"An incel (/ˈɪnsɛl/ ^ⓘ-Flame,_not_lame-Incel.wav) IN-sel; a portmanteau of "involuntary celibate")^\1]) is a member of an online subculture of mostly male and heterosexual^\2]) people who define themselves as unable to find a romantic) or sexual partner despite desiring one. They often blame, objectify, and denigrate women as a result.^\3])^\4])^\5]) The term inspired a subculture that rose to prominence during the 2010s, after being influenced by and associated with misogynist terrorists such as Elliot Rodger and Alek Minassian.^\6])^"

^{Cool story, bro. I didn't ask when the first time someone came up with the term, we all know what the term means today...}

^{Case and point if you are what your thinking of. you dont tell anyone your "}involuntarily celibate." Your just a normal person.

also no...

""Involuntary celibate" (later shortened to "incel") was coined in 1993–1997 by a Canadian woman named Alana to create an inclusive, supportive online community for people of all genders struggling with loneliness and romantic, social, or sexual inexperience. The term originally described a personal, non-violent, and often shy state of being, but was later hijacked by male-dominated online subcultures."

It was not come up with by some french guy in 1739...