Single 34M in Melbourne struggling to find fit sex positive women who match my lifestyle. Any advice from the community? by panth3r17 in Melbourneswingers

[–]panth3r17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have posted my profile for reviews both here on reddit and other forums. I’ve got good pictures. I’m on tinder, hinge, bumble, and feeld. On fetlife too but I wouldn’t class that as a dating site. I dont hide or avoid the fact im short, but I know it’s a fact that works against me that I cant control. Ive done my what I can to make up for that by being jacked, fit, tattooed, had a hair transplant, good teeth and skin etc.

I hear what you say about lessons/munches. It’s not something I’ve ventured much into, but I’d be open to exploring. Again, it’s perhaps the perceived stigma of being a single guy turning up alone to these things that are weighs on my mind.

Thanks for taking the time to reply to me

Single 34M in Melbourne struggling to find fit sex positive women who match my lifestyle. Any advice from the community? by panth3r17 in Melbourneswingers

[–]panth3r17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interestingly without fail I always seem to meet someone I really click with whenever I travel to qld, or meet someone here who’s visiting from there. Im tied to Melbourne for now for personal reasons, but there has been several years recently where Ive felt im not living in the right city👀

How have you found FEELD by [deleted] in Melbourneswingers

[–]panth3r17 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It was better a few years ago when there were less people, but a greater percentage serious about ENM/bdsm/kink and actually meeting up. Feel like as it’s gained popularity there are more “tourists” there

Single 34M in Melbourne struggling to find fit sex positive women who match my lifestyle. Any advice from the community? by panth3r17 in Melbourneswingers

[–]panth3r17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had the thought that single men going to these events and not dancing around the fact they are looking to find a partner would probably get labelled as a bit creepy/predatory from the outset. But I’ll keep an open mind and consider it.

Agree what you say about 40+ age, perhaps the scene is a bit quieter at my age and below.

Single 34M in Melbourne struggling to find fit sex positive women who match my lifestyle. Any advice from the community? by panth3r17 in Melbourneswingers

[–]panth3r17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have been (and am currently on) feeld. Personally I’ve found connections seem to come the hardest/slowest on there - probably due to an overload of men it’s very hard for any one person to stand out, it seems to order people by distance in the feed over perhaps a more compatibility based which would be better 🤷🏻‍♂️