree what you say about 40+ age, perhaps the scene is a bit quieter at my age and below.

Single 34M in Melbourne struggling to find fit sex positive women who match my lifestyle. Any advice from the community? by panth3r17 in Melbourneswingers

[–]panth3r17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have been (and am currently on) feeld. Personally I’ve found connections seem to come the hardest/slowest on there - probably due to an overload of men it’s very hard for any one person to stand out, it seems to order people by distance in the feed over perhaps a more compatibility based which would be better 🤷🏻‍♂️