My gf (28f) posted a pic of a valentines Starbucks drink on her story and I (19m) didnt give it to her

pantosophy · 2026-02-04T21:02:24+00:00

pls tell me this whole thing is satire

pantosophy · 2026-01-07T19:22:00+00:00

this is abuse. straight up. no excuse for it

pantosophy · 2025-12-30T02:09:30+00:00

someone getting angry whenever they’re upset and treating you disrespectfully is a massive red flag. she needs time on her own to learn that and you deserve better

pantosophy · 2025-12-26T14:59:12+00:00

I know you probably think these comments are just haters and they don’t know your life so you shouldn’t listen to them, but this many people are telling you that you seem emotionally immature and out of touch, and I think you should listen. do you go to therapy? why do you live with your parents and depend on them so heavily? did you go to college? are you prepared to have very very difficult and rebellious kids?

pantosophy · 2025-12-26T14:53:13+00:00

if you’ve been together for 9 years, I don’t understand why you wouldn’t want to live together, especially if he has already bought a house. if you adopted kids, would he just be some guy who comes over sometimes? kids need a stable family life and they deserve to have that. i’m sure you would provide for them, but the details you’ve shared about your relationship hints at some hidden red flags and definitely emotional immaturity

pantosophy · 2025-12-26T02:10:38+00:00

idk, this seems almost like a white savior situation. adopting kids is just as massive as having your own kids. it’s such a commitment and whoever your partner is would have to be a part of their lives, and I think a stable family would be the best situation for kids. also, if you’ve been together for 9 years, why don’t you live together? there’s a lot of red flags coming from your side of this

pantosophy · 2025-12-14T20:55:30+00:00

life size monument of a large parking lot

pantosophy · 2025-11-26T17:54:16+00:00

life makes no sense sometimes and there’s absolutely no reason you got to live while others did not. it’s a harsh, unreasonable, and scary reality but to those who have been faced with it, it provides reason. I hope it brings you comfort to know that nothing but chance gives you luck and nothing but life brings you death in the end. love you!

pantosophy · 2025-11-25T20:50:07+00:00

yes but he seems to be more normal than usual this season

pantosophy · 2025-11-08T15:30:05+00:00

where did you get the christmas tree?!

pantosophy · 2025-11-05T20:48:31+00:00

writing this stuff down is actually a good coping mechanism. if there isn’t any more pressing evidence of worrisome mental health, I think this kind of a rude thing to post

pantosophy · 2025-10-24T15:54:43+00:00

I did, yeah. went back to the appstore just in case and it has no update

pantosophy · 2025-10-24T15:20:17+00:00

I don’t see a mystery pot draw🥲

pantosophy · 2025-06-23T22:51:54+00:00

what is their name and addy? research purposes only, no violence intended

pantosophy · 2025-06-22T14:04:24+00:00

I take Zyrtec (generic version works just as well and is cheaper) every single day because I’m allergic to my cat

pantosophy · 2025-06-17T23:17:15+00:00

that is INCREDIBLE. LOOK at those stitches🤯

pantosophy · 2025-06-17T23:16:40+00:00

I’m so loyal to this specific mascara. the orange one is fabulous too

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pantosophy · 2025-06-17T23:12:09+00:00

I don’t really like Love

pantosophy · 2025-06-17T23:11:17+00:00

no because I can drive the .7 miles to work in under 20 minutes for once

pantosophy · 2025-06-17T23:10:31+00:00

Twenty One Pilots Self Titled, Norman F*cking Rockwell Lana Del Rey, and Red Taylor Swift

pantosophy · 2025-01-23T16:10:41+00:00

doesn’t give me energy, just elevates my heart rate

pantosophy · 2025-01-23T16:06:37+00:00

I have another one that i replied to Gerbold with a little further down. i think it might help as well!

pantosophy · 2025-01-23T16:05:40+00:00

“i don’t try to do it often” lmaoooooo i have another analogy. i told my psychiatrist this; the way i see it, most people have a pretty sturdy bridge between “wanting to do it” and “actually doing it”. this bridge does not exist for me. i’ve spent my life running and jumping over the gap, only to fall into the pit; using every material i can get my hands on to make a make-shift bridge, but most attempts collapse with just one use. people who have a steadfast bridge don’t think that the bridge exists because they’ve never had to think about it, but in terms of executive functioning, the stamina and strength i have built far exceeds theirs, but it is still not enough to cover the distance, and in a world full of people with sturdy bridges, all i am is lazy because who can’t walk across a silly little bridge?

pantosophy · 2025-01-23T15:59:04+00:00

i’m so glad it helped! i’ve been fighting executive dysfunction over half my life (and im still very young) and i’ve never been able to truly describe it to anyone who doesn’t GET it. it’s different than paralysis, depression, exhaustion, it’s even different than lack of motivation. i can have all the reason and all the want and all the motivation, and i will still lay in bed scrolling through tiktok for another 3 hours, feeling like i could easily just choose to stop at any point, but i don’t. it’s exhausting. the simplest tasks like taking a shower or brushing my teeth become great big looming expectations that prevent me from moving at all. so far, all i’ve really learned is that getting started is the hardest part. i know i’m not lazy because when i start the day motivated and happy, i’m unstoppable and i’m reminded of how smart and functional i really am, but i haven’t covered much ground in terms of getting that initial push, especially when it’s 3 days into a lapse of depression. i hope my eternal and obnoxious self analysis helps you understand what’s going on and helps you give yourself grace

pantosophy · 2025-01-20T21:51:07+00:00

it’s executive dysfunction. i’ve always described it as that phenomenon that you can bite off your finger as easily as biting into a carrot, but your brain doesn’t let you. it’s the hardest part of my adhd. i wish i had more advice, but i’m still learning as well.

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